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writes: Hi, I'm 15 years of age, and I'm a girl. For a while I think I have been attracted to my best girl friend, and I'm not sure if I should tell her. We have done stuff in the past, like we have kissed and almost pashed, and I have touched her breast, when she has asked me to. At one stage I told her that I thought I was bisexual, and before that I had told her that I might be attracted to her, but then I said no. She got a bit freaked out when I told her that I thought I might be attracted to her. But the thing is, I also have a boyfriend, and I have done a lot of stuff with guys, so I am very confused. I get very jealous when she isn't with me, when she has a boyfriend and when she flirts with them. I am very confused and I don't know what to do. Someone please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2005): During the teen years everyone feels attracted to the same sex whether they admit it or not. this is probably a crush, she is your friend and you feel close to her and feel you can share things with her. I had a crush on one of my friends for a long time but after I while I realised it was nothing more than a crush. The best thing to do would be to hold off. You dont want to go hurting anyone by saying you're gay. if your friend doesnt feel the same it may cause tension between you and you may also lose your bf. teen years can be the worst and best time of your life. im in my last of them and they have taught me a lot.when i was single i did kiss another girl and still felt strongly about her but then i started seeing a guy and have done ever since. if im honest i stil do think sometimes i would like to be with a girl but then the feeling goes and i realise how happy i am with my fella. hope everything works out for you, dont feel your alone cos there are millions of people who have felt and feel the way you do
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reader, aunt april  +, writes (28 June 2005):
there is nothing wrong with expermenting at your age but by your friends reactions to you telling her your feelings its clear that she doesent feel the same its seems obvious that this may be a crush on your behalf just take things slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2005): im in the same position as you but im a boy and my girlfriend has told me she may be gay.i think you need to decide.you cannot have both.if you choose your friend you will hurt your boyfriend and your friend may not feel the same but if you choose your boyfriend you may just be fooling yourself.only you know how you truly feel.my girlfriend is also 15 and i am 16 so in a way i can relate.
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