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Hi im April from england im 30yrs old im a qualfied nursery nurse and have been for 13 yrs, Ive always felt the need to help ppl give advice be a shoulder to cry on.

I want to have sex with my cousin! Is there anything I can mix with water that will turn her on???

Q.   actually i love my cousin sister and i want to have sex with her, she is married, she has two children her age is around 30yrs, i stay with her in her house,her husband will be out for business tour, please tell me how can i attract her for sex, is ...

A.   10 September 2007: ur a sick man get sum help drugging any women is wrong leave her and her family alone ... (read in full...)

How much is too large an age gap?

Q.   I am 28 and my boyfried is 2 1/2 years younger. It's not an issue for us, but is that too big a gap? His friends don't seem to approve although they are my age. Princess...

A.   27 September 2005: 21/2 years is not a big gap at all i know couples who have 10 and 15 years between them so i woudent worry much about it your not dating his friends so you shoudent care what they think as long as you and you boyfriend are happy.... (read in full...)

I had to move quite a distance away, but I still think of her as the girl I want in my life...

Q.   I am an Asian male in my mid twenties. On one of my jobs, I had to live for almost one year out of my home. During that period, I was with a girl. We used to go out most of the time, but not as a couple. After more than a couple of months like t...

A.   20 September 2005: its obvious you love this girl and if you do then contact her thinking about her all the time is not doing you any good and im sure she will be pleased to hear from you if anything contacting her will stop you from driving your self crazy.... (read in full...)

My 16-year-old son wants to marry his girlfriend... soon.

Q.   I am concerned about my 16 year old son who has expressed the desire to marry his girlfriend soon. What problems will he face if he marries now? Thanks, Janet...

A.   20 September 2005: 16 is very soon to marry and i see your concern as with all relationships there will be obstacles but sometimes you have to let your children make there own mistakes just give him the best advice you can try not to lecture him as he might see this ... (read in full...)

He says he loves me and we have lots of sex, so why does he need to look at porn?

Q.   I have recently found out that my husband has been looking at soft porn sites on the internet, and has looked at magazines etc. He says this is perfectly normal behaviour for a man. I was upset by this. He couldnt explain why he does it; can you? ...

A.   28 June 2005: this is perfectly normal. men are visually stimulated so mags and porn sites do it for them try and get involved by doing this it wont seem so seedy and you might enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)

I have a boyfriend... but I'm also attracted to my best girlfriend!

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 years of age, and I'm a girl. For a while I think I have been attracted to my best girl friend, and I'm not sure if I should tell her. We have done stuff in the past, like we have kissed and almost pashed, and I have touched her breast, ...

A.   28 June 2005: there is nothing wrong with expermenting at your age but by your friends reactions to you telling her your feelings its clear that she doesent feel the same its seems obvious that this may be a crush on your behalf just take things slow.... (read in full...)

I'm starting to fall for a work-friend and I think if he came onto me, I wouldn't be able to resist...

Q.   Do I end it after 6 years? I met my current boy 6 years ago when I was 19. I had not had sex with anyone else and didn't really get to experiment with my sexuality amongst guys or girls. He was my first love and someone who I have had an incredibl...

A.   28 June 2005: first of all you're not totally sure that this guy has feelings for you so it would be stupid of you to end your current relationship and not have him to fall back on take things slow this just might be a crush if you really love your boyfriend you ... (read in full...)

He says he wants me, then he says he doesn't care. Where do we stand?

Q.   I have been dating a man for 1 year. Shortly afer we met, about one month into it, he pressured me to have sex with him and sex was mostly the topic he discussed. I gave in to him too soon, but I liked him and didn't regret it after. After the firs...

A.   23 June 2005: I think he is very confused and doesn't know what he wants. Technically he did cheat on you but he has admmited it. I think you should just wait and see where this relationship goes. If you're still not sure of his commitment, maybe you should think ... (read in full...)

I can't figure her out! Her flirty messages suggest she's interested, but is she?

Q.   I've had a crush on a female friend for some time. A few months ago however, some of my friends blabbed to her about my crush on messanger. Her response? She told them she wasn't interested in me that way. I found out, then she emailed and basically ...

A.   23 June 2005: People can be very flirtatious without knowing it. I think that's what the texts were. I also think she sees you as just a friend. Sit it out and see where it goes.... (read in full...)

Why is my partner so infatuated with a TV actress?

Q.   My partner of four years has recently become quite infatuated with an actress from the L Word. She spends as much time as possible looking up sites with this actress on and talking about her with a mutual friend of ours (who is also gay-but ...

A.   21 June 2005: just look at it this way it is very unlikley that ur partner will ever get together with this person "FROM TV LAND" and its just a crush we all like ppl from the tv at some point i dont think you have to worry im sure it will pass.... (read in full...)

We're both 15 and we're ready for sex... I think...

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while now. We are both teenagers and are 15. We have talked about sex and feel we are both ready for it, but she says that sometimes after we do things together i.e 'heavy petting' or foreplay etc it ...

A.   21 June 2005: I think you are a little too young to be having sex but if you both really feel ready please use condoms. This is very normal for your girlfriend as she is coming of age where her body is developin. There is nothing wrong with her or you. Maybe you ... (read in full...)

He's 20 and she's 13, but she's interested. What should she do?

Q.   If a 13 year old girl like a 20 year old guy,and he smiles and stares at her,and she to afraid to talk to him, and she loves him, what should she do?...

A.   21 June 2005: hun you are only very young and he is a man. Your time will come when someone will sweep you off your feet but this man is not him. You need to have fun. You're just a teenager. Hang out with your friends. If you are worried that he may approach ... (read in full...)

I found evidence of my boyfriend cheating online... but I can hardly complain. Thoughts?

Q.   I accidentally found my bf's msn history on his computer, for some reason it was in his music folder..the conversations on there were all sexual. He sends some of the girls pictures and they send some in return. He talks on the phone with them, bu...

A.   21 June 2005: i have found myself in this situation. my bf was found having phone sex and i was in turmoil , but you have cheated. You have had sex which as you say is a little more serious but if you really care for this person you should tell him beacause no ... (read in full...)

My ex is off drugs and wants to come back, but in the meantime I'm dating someone else, too!

Q.   I have gotten myself in a bit of a love triangle and I am suffering completely for it. Please help. My boyfriend of 2 years and I had been experiencing many bad times. He always ignored me, was around then wasn't around, and we fought a lot to s...

A.   10 June 2005: if you're going to go back to your ex ,this is a very big risk as he might not be off the drugs and you might end up getting hurt. It's a big sacrifice to make. If you leave the man you're with now for nothing you really have to think you love the ... (read in full...)

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