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... Send *unty chrissie a private message | | | *unty chrissie's profile:i am chris and i dont know the answer to everything the same as anyone else, but i do have opinions and lifes experiences. i will do my best and sometimes remember the truth hurts. i have been a counselor, and dealt with many different problems. i live in the cotswolds. i am married for the second time, have children grandchildren, and feel i do understand many people, but if i couldnt help anyone i wouldnt just write an answer for the sake of it. |
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Am I being just another married man who wants to have his cake & eat it?
Q. I should start by saying that this is going to sound very stupid coming from a 57 year old man, but it is honestly causing me a great dilemma. Over the last 6 years we have spent many fantastic holidays in Phuket, staying in the same res...
A. 12 June 2008: hi there, what a predicament you have got yourself into.well im in my 50s too and married so we have at least that in common.isnt it such a pity that the honeymoon period in our marriages have to fade. but it happens, and you have to be strong ... (read in full...)
How do I tell whether this older guy like me?
Q. Well this is a rather awkward and confusing situation. Basically, i need to know how to tell if a guy likes me. Heres the story: I've recently broken up with boyfriend because it just wasn't working out and to be quite honest, i wasn't particu...
A. 12 June 2008: hi there, its his job to be friendly and polite and nice, and its your job to have crushes, i did when i was at school, but nothing can happen, so just be nice back and think that he is like that with all his pupils, if you try to take it further ... (read in full...)
Any advice on what we can chat about?
Q. Well I've been talking to this guy since the middle of March and we talk everyday..however lately there has been a lot of silence on the phone its like me and him don't know what to talk about anymore.I was wondering if people could suggest things ...
A. 12 June 2008: hi there, sorry to say this but i think your relationship has got boring, time to move on, imagine what it would be like in 12 months time, hey your young there are plenty of fish in the sea. dont waste your life on someone you cant even find ... (read in full...)
Is he gay? Am I wasting my time by marrying him?
Q. I've been with my fiance' for 2 years now. We got engaged this past November. When we met, we lived about 3 hours apart. We did the long distance relationship for 1 year, and then I moved in with him. We got engaged a few months later. ...
A. 12 June 2008: wow what a situation, im sorry firstly because im not in the same situation, so dont know what you are going through. but even someone who is going through the same thing wont know what you are going through because we are all different and have ... (read in full...)
My husbands lack of sex drive is driving us apart
Q. I have been married for 6 years with one child. My husband and I have been sexless for months. If we complete the act, it will be months before it happens again. I get upset with my husband for his lack of interest. Yet, when he attempts to ...
A. 12 June 2008: i want to put my arms around you and say never mind it will be ok. daft really but im a softy. think back to when this first started and try to see a reason why. can you both talk to each other deeply, because its needed by the sound of it. lifes a ... (read in full...)
I have strong feelings for a married woman and her marriage is a shambles. Please advise me.
Q. I am involved with a married woman,not sexualy but intimantly.We have known each other for about a year. During which time I never shared my feelings until I couldn't resist letting her know. We both knew our feelings were strong for each other. We ...
A. 12 June 2008: you are obviously both adults, and it must be very difficult for you both, but we cant control our feelings. i suppose it has to be said one good thing there arnt any children. less people to worry about. a year is a pretty long time, and you sound ... (read in full...)
Can he really change after sleeping with an escort in our marital home?
Q. Hi, I've been married for 15 years, my husband never showered me with the love and affection I craved for. We have 3 beautiful children. I went away with the children and found out that he had an Escort in our house two days in a row. When I ...
A. 12 June 2008: i feel so sorry for you, well you cant turn the clock back and neither can he, so you either have to end it altogether or forgive and forget. thats the hard bit isnt it, because its not easy, love and hate are very close in a way. shame we cant ... (read in full...)
He's full of contradictions. Can anyone help or explain?
Q. I have been dating a man for 1 yr and 8 months..at the beginning he would write on cards love and if I said I love you he would respond but never would say I love you first...we live in different cities about 2 hours apart. When I am with him he ...
A. 12 June 2008: dont men mix our heads up eh. they give us signals of whta we want then change it. have you tryed to talk to him asked him what the problem is, i expect you have, maybe he bottles things up which is what it sounds like, if hes got lots going on in ... (read in full...)
What are anti-depressants?
Q. what are anti-depressants? My dad told me that they make you happier. I would like to go on them if thats the case but I'm too scared to ask for help. I've been depressed for a long time now. I really need help!...
A. 12 June 2008: hi there, your dad would say that if he is really depressed because a depressed person is very very unhappy without the tablets. how do you know you are depressed what signs have you got. tablets are a very dangerous thing if in the wrong hands and ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher really love me?
Q. Alright here it is,see I have this teacher that I have always thought was very sexy and she only just turned 25.Me and her talk more then I do with my own friends,we always text on our cells phones and call each other and she knows more then she ...
A. 12 June 2008: what should you do eh? she shouldnt be saying things at all to you about anything like that. well you must ignore her, it will pass, how do i know that, because crushes on teachers was going on when i was at school many years ago. this is 100 per ... (read in full...)
What should I do to help motivate me of help me quit weed?
Q. Okay heres the problem Im around the age of 24 and I have a very bad addiction to weed.I want to stop so bad because it's effecting me at my job but i've never felt so good in my life when I smoke. I know it's a dumb thing to do but if I dont st...
A. 12 June 2008: oh god, i feel so sorry for you, my grandaughter who is only 16 also uses it, i have cryed over it because i worry so much. i hear the words i wont get addicted and i wont go onto anything stronger, but i have to say its not so easy to say something ... (read in full...)
His wife told him to leave , should I leave my husband for him?
Q. I am so confused and really don't know what to do. I fell in love with a married man and started having an affair which ended after just 2 months because we couldn't see a future (as we are both married). We both told our partners and agreed that we ...
A. 9 June 2008: ask yourself who you really love, and would it work and do you want it to work with either. the thing is however supportive your hubby is and remember hes the innocent one here, he probably will throw it back in your face from time to time when you ... (read in full...)
What should my next move be to obtain the maximum out of this situation? She is ignoring my calls for now...
Q. Hi, I met a girl on the internet and got on well on a 1st date on a Thursday. Lots in common, held hands, smiled a lot. I phoned her on the sunday, asked whether she wanted to go out on tuesday which she couldn't do. She then offered up friday but ...
A. 9 June 2008: dont do anything just move on, its not the end of the world, if she wants to contact you then she will, if she doesnt contact you surely thats better to be a bit hurt now than a lot later. she may be shy or just doesnt want to tell you that you are ... (read in full...)
What should I do? Leave him in the dust, or keep trying? Can anyone point me in the right direction?
Q. I just recently started spending more and more time with a certain somebody. He a guy, and I am a girl (duh). He is a few years older than me and has an adorable son. The thing is, I'm not sure if either of us cares enough about the other to build a ...
A. 9 June 2008: I think you have answered the question yourself, because you are having doubts then you are not ready for what he is. if you really want to continue seeing him then make it only occasional, but definatly go and live your life you will know when mr. ... (read in full...)
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