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... Send *untie Mel a private message | | | *untie Mel's profile:Hello I'm Mel from the UK and I just want to be able to help people as much as I can.
I'm currently engaged but still live with my family. I am the oldest of 4 girls and am a god-mother to two of my younger sisters. I spend most of my time with my fiancée and my friends.
I'm always helping my friends with there problems and I have been told I am good with advise many times so I decided to set up an agony aunt account.
I am completely willing to answer any type of question and will put all the effort in I possibly can.
I will more than likely write a lot in my answers for I really think things through and think the more detail put in the answer, the more care put into it.
I'm a trust-worthy person and don't discuss others problems with anyone, none of my friends even know I have this account so there is no need to feel embarrassed, I will not discuss any of your problems with anyone else.
If you would like to send me any personal questions via email please do so I'm happy to help.
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Is he genuinely interested in me? What's your view on his actions?
Q. Sorry in advance if this turns quite long ... I don't like skipping details. The other night at the bar I met this guy, lets call him S. I had no idea who he was at first, but one of my friends who was with me did; so I had no problem with it ...
A. 19 April 2012: Viewing the information you have put into your question it looks like he may be interested in you but you can't really judge his intentions from just one night.
If it is his intention just to get into your pants it will be easy to pick out beca... (read in full...)
Think I'm falling in love...
Q. Hello Right!Im 16 and there is guy who 19 and I think im falling in love with him. But the problem is that when ever I go round to the house, out from the blue I get really shy and don't talk or when my mum says were going there I get Butt...
A. 20 April 2011: Everyone gets a little shy at times, I have lost so many possibilties of relationships because of being shy and only got into the one im in now because of my friends encouragement. Its important that you try to over come theese fears, because h... (read in full...)
What shape type do men like best on a woman?
Q. What Shape do Men Prefer??? my measurements are 38-35.5 to 36-43 Bust 38. Waist 35.5 to 36. Hips 43. (Trying to lose weight) lol! I wanted to know, I read all over the internet how the "hourglass" is the perfect female form and what...
A. 20 April 2011: Okay Darling theres no need to be thinking like that, your body shape doesnt matter you can be beutiful whatever your shape, you just need to know how to bring out your best bits and conceal your weaker bits.
There are so many TV shows and book... (read in full...)
Am dating my ex again...and I'm not sure if this is a good idea.
Q. I was dating a guy for 4 months and he broke up with me. That was about a month ago but we've started seeing each other more casually since...I definitely missed him and I guess he missed me too. Anyway, he started up his computer and I saw a pi...
A. 20 April 2011: Im so glad this all worked out for you xx ... (read in full...)
Too nervous to talk to girls
Q. Hi friends,im 18 and find it dificult to to talk to girls...i jus dont kno what to say...i get rly nervous nd the convesation turns awkward...recently,a girl aproched me nd started a cönverstion but i got nervous nd she went away..OMG!..pls help!...
A. 15 March 2011: The best way to start the conversation would be to casually walk up to her when she isn't busy and just start with a simple hello.
If you don't feel confident going up and starting a conversation straight away maybe just smile at her or say Hell... (read in full...)
Billy No Mates... advice ?
Q. Hey please help ! ive just had enough of people lieing to me, betraying me and all together just letting me down :( I just cant deal with it anymore and i really need some help !! Since i went up to highs...
A. 12 March 2011: Don't worry I am sure that there is nothing wrong with you, when you move from middle school to high school people generally meet new friends and move on, I speak to literally one of my old friends and she isn't even a best friend. Your best bet ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and thinking of losing my virginity
Q. I'm 15 years old. I thinking about losing my virginity with my ex. Me and my ex broke up about 3 years ago. Now we go to the same school and we love to call each other name and just make jokes [in public]. A typical high school crash I guest. We ...
A. 12 March 2011: Personally I think you should try being in a relationship with him and wait a few months (longer if you like, remember that there is no rush) to see how it all goes. Things can sometimes change as soon as you have somewhat commitment. Also remember ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I like someone else now after liking her for a while without hurting her?
Q. Ok, this girl and I have liked each other for about a month and I didn't know her very well so I wanted to know her better before we went out. But yesterday me and this other girl flirted a lot and the people we were with said we should go out. I ...
A. 12 March 2011: The best way to deal with this would be to tell the 1st girl that you think she is really nice and think you and her would be better as friends than partners. Try to phrase it as gently and caring as you can yet make it clear that you don't look at ... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling for him again, and my best friend hates him
Q. I used to like this on guy but we ended up as just really close friends. I thought I was over him, but I don't think I am, he is always there for me and doesn't mind helping me or me getting upset around him and we always give each other advice. I ...
A. 12 March 2011: First of all the best way to find out how he feels about you is to ask him or simply admit to him your true feelings and see what he says. If he doesn't like you back try your best to continue your close friendship, this can be a hard thing to do so ... (read in full...)
Why do I like to keep personal things private...but still have an urge to spill some secrets??
Q. I'll get straight to the point. I like some mystery and to keep things about myself to myself. Because I don't think people should know everything I do and all about me, this goes for even best friends and immediate family (mum, dad, brother, ...
A. 12 March 2011: I do have a similar problem. I don't understand the psychology behind it (I'm sure if you searched the internet or asked an expert you could find something about it) but I could suggest ways in which to deal with it. First of all make sure you kn... (read in full...)
Am dating my ex again...and I'm not sure if this is a good idea.
Q. I was dating a guy for 4 months and he broke up with me. That was about a month ago but we've started seeing each other more casually since...I definitely missed him and I guess he missed me too. Anyway, he started up his computer and I saw a pi...
A. 12 March 2011: Hello,
First of all I would make it clear to him that you want the total truth and if you find out your not going to be happy.
To test him a little ask him if he as ever been on a dating site before and if he says no you will know hes lying f... (read in full...)
B/f 3 years younger and dad doesn't approve!
Q. My dad doesn't think i should be dating my boyfriend because he three years younger than me. He is 17 and I am 20. How do i get my dad to approve of him. ...
A. 12 March 2011: I'm very glad everything worked out for you x ... (read in full...)
Too nervous to talk to girls
Q. Hi friends,im 18 and find it dificult to to talk to girls...i jus dont kno what to say...i get rly nervous nd the convesation turns awkward...recently,a girl aproched me nd started a cönverstion but i got nervous nd she went away..OMG!..pls help!...
A. 12 March 2011: Hello there, Many guys find it hard to talk to girls so do not worry you are not on your own. A way to start a conversation could be just smile at her as you walk past a few times and make sure she notices, if she smiles back and continues to... (read in full...)
This 'friend' puts me down
Q. my friend is a bit strange, she dosen't really seem to grasp the concept that other people have feelings, there-fore she is constantly putting me and my other friend down. she dosen't like me having other friends and she wants me to be with her all ...
A. 12 March 2011: I'm sorry to say the only true way to deal with this is to tell her how you and your other friends feel. Make sure you tell her as nicely as you can and try your best not to hurt her feelings. Firstly I would ask her to stop being mean to yo... (read in full...)
What do her questions mean?
Q. dear qupid i like this girl, she's about one year younger than me, and we're close friends (we always come to eachother for advice, and we always hang out). not too long ago, i told her how i felt, and i got a really long responce about how she do...
A. 10 March 2011: Well first of all I'm glad too see that you have still been able to keep your friendship. This is a great sign of having a strong friendship.
I'm not entirely sure myself what she is suggesting, your best bet to find out the truth, is to answer h... (read in full...)
What can I do to be less self-conscious around him?
Q. I am so self conscious and don't know what to do anymore! Every time I am around my bf I feel so fat, so i suck in my stomach and wear my belt on the tightest loop. Since i have started to date him i have lost 10lbs and now i never want to eat. I...
A. 10 March 2011: Just remember honey that is is not only you that feels this way. Many many girls (as did I when I was younger) have insecurities that make them incredibly self-conscious, this can easily be dealt with so don't worry.
When your around your boy... (read in full...)
B/f 3 years younger and dad doesn't approve!
Q. My dad doesn't think i should be dating my boyfriend because he three years younger than me. He is 17 and I am 20. How do i get my dad to approve of him. ...
A. 10 March 2011: Hello lovestruck91,
I myself believe that age is just a number and with a 4 year age gap between myself and my fiancée I have realized that others do not have the same opinion as me.
With my relationship, the age gap was accepted for I am ver... (read in full...)
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