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*alijackson
writes:HelloI am very confused at the moment, my ex broke up with me a year ago, and a couple of months ago i found out through FB (he wasn't very careful with his privacy) that he was dating this other girl (much younger) and apparently he was very happy with her, at first i was okay thinking well he found someone else and everything's going to be alright for both of us, since during those 2 months i hadnt seen him (we work together and i was out of the office since i had surgery) but he kept in contact pretending or actually caring for my health, the thing is that i also met someone else and am or thought i was very happy with him, not thinking about my ex at all and just looking forward a great time with my current bf, but a couple of days ago my ex started flirting with me at the office and might've kissed me once or twice, i didnt reject the kiss and went for it, now i am very confused because he has his girlfriend and i have my boyfriend and obviously he's not looking to get back with me ... i need help :(I've started to miss my ex and im worried because i know my boyfriend won't forgive me if he finds out i made out with my ex
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reader, babyparis +, writes (5 January 2012):
 i been where you are i think you should just leave him alone you two can still speak but nothing more. he probably dont want you to be happy with out him so he's gonna try and string you alone. he cant have his cake and eat it too
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (5 January 2012):
 Would you forgive your boyfriend if he had done the same? Be fair to the poor guy. Tell him the truth and give him the chance to decide for himself whether or not being with you is what he wants, and what's best for him. You said you are, or thought you were happy with him. Which one is it?
Denise has a point, but if it came out another way, that looks horrible. It's better you tell him yourself than him find out another way. The things we hide have a nasty habit of coming out in the end.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (5 January 2012):
 Well, it was a relatively minor indiscretion. So, unless you REALLY want to get back with your ex (not a good idea because relationships end for a reason, and the issues that were present then, are likely to re-surface).
Perhaps you should just stay away from your ex - and if necessary, tell you have a boyfriend; he has a girlfriend, and it's best left at that.
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