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Question about reaching orgasm and the G-spot... I seem to have located it but I'm not sure.

Q.   Hi all! I am 20 and I have a question about the G-Spot. I am a virgin and recently tried inserting my index finger into my vaginal hole for the first time for masturbating.. I am not too sure but I seem to have found my G-spot (the wall was ro...

A.   11 September 2008: Whoa ladies! Thanks a lot..that's really nice of u.. :) And anonymous, thanks a lot for ur very helpful comment.. :) But google wouldn't give specific answers...i'd rather learn from someone's experiences. Thanks... (read in full...)

He called me a tease even though I told him I wasn't ready to have sex! Now I'm having nightmares....

Q.   About 4 or so months ago I was with my ex bf. One night i was over his place and he kept harrasing me to take my clothes off. I kept saying no because I didnt want to have sex- i wanted to wait until we were in love to have sex. He said 'we dont ...

A.   3 September 2008: Hi.. Sweety, I think you should hate this guy. It was attempted rape..Like Emily says, I don't think you can handle this on your own. You need to seek counselling and do tell a family member about it. This guy is so mean..he ought to be give... (read in full...)

He called me a tease even though I told him I wasn't ready to have sex! Now I'm having nightmares....

Q.   About 4 or so months ago I was with my ex bf. One night i was over his place and he kept harrasing me to take my clothes off. I kept saying no because I didnt want to have sex- i wanted to wait until we were in love to have sex. He said 'we dont ...

A.   3 September 2008: Hi, Ur guy is basically insecure and is scared of being hurt and this is very natural. Some relationships end up being traumatic to some poeple. He is simply taking his own time and with time he will see what sort of a person you really are and ... (read in full...)

I'm worried about my relationship and the direction it's going, can someone help?

Q.   next year my boyfriend and i are taking a gap year together in europe. we are going to live together and i'm very excited because i've always wanted to live with him. the thing is i'm a very independent person who really enjoys being alone, he ...

A.   3 September 2008: Hi, I know what you trying to say when you say u are the happiest when you are all by urself. I remember someone having said that to me quite recently. It is necessary for everyone to spend some time by themselves mainly to reflect over you... (read in full...)

Should I feel guilty for "messing" with a guy who has a girlfriend?

Q.   should I feel guilty about messing with a guy who has a girl??? but they are not married????...

A.   3 September 2008: Hi, I think you should feel guilty. Your husband cheated you..how did that feel? Do you really want another woman to undergo it? Normally if one undergoes something bad, they pray to God that no one else has to undergo it as well! Why do u want s... (read in full...)

The reason I forgave my girlfriend's infidelity is because I also cheated on her. Should I tell her?? She says she needs a break.

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3yrs. Weve had our ups and down through the years. I recently found out that she cheated on me by reading a letter in her email account that she wrote to some guy she met and slept with in Los Angeles. T...

A.   3 September 2008: Ok.. I think you should TALK to your girlfriend and your brother. First, talk to your brother. If he has been doing really well since the time he has started staying with u, u have definitely influenced him in some manner. So I am sure he will und... (read in full...)

My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. I want her back! What should I do?

Q.   I am looking for what to do? My wife of 5 years left me, for my best friend. She also left me with our two kids. She says that i don't make her happy anymore. I love her so much that i don't know how to take it. I had to quit my job to take care of ...

A.   1 September 2008: Hi, I am so sorry to hear this. What you could do is..maybe try to talk to her, discuss things properly. Tell her at least for the sake of the kids not to leave the family like that.. It is very touching to know you love her so much. Maybe ther... (read in full...)

Dealing with my bf's beautiful, bitchy ex gf! How do I get over this?

Q.   For seven years i went to dancing school with this girl (who we'll call Angela) who was really bitchy, mean and made my early teenage life a misery. she made me feel really insecure about my dancing and was just a bully in general. seven years la...

A.   1 September 2008: Hi girl.. :) I completely understand what you are going thru. I have been thru the same - more or less. But I guess u in worse soup than me coz this girl angela seems to be doing too well and well its human (actually "woman") nature to feel lik... (read in full...)

We spend less time with each other because of our jobs. What can I do?

Q.   Me and my fiance for 8 months have not left each other side.. but maybe for 4 hours a day.. Now i have a job that is 9 to 5 like he wanted and he works nights for about 5 hours. We see each other for about 3 hours a night.. Now he's lonely during ...

A.   29 August 2008: Hi, You could talk it out. I am sure that's the best way. On a weekend, go to some nice place, spend the day together, at the end of the day TALK it out. You don't need to be too sweet. Be firm, make your point. But if you spend some good ... (read in full...)

The problem is that he has told me numerous times that he loves me but wishes he didn't!...

Q.   I have been dating a guy for the past 6 months. For the most part, things are great. He treats me well and we really get along. The problem is that he has told me numerous time that he loves me but that he hates that he loves me and wishes he ...

A.   29 August 2008: Oh i don't think you need to worry so much esp since he tlaks about kids and your house together and stuff like that. Ask him why he says that - he will tell u. And like the answer above, maybe he does think he us undeserving of you!... (read in full...)

If a girl says she will always regard you as a good friend, is there any hope for a change?

Q.   Hi all, My question here is...if a girl tells you that she will always regard you as a good friend, does it mean that it is doomsday for the guy? Totally no hope of becoming something more? So what are the steps a guy should take to avoid the '...

A.   29 August 2008: Hi, No it is not doomsday for a guy. But yes, it depends on the lady totally - what she wants. If you really want to go beyond a 'good friend' zone, you could try winning her over in your own graceful way. But if you get a hint that she do... (read in full...)

What can I do? I don't want him to think I'm following him, it's all coincidenses!

Q.   This is all TRUE on my life. A few months ago I met a man in a hotel whilst in Spain we were friends but thats all! He told me where he lived and by pure coincidence I own a flat very nearby him-which I rent out and live 100 miles away. ...

A.   29 August 2008: Of course you should go as usual. Its ok. He will know - with time..:) If you happen to talk to him sometime, you could actually mention that this is too much of a coincidence that you guys bump into each other so often!... (read in full...)

Do you think I made the right decision on backing down in the relationship?

Q.   Ok so me and this guy are in a relationship, both of us are with other people as well. My guy just found out that his mom has cancer so I thought the best thing for our relationship would be for me to back down. He is all his mother has and with all ...

A.   29 August 2008: Hi, Were you guys in a serious relationship?? Like, you wanted to spend the rest of your life with him? (This is a personal opinion - so ignore if you do not agree with me) But if yes, then i think you should support them both emotionally and ... (read in full...)

Should I ask him if he feels the same way about me?

Q.   I'm scared because I never felt this feeling. I've had boyfriends in the past and I think I loved them. It's just that with this guy it's different. Whenever I'm with him I get this funny feeling in my stomach. It's like I'm at peace when I'm by h...

A.   29 August 2008: Hi, This is cute! :) But you need to talk to yourself first. Ask yourself: You like his company. But do u REALLY like his nature as well? Do you guys talk and lot and share a lot as well? THAT is important in a relationship. If... (read in full...)

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