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writes:Well I've been talking to this guy since the middle of March and we talk everyday..however lately there has been a lot of silence on the phone its like me and him don't know what to talk about anymore.I was wondering if people could suggest things to talk about or something plz Reply to this Question
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (13 June 2008):
 i agree with tremor. me and my fience have been haveing the same problem. i think about all the stuff we used to talk about... and then i realised that it was all odd stuff. that if people would have heard us, they would have thought we were nuts. hmmmm? i wonder what kinda sandwich she would be? i will have to ask her that one.
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (13 June 2008):
 Ah, nothing like the awkward silence.
I've always found a good technique is to ask really odd questions - I call it the Obscure Question game. For example, if they were a sandwich, what kind would they be? If they had to lose all of their senses but one, which one would they keep? Etc etc etc.
It often helps lead into conversation about things you wouldn't otherwise have thought of.
Just be sure to let the other person know what you're doing, else they'll just think you're a nutter. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2008): I agree with "aunty chrissie", you should have lots to talk about, if there is already a lack of communication, it could indicate boredom or no mutual interests.
Move on, find somebody that you can relate to!
Good luck!
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reader, aunty chrissie  +, writes (12 June 2008):
 hi there, sorry to say this but i think your relationship has got boring, time to move on, imagine what it would be like in 12 months time, hey your young there are plenty of fish in the sea. dont waste your life on someone you cant even find anything to talk about. x
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