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female
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30-35,
*ngel of love
writes:I'm scared because I never felt this feeling.I've had boyfriends in the past and I think I loved them. It's just that with this guy it's different. Whenever I'm with him I get this funny feeling in my stomach. It's like I'm at peace when I'm by his side. That's a feeling I've never felt with any other guy. When we're together we can do just about anything and it's interesting to us. Oh and before I go on, he isn't my boyfriend. So anyways, take tonight for instance...we spent almost two hours just tossing pebbles at each other. It was fun and cute. Everyone around us thought we were weird, but we just kept doing it. For some reason though I couldn't stop smiling at him. When he's around I have a permanent smile on my face. It's seems that he likes me too, but he just can't say it. The things he does shows that he likes me, but it's like he can't find the words to tell me. The best he could say was 'I don't know why, but I like to pick on you.' The he smiled and tossed a pebble at me. I told him once that I liked him...well not exactly told him more like he guessed it out of me. I told him again tonight that I liked him and he just smiled at me and stared at me. I don't know what to do because I really think that I like him a lot. What should I do? Ask him if he feels the same way or just leave it in the hands of fate? Reply to this Question
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reader, auddi  +, writes (29 August 2008):
Hi,
This is cute! :) But you need to talk to yourself first.
Ask yourself:
You like his company. But do u REALLY like his nature as well? Do you guys talk and lot and share a lot as well? THAT is important in a relationship.
If you do not know him, but are interested, you ought to get to know him more so that you don't end up telling him you are in love and then end up finding that you guys are not compatible enough!
So, before you take any step, make sure you are not confused about this and then go right ahead and say it! :) I think he likes you as well - but just doesn't want to say it for some reason.
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reader, starismine1  +, writes (29 August 2008):
 It sounds like you are both really good friends which can be the basis for a great intimate emotionally fulfilling relationship with a guy, but he may not be ready for a serious relationship with a girl just yet. I suggest that you refrain from the "this is how I feel about you" talk and just bring up the subject of whether he wants to date anyone seriously at this time in his life. Ask him how he feels about things like having sex with girls, serious dating and even marriage, in other words, feel him out about where his head is at with the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing. He may just not be emotionally ready for more than friendship with you. Once you find out what he wants in a relationship with a girl, friendship or more, than you can talk about what you are looking for as well, and can see if the two of you are on the same wavelength. Telling him your feelings will not get you very far if he just isn't emotionally ready to be more than a friend with a girl.
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