Am I just confused and homophobic?
Q. I'm 15 year old girl and I'm a High school Freshman. I've always been a boy-crazy person. I mean I love guys so much, I go as far as having 7 crushes at the same time, and I used to be a tomboy, but I got over that last year. The problem is that I ...
A. 20 February 2011: IMO, your parents can really influence you how you think. It really depends on the person and how they take it. Homophobia is more than just gross out by an act of kiss of the same gender. The word phobia means having an irrational fear of ... (read in full...)
Why do this if she had a boyfriend?
Q. My best girl friend and I walk home from school almost every day and about 3 weeks ago we started holding hand and arms round waist when walking. Then she told me she had a bf so what was the point of all of the holding hands and being close?...
A. 18 February 2011: You really got to ask her because we can't speak for her. I'm thinking, maybe she wants and enjoy the attention? Maybe she sees you as a brother? IDK. I do that only when I consider someone as my brother.
Different answer for everyone. ... (read in full...)
My Bestfriend is flirting with my Boyfriend.....what do I do?
Q. My Friend BH has been flirting with my boy friend a lot lately and I don't feel very comfortable about it. I don't know if he has realized it or not but he is not stopping it and I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him to think I'...
A. 17 February 2011: Your boyfriend's private space is his, but he is also suppose to be smart about the decision he makes. Apparently, he doesn't seem be understanding the situation here. You're not comfortable with everything. I see no jealousy but only concern which ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with my older girlfriend? Or should I break up with her and go for the other girl?
Q. Hi, I really need help with an issue that I suppose has been going on for a while now. The answer may be really easy but I just don't know what to do. I have been in a relationship with an older woman for the last 3 years. She is 12 years older t...
A. 17 February 2011: How could a grown woman act like a child herself? If you guys disagree on everything, it's going to be a tough one and it already has. Dissimilarity creates more disliking than similarity creates liking. Sometimes you gotta to do what you gotta do, ... (read in full...)
I'm 19, he's 15. Should we not date?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i think there's a chance that i might be going crazyy. on saturday, i was at the mall with a friend, and we ended up meeting three of her friends and hanging out with them for a while. one of those friends happened to be t...
A. 17 February 2011: Don't date. It doesn't matter if he's mature or looks older than he is. Law says you'll be convicted as a sex offender. I'm sure you don't want that, right? ... (read in full...)
So...does size really matter? Let's put it to rest.
Q. A good friend of mine let’s call him S is going through a very tough, emasculating time. A girlfriend of his made comments to her friends, stating that while she really enjoyed being with him, and that he was a great guy both emotionally and ...
A. 16 February 2011: Honestly, I don't know or care (atm) because I am not sexually active yet. However, if all she cares about is HER own pleasure, then dump her. Besides, you also said that she is immature and insensitive for making such comment. Dump her. ... (read in full...)
I feel jealous and sad when no one comments when I make remarks on face book
Q. Hi There, I know I'm a good person both inside and out however, is it normal to feel rather jealous or sad that whenever I make a comment on my page on FB no one responses or comments on my comments or thoughts? It seems that these "friends" ...
A. 16 February 2011: Well, I kind of understand you. I get "jealous" sometimes but I realize that I don't care if people respond to my comments or not. Perhaps they don't have a lot to say or it doesn't need to be responded too.
Don't take it too hard if someone ... (read in full...)
I'm very distant and impersonal with everyone. I don't know why I can't stop being this way
Q. Ok this is my very first time trying to seek advise but I really need some answers... for as long as I can remember now I have been distant towards everyone... my family, friends, in all my relationships... I'm just very impersonal and wish I could ...
A. 16 February 2011: blonde30s said it all. Do you remember any hurt in the past? Even as young as a kid? I hear a trust pattern struggle. Like me, I struggle with trust too. This might be more than just trust issue but maybe pain and hurt.
Finding those lies can... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a woman to chase a man?
Q. I'm confused with my role as a woman in the flirting section of a relationship. I've been told plenty of times that it's the man that really must take the first steps but I feel I'm a very dominant woman (and I can tend to choose men that are ...
A. 16 February 2011: Don't like the rule book? Throw it out. But the law still apply to the fact that you are an adult and he's NOT one yet...You might want to change the age range or wait until he's 18.... (read in full...)
Why do people think teenage romances can never grow?
Q. I just want to understand. Why do some people think teenage relationships can never grow till the two in love are old? I know that some teenagers are just dating, going through drama, but you're doing a childish thing setting a stereo-type on a...
A. 15 February 2011: I also forgot to say that age usually comes with experience and gained intelligence. You still have a lot more to learn but be happy with what you have now. ... (read in full...)
Why do people think teenage romances can never grow?
Q. I just want to understand. Why do some people think teenage relationships can never grow till the two in love are old? I know that some teenagers are just dating, going through drama, but you're doing a childish thing setting a stereo-type on a...
A. 15 February 2011: I'm very surprised what you wrote, emotionally intimate. MOST teenagers do not know the difference and cannot tell the difference what you wrote. Love is for all ages but how many young girls know the difference? AT least for me, the reason why I... (read in full...)
How to tell a girl you're dating that you're a virgin?
Q. Hi, I'm a 27 years old guy and I have never had sex in my life. It's an bothering fact especially when you live among people for whom it's no big deal to have sex from younger ages. The reason i haven't had sex so far may sound stupid but it's alw...
A. 14 February 2011: If you're JUST going to date her, then it's NOT nessecary for you to tell her that you're a virgin...Unless you guys are planning to have sex on you first date. You being a virgin is your privacy and your right to keep it a secret. It's called ... (read in full...)
18 and I've never had a boyfriend...
Q. Hey. I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I haven't had my first kiss yet. I find it kind of embarrassing because most of my friends have lost their virginity by now and been a few relationships. The reason I haven't had any experience with guys ...
A. 14 February 2011: Your "friends" need to realize that there are people out there who are still single, are virgins, never dated, and are still "innocent" (if that's how you want to call it). Yes, they are judging and I'm sure they wouldn't want to be judge if they ... (read in full...)
He just doesn't respect the way I feel
Q. I'm 16 and have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months, it's been great I liked him for a while before we went out so I've been seeing this relationship as a bit of a dream. But recently he's been blowing me off at dates to hang out other girls who I ...
A. 14 February 2011: Two words: dump him. If he doesn't respect you, you have no reasons to stay with him despite how much you two are in love. I believe that every woman and every young girl do not deserve to be disrespect by their men. ... (read in full...)
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