My boyfriend and I are "on a break." Does that mean we're over?
Q. heya. Me and my boyfriend are on *a break* or *cooling things* for a while. I'm confused to what it all means... are we over? thank you lots xx...
A. 28 March 2007: In my experience(both sides of the coin), it means they want to be with someone else, and may allready have someone else in mind. ... (read in full...)
OMG... could I possibly be pregnant?
Q. i had sex with a guy last sunday. he used a condom but i do not remember much because i was drunk.. When i woke up friday i was very dizzy and i felt like i was going to throw up, that lasted a couple days. At school I could barely concentrate ...
A. 28 March 2007: get to the clinic to tell the doctor your syptoms, do it because you're a responsible person.... (read in full...)
Why do I always want to push her away when we get close emotionally?
Q. Can anyone give me advice? I am in a relationship wit a girl that i love a lot, but I start to feel scared when me and my girlfriend get close emotionally. It was like this 4 months ago and I ended up cheating on her. I want me and my girlfrien...
A. 28 March 2007: Best thing to do is to face your fear - head on. If she's willing to help you through it in some way, you know she really loves you too. ... (read in full...)
My wife and I have seperated, should I still send her flowers for Valentine's Day?
Q. Hi, please help me on this, for two years I dedicated my life to this girl, I loved her, care for her, look after her, did everything in my power for her to be happy, and it was never enough. I married her last year. Our arguments continue...
A. 9 February 2007: What do I know, but I do think, if after 2 yrs it's like this, maybe it's for the best to cut her loose. You seem like a good man, and deserve someone who will appreciate all you have to offer. And there are ladies out there who are going through ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my jealousy? Is it time for therapy?
Q. How do I get over my jealousy? My ex of over 7 yrs. cheated on me. I can't get over him and I think part of it is because since he's with someone else and Im not, It makes me obsess about it more. As if he's Mr perfect now because he's with ...
A. 9 February 2007: The first part is confusing, sorry. We were together over 7 yrs, and have been broken up for 3 months... (read in full...)
I am 40 and single again, all the guys my age seem to have baggage or are unavailable. Should I just quit the dating scene?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have been married and divorced 4 times. I have tried getting back out into the dating scene. I've been fixed up, I've waiting to get asked out, or I ask guys out myself. It seems every guy out there is gay, married, or "unavail...
A. 8 February 2007: You've been divorced 4 times. Maybe you should quit the dating scene for a year, and focus on yourself. ... (read in full...)
Torn apart by jealously and rejection!
Q. My boyfriend dumped me because of my jealousy and also because i believe that he misses that excitment you have at the start of a new relationship thats why i now know why he has had a lot of girlfriends. How can he buy me flowers and a teddy on...
A. 8 February 2007: I know it would be great and supportive of him to help you get over your jealousy. But in reality, no one is going to swoop into your life and fix your problems, atleast you certainly can't expect anyone to. that's something only you can do. And ... (read in full...)
How do I tactfully raise her perfume use with her... and what do you recommend?
Q. Two questions really. How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend that I really don't like the perfume she likes (it smells kinda strong and bitter)? She got some new stuff over Xmas that I adored and kept telling her how nice she smelt but she d...
A. 8 February 2007: I agree, she's lucky to have such a good guy, Most any vanilla parfume is going to be subtle, you really can't go wrong with that scent. Do you know if she likes vanilla? You may try Eternity for women,by calvin klein it's a classic.... (read in full...)
I hoped she'd grow on me. Five years later though, I still haven't found much in her... !
Q. My girlfriend is talented, bright, caring, hard working, very successful and always seems to be on top of things. We've been together five years. I haven't fallen in love with her however. She ticks a lot of the right boxes and we share many ...
A. 8 February 2007: Everyone deserves to find true love, but the ones that actually do are the ones who are brave enough to fight for it. ... (read in full...)
I wrote a bulletin on My Space and my friends have taken the wrong meaning from it, now they're not talking to me... what do I do now?
Q. I'd call myself a bit of a loner as i only have 2 friends and theyre not even close they all like rock and im the total opposite so i'd say i dont have friends. On myspace i posted a bulletin saying "CANNOT WAIT UNTIL YEAR 10..NEW CLASSES AND NEW ...
A. 8 February 2007: Those people aren't your freinds, and you should be excited to get away from them and meet new people that actually have a personality. I agree that you should try to make new freinds, it'll be good pracitce for when you go to the next level. And ... (read in full...)
I'm so scared I won't find love again...
Q. im really unhappy - i had to break up with my partner after two years because i couldnt cope with him hurting me anymore. He's cheated, lied, not answered my phone calls, made me feel fat and ugly, ignored me and all other horrible stuff you can do ...
A. 8 February 2007: You are allready a strong person for leaving this guy. So many other women stay sucked into relationships like these. The guy doesn't want to come off as missing you, because he has such a huge ego, which also is probably why he put you down so ... (read in full...)
I've started to fall for my best friends husband, she died over a year ago and I feel really bad!!
Q. my best]t friend passed away a year and a half ago. her husband and i have become friends, mainly because their daughter is my godchild anyway. one nite recently we found ourselves kissing and stuff . worse of all i kinda like him, im starting to...
A. 6 February 2007: Maybe spending time with eachother helps you both feel closer to her. You probably have a deep and spiritual relationship. I understand why you may feel guilty, but I think you are giving your her a gift. Who knows, maybe your freind had ... (read in full...)
My partner is great with me but when we visit his parents he's distant! Should I move on?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and it seems to be going ok. I just have this feeling that something bad is going to happen. When it is just him and I, it's great. But, when we go visit his parents, it's like he is distant from me. I ...
A. 6 February 2007: He's just nervous and doesn't know how to act. Spend time with just the mom going shopping or baking so you can bond and have things to talk about. That will take the pressure off him for everyone to get along, and he'll respect you for taking ... (read in full...)
How do I be skinny and well liked like the other girls at school?
Q. me and my boyfriend are young teenager's and have agreed not to have sex without protection or have it until 14. i think we may be takin things fast seeming as previous activities we have done. people think its sick how relationships turn out! but...
A. 6 February 2007: You allready sound like a smart young lady because you can make decisions with your bf to be sexually responsible. Now if you can just take that same strength and expand it into your whole life, you will be a lot further ahead than conformist ... (read in full...)
His past affair with his brother's wife is causing us problems. Are we going to make it?
Q. My boyfriend had an affair with his brother's wife 3 yrs ago before we were together. He still talks to her because she is in the family. He say he loves me and wants to be with me. We get along very well; however, we do argue over his relationship ...
A. 6 February 2007: I would find it really hard to trust a guy that would do that to his brother as well. On the other hand, you must really like him a lot, and want to believe he really is a good person. Most people have more good than bad, and you're really putting ... (read in full...)
He has a gf but really likes me! Should I continue contact with him?
Q. hi there, last month i met a man online. we flirted for a while and then out of the blue (although i wasnt surprised) he told me he had a grlfriend. i said that was ok and we could remain friends so we have been emailing for a weeks as friends, i ...
A. 6 February 2007: It sounds like he is just out fishing for ego boosts. ... (read in full...)
Finally got the courage to dump my boyfriend and now hes emotionally blackmailing me. What should I do?
Q. I finally got the courage to dump my boyfriend and now hes emotionally blackmailing me. I dont love him anymore and I have feelings for someone else so i told him i didnt want to be with him. Its the only solution i can come to. He has now said to ...
A. 5 February 2007: Yeah, that on got me too, but I fell for it. I moved to go live with him. And after 2 years he abandoned me for another chick. DONT fall for it. IF you dont love him and you put his well being ahead of your own, you'll only have yourself to blame ... (read in full...)
He's my ex and we still have sex. But I'm 2nd best to his gf...what should I do?
Q. What does my ex boyfriend want from me? How do you distinguish between still having feelings for your ex, and just still being attracted to the things that made you fall for them in the first place? I've been on the fence about my feelings for my ...
A. 5 February 2007: I think you are setting yourself up for disaster. What if you continue the kind of relationship you have now. Eventually he may get closer to this other girl who you said yourself he puts before you. That will only end up hurting you more, and ... (read in full...)
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