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She dumped me but she keeps asking if I'm dating someone?
Q. Hi my exGF dumped me two months ago to go back to her exBF of two years ago.we only lasted like 8 months, sometimes we see online and she starts talking and everytime we do she asks me if I'm dating someone, sometimes I tell her I do and sometimes ...
A. 19 June 2009: It sounds to me like she dont know rather or not she want to be with her ex.So she wants you to be there if it dont work out.You need to move on with your life and dont let her in on the details of your life.She dumped you so she dont need to know ... (read in full...)
He cheated on me so I burned all of his things!
Q. Lets cut to the chase, shall we? my boyfriend and I were dating for a good year and three months. I am sixteen and he is eighteen. I thought we were in love, he bought me a promise ring for our one year. i honestly thought i would spend th...
A. 18 June 2009: I think it will all come down to how hard he wants to push it.If he even wants to go infront of a room full of ppl and say yea I cheated but stil.......Yea he may do it but I dont see it.... (read in full...)
I have sex with girls but think I like guys more
Q. I am a young man. I like girls i yave sex with them and its good but i think i'm interested in boys more. i look up boys (their hips,penis) much more than girls. I live in a very conservative country so don't know what to do? There is a question in ...
A. 18 June 2009: If you dont know whether you are gay or srtaight but want a label for if call it bi untill you figure out what one you are. Just be you, dont be what others think you should be or whatever. Follow your heart head and body, you will know in no time.... (read in full...)
What should I do about all of this? Wise opinions needed!
Q. Hi I have quite a hard question to ask. I have fallen in love for the first time and it is the greatest feeling i've ever felt in my life. I'm sure a lot of you have been there before when you don't even notice anyone else it's quite funny ...
A. 17 June 2009: My advice to you is to be her friend the one she can talk to about anything and everything.You dont have to stop loving her but you do need to stop chasing her or you are going to run her out of your life.You are both so young you dont know whats ... (read in full...)
How can I get that cheerful girl back?
Q. please bear with me and read this people.. i need as many opinions as possible.... i dumped my gf cuz i didnt love her... i deeply care for her though... she has become devastated... lost faith in relationships and has become extremely low esteemed ...
A. 17 June 2009: As long as you are right there all the time for her she will never try to move on with her life.I know you think you are helping her but in all reality you are making it worse on her.I think she needs to try to move on with her life and you do as ... (read in full...)
He says abortion, but it was something that never crossed my mind
Q. so im about 3 months preg, i tell my boyfriend and the first thing out of his mouth is ABORTION, didnt really give me much option... what should i do.. i mean i have two kids already i really dont need another one (financially) and i obviously cant ...
A. 15 June 2009: I am 24 I got preg and was sooooo happy cuz I want a baby so bad.A month later I lost the baby found out I had cervical cancer.Now after my surgeys to get rid of the cancer they do not know if I will ever be abole to have a baby.And it kills me.My ... (read in full...)
He's divorced but still lives in the same house with her and wants to stay over with me sometimes... I don't feel it's right. What do you think?
Q. Dear cupid, I have had a good friend for almost 14 years and we have dated off and on until the last seven years. we went our separate ways and he got married and had a family with someone else and so did I. So now i am separated getting divorced...
A. 15 June 2009: dont make him a prioity when he is only making you an option.He needs to get him a place and be on his own before the two of you try anything.He may be getting divorced but if they still live together whos to say they may not have a change of heart ... (read in full...)
I cheated on her but I love her!
Q. um this is sorta weird but here goes, I'm in a situation were i cheated on the girl i love. i'm only 14 but i know i'm in love because whenever i hear her voice or see her my heart pounds and i get realy hot and she makes me feel good and happy. w...
A. 15 June 2009: ok you are 14 you need to be 14 you have your whole life to love.You cant fully love untill you have lusted.I know it sucks but you need to be 14 for now and when you are older if its right yall will be together untill then you realy do need to stop ... (read in full...)
I don't trust her when she goes out with her mates.
Q. Hello there, I'm currently in a relationship with this girl (for almost a year now.) She is really outgoing and a mostly a nice person. But she likes to go out a lot, with her 'girlfriends'. This bothers me somewhat, because all sorts of g...
A. 14 June 2009: ok Ihave to agree on the whole Communication and trust being very big thing.I think if she cared about you as much as you seem to for her she would invite you along.I mean I can see her wanting to go out with the girls from time to time but all the ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend but can't help it!
Q. I'm in love with my best friend and i cant help it. I want to tell him but I dont want to ruin our friendship. He is the perfect guy for me, he's funny, smart, cute, romantic and well perfect for me. He's constantly flirting with me, hugging me ...
A. 14 June 2009: ok well I has this same problem a few years back.My best friend in the world I didnt want to lose him but I had to ask what if.I held off for a while and watched him go from bad female to bad female.Finally I was like to hell with it if it workds ... (read in full...)
Should I tell him about my past?
Q. I wrote in my other question about how i got raped by my bro in law and my sister chose him over me. And i asked whether if i was right or my sister was. But this time ive got another problem. I am gettin into a serious relationship about who my ...
A. 14 June 2009: ok I had a realllly bad childhood I was raped by my moms ex whom she was with from when I was 3 till I was 13 and couldnt take it anymore.And finaly was just like ok dead is better then this so I told my mom. I think this is going to come down to ... (read in full...)
Should I pursue my long distance boyfriend?
Q. Simple question! Should I pursue my long distance boyfriend? I love him. He is with someone else though? Should I pursue him?...
A. 14 June 2009: ok so dont get me wrong I know deep down you want to go get your man and so on and it sucks when the man you want is moving on.But if you want to see hwta can be just let him know your there try to strike up a friendship if he wants you then you ... (read in full...)
She wants me to live with her on the other side of the world but I'm not ready to leave my friends and family... help!
Q. I have a huge problem. Its getting me down, and Ive no idea what to do. Ive been with this woman in a long distance relationship since last november, before this she lived in the uk. She moved to the other side of the world, but because we love ...
A. 14 June 2009: ok so if you are in love with her and you think she is the one then you could always go visit her and just see if you like it.I know new places can seem scarey and not knowing anyone at the new place sucks.But its also half the fun.My hubby and I ... (read in full...)
How long after a break up is it acceptable to start dating again?
Q. Hi there. Where to start. It all started about 4 months when I met this really great girl at a job programme scheme. At first I just saw her as a possible new friend. But after a week we were talking everyday. Either online or by texting. But ...
A. 14 June 2009: Be there for her as her friend for now.Since they was together for so long right now a friend is what she needs as well as time.If she likes you she will let you know when she is ready to move on then you will be there but untill then just be there ... (read in full...)
His facebook activitie worry, irritate and annoy me!
Q. My guy has dumped me uncountable times even on facebook (blah blah ended their relationship) He flirts with almost every gal, and some of them have a crush on him. He inboxes his ex fuck buddy that his loins burn for her and he misses her, he even ...
A. 13 June 2009: ok I think deep down you know what you got to do.If you cant trust the guy then you dont need to be with him.Trust is #1.Once it is broken it takes a very long time to get back and the way he is going he dont want it back.If you are with him just to ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to finalize things or should I give him another chance?
Q. Married 27yrs, together for 29yrs. I have been unhappy for many years. Not because he is bad, just because I think I married him for the wrong reasons. I recently moved out because I finally decided life is too short to be unhappy. Now, I'm ...
A. 13 June 2009: If you go back just to make him happy it will make you both unhappy in the end.You cant put on a happy face and walk thru life or you will burst at the seems.If he really loves you he should see how unhappy you truly are and want more for you.... (read in full...)
If we keep spending time together will it change his mind about a relationship?
Q. I still like my ex boyfriend, and i know now that he doesnt want to date me. When we talked about it, his exact words were "i dont want any relationships, i just wanna fuck." Do you think if we kept sending time together that he would change his ...
A. 13 June 2009: It sounds to me like he wants to keep you around for now to get what he wants from you.But I think when he finds somone else.He will be gone for real.So dont give him your time just to get hurt in the end.The time he is wanting from you could and ... (read in full...)
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