Should I give my ex-husband another chance? He says he's changed...
Q. My husband and I are separated for 18 months after 23 years of marriage. It was an abusive marriage due to his anger. He now says that he has changed with the help of God. He says he loves me and wants to be a good man to me. He wants us to get ...
A. 17 July 2005: Trust yourself. You feel scared, you don't feel like you love him. Those are warnings your body is sending you to STAY AWAY FROM THIS MAN! Follow your instincts. They are there for a reason.... (read in full...)
My kids have chosen to live with their father, and I'd like us to be together as a family... just don't know if I can stand my ex!
Q. I'm 54 years old, and I left my husband about four years ago. We haven't filed for divorce, we're just separated. I have a 24 year old son, and a 19 and a 16 year old daughter. My youngest is rebelious and depressed, and wants to move in with ...
A. 16 July 2005: Hmm I have a feeling this is too complex for a simple answer, but I'll give it a shot.
Are you sure it's only because of "religious" reasons that your daughters want to live with their father? It does seem strange for teenage girls to choose t... (read in full...)
If he went soft when we were having sex, does it mean he wasn't enjoying it?
Q. If 2 people are having sex and enjoying it, what does it mean if the guy goes soft half way through?? Does it mean he didnt like me? or wasnt enjoying himself? I'm filling my head with lots of rubbish and just need someone to tell me what it ...
A. 16 July 2005: It could mean a lot of things. Probably the LEAST likely thing it means is that he doesn't like you.
Most likely it mean he feels insecure in himself and has some performance anxiety.
It could mean he has some other fear, such as a fear of pre... (read in full...)
Our months together suddenly vanished when he received an email from his ex...
Q. hi, I'm 28 years old. I am a stable, funny, talented, adventurous, artistic woman. For the past 7 months I have been seeing a wonderful, loveable, musical, handsome 20 year old. Young yes, but damn handsome and truly loving. He moved out here t...
A. 16 July 2005: If he is as good a person as you say he is, he WOULD be guilty for owing someone a lot of money, and, instead of working on paying them back, getting into a passionate relationship with someone else instead. That was an immature and somewhat ... (read in full...)
What can I tell my friend when she asks if she should break off with her boyfriend?
Q. Hi, I have a problem that I have a friend who always quarrels with her boyfriend about everything, but both of them do still love each other very much. She has asked for my opinion whether she should break off this relationship. What can I suggest ...
A. 16 July 2005: Telling her your opinion is pretty much useless. If you tell her you think she should break it off, and she does, and then she's unhappy, she'll blame you. Or if she ends up marrying him, she'll be mad at your for telling her to break it off. You ... (read in full...)
My husband and my sister laugh about me to my face...
Q. I think my marriage is just about to be over me and my husband do nothing but fight anymore. He don't ever ask me to do anything with him. He always wants to hang out with my sister and her boyfriend and I just found out that I'm the topic of their ...
A. 16 July 2005: I agree with everything Bev said. Since your husband has been a part of your life for so long, it's probably hard for you to imagine your life without him or with someone else. Oftentimes people would rather live with the misery of the familiar, ... (read in full...)
Why would I be so broken up over my daughter's split from her boyfriend?
Q. Recently my daughter has split from her boyfriend who she has been going out with for about a year. From the start I have looked upon as the son I never had- Ihave 3 daughters. My daughter is devastated over the split but I also feel very low and ...
A. 15 July 2005: I don't think it's normal for you to be so upset. Having boyfriends and breaking up is natural and healthy, it's a learning experience. Your daughter may be sad for awhile, but it will pass and she will be wiser for it.
I suspect somethin... (read in full...)
What happened? She left her husband for me... then she turned on me!
Q. I broke every single relationship rule I have... I had a crush on a girl in college seven years ago, remember everything about her, nothing about the classes we shared. Then about seven months ago I ran into her where I work, big office building,...
A. 15 July 2005: To be honest she sounds kind of unstable. Marrying an older man, getting involved with you while she was married, then turning so mean to you for no apparent reason. It sounds like she has trouble making good decisions. I'm not sure what it is ... (read in full...)
Our relationship is on hold while my boyfriend and his ex get counselling!
Q. I have been dating the same guy for 10 months. We enjoy each other very much but have agreed that it is non-commital relationship. His ex-fiancee left him over a 1 1/2 years ago. She showed up unanounced on Father's Day and announced that she wants ...
A. 15 July 2005: I suspect he is stringing you along. I wouldn't believe him that he is only doing the counseling for her. Is she blackmailing him or something? He could just say no. Yet the fact that he is still calling you suggests that either he is confused ... (read in full...)
My dreams are full of an old boyfriend and I feel guilty about it...
Q. I am feeling incredibly guilty because I have been dreaming of an ex-boyfriend for about a month. Let's just say the dreams are not all platonic and it has caused me to begin thinking about him in 'real' life. I am married for less than a year...
A. 15 July 2005: I do NOT suggest telling your husband about your dreams. No matter how strong the marriage, he will feel hurt and betrayed and may lose trust in you. I would suggest either keeping it to yourself, or confide in a few TRUSTED close girlfriends who ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend feels threatened by the friendship I have with an old, old flame. Am I in the wrong?
Q. An old friend who lives far away, called me last night when I wasn't in. He and I have been friends for many years. He and I were engaged and in love about 20 years ago but he wasn't ready to commit and we split-up. From time to time, he calls me. ...
A. 15 July 2005: You have to decide who is more important to you, old b/f or new b/f. If you are serious about your new b/f, you should respect his wishes. Compromise is a necessary evil in relationships. We have to do certain things we don't want to do in order ... (read in full...)
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