A
female
age
51-59,
*aintgirl
writes:my best]t friend passed away a year and a half ago.her husband and i have become friends, mainly because their daughter is my godchild anyway.one nite recently we found ourselves kissing and stuff .worse of all i kinda like him, im starting to see why she loved him any way am i nuts....he was married to my best friend.she must be turning over in her grave...but he's a good guy. i dont knowi wish he was just a guy,,,,what do i do???
View related questions:
best friend, kissing Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, AngelEyes420 +, writes (6 February 2007):
Maybe spending time with eachother helps you both feel closer to her. You probably have a deep and spiritual relationship. I understand why you may feel guilty, but I think you are giving your her a gift. Who knows, maybe your freind had something to do with your attraction. I say, don't feel guilty too much longer.
A
male
reader, Blue Rat  +, writes (6 February 2007):
Your friend is dead and gone, but you're alive. You can't bring her back, so live your own life. If you make each other happy, and it's what you want, then be together. It's been 18 months as you said, so there's no question of indecent haste or callous selfishness.
...............................
A
female
reader, cd206 +, writes (6 February 2007):
 Do you think your friend wanted her husband to be single for his whole life? Do you think she wanted you to stay forever single? I'm guessing that if she was a good friend and wife then the answer was no. You've been through an enormous trauma together and sometimes things like this bind people together in inexplicable ways. I think everyone will understand if you were to get together (maybe some resistance from the daughter?) I think if you want it then go for it. Your friend has shown you that life is all too short to miss opportunities. You're not doing anything wrong.
CD
...............................
A
female
reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (6 February 2007):
 The answer is clear...
do you think your friend who loved both of you would want you to feel like this or to be together. To make her daughter your godchhild she must trust you and i know if i died id want my man to be with someone i trust.
hope i helped xx
...............................
|
