My husband left me over two months ago. I want him back.
Q. Ok, my husband of 12 years left me over two months ago. Eventhough, he had a very good reason for leaving I was am still in complete shock. When he left we were growing apart more and more everyday, I had been sleeping on the couch for a couple ...
A. 26 July 2008: you are being given a second chance to make your marriage work, its up to you whether you take that step or not. If you don't you may always wonder 'what if'.
and the reason his new lady friend does not argue with him is because they are not emot... (read in full...)
Is my married lover trying to control me?
Q. Hi everyone,now before I start I know that I have done a terrible thing so please don't give me any grief!I just want to know what you think,ok im 23 and I have been seeing a married man who's 49 for 2 and a half years now,we were and are best ...
A. 3 July 2008: run while you can and before you give this man anymore precious years of your life.
he's a control freak and judging you by his standards, he cheats on his wife and children, sneaks around and lies and he is assuming that you are at the same thi... (read in full...)
He has lied to me from the beginning, I don't know what to do!
Q. Im 28 years old and my husband is 38. We have been together for 10 years. I met him at 18 and was everything I dreamed of. I got pregnant a year later. Three months into my pregnancy I found out he was living with a woman and had 3 kids. After al...
A. 3 July 2008: you gave him a second chance and he just ruined it for you all.
unless you are willing to accept that this maybe an ongoing issues in your life then he needs to leave.
he is not a good role model for your children.
im sorry you are hurt... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me with both my siblings!
Q. I ahve been married 27 years but since the day I got married my husband cheated. I always knew but naturally lied to, but things have just come out. I have a twin he put his tongue on her while she slept and she woke up and freaked and told him ...
A. 3 July 2008: get this man out of your life before he brings you down anymore and if you have children this is critical. he is not a good role model for children. this is terrible behavior. for your sanity please put yourself first. best of luck.... (read in full...)
I cheated whilst on holiday for the first time on my bf of 5 years!!
Q. Im away for holiday and I cheated on my bf here.I was absolutely drunk I couldnt even remember what I did!The guy just used me.I know that we didnt have sex but we did other stuff.Ive been with my bf for nearly 5 years.He's my first guy!I feel sooo ...
A. 3 July 2008: You have already got some good advice.
This happened to a girl i worked with and what she got from the whole experience was that it really showed her how she felt about her boyfriend (now husband!).
Don't tell him as men find it a major betra... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't talk to me and he cheats because he is unhappy...
Q. Iv been wiv my bf 3 years hes 19 im 27. Because of our age gap the relationship has been quite secretive and i think this has lead 2 a lot of problems. Now he cheats all the time. Hes never had sex because ive always caught him 1st but i dont wanna ...
A. 3 July 2008: get rid of this guy before he sucks the life out of you and turns you into a mad woman.
have faith, you will meet somebody who loves you as much as you love them.
and you have to think of your children, he is not a good role model for them. ... (read in full...)
Why hasn't he called for three days!
Q. I know this is a sily question, especially for a woman over 30, but I have been seeing a man for two weeks now, we get on really well and have been out four times. On Friday, which is the last time we went out as he has been away for work since ...
A. 3 July 2008: maybe he just needs some space or maybe he's just busy.
i never read men are from mars women are from venus but i did listen to it on CD and the one thing i learned from it was that men need to go into their 'caves' i.e. timeout for them and we h... (read in full...)
We broke up and she said she wanted to stay friends. Now she says she needs to sort out "issues" first. I don't know how to react.
Q. Me and my ex broke up about 2 and a half months ago. We went out for 6 months. She said she wanted to still be mates and i agreed. Then after a while we stopped speaking to each other, dunno why, just got on with our lives for abit. I txt her when ...
A. 3 July 2008: This girl is messing with your head or dangling the carrot as i call it. Sounds like she wants to keep you in the background incase she needs/wants you in the future when it suits her. You deserve better than this. Try not to contact he... (read in full...)
The perfect man for me - except in the bedroom department. Can anyone give me any words of wisdom/
Q. I am a 35yr old female going out with a 36yr old male, we plan to move in together in the next 6months. My problem is we have only had sex 6 times in the last 12 months. Not my choice, his. I have tried to talk to him about this many times and he ...
A. 27 June 2008: well i brought the subject (by phone, i know not great but when i said we need to talk he wanted to know there and then).
he says that the possible reasons for his lack of interest in sex is because it went by a couple of months it was hard to ... (read in full...)
How do I convince that I'm sorry and it will never happen again?
Q. For four months I have been back in a relationship with my ex, who is also my best friend and a guy I grew up with. I love him, but we were planning to break up when I leave town for 6 months, and so I cheated once. It was a drunk mistake, I regret ...
A. 26 June 2008: sounds like you both need space, especially him. He's hurting right now and it takes time to heal. ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to know how old she was when she lost her virginity?
Q. I am having trouble coping with the fact that my girlfriend won't tell me how old she was when she first had sex. I know who it was with, just not how old she was. I also want to know how many different guys she's been with and who they are. To a ...
A. 26 June 2008: everyone is entitled to some privacy, you dont need/have to know everything about your partner. just focus on what the two of you have, everything in the past is exactly that - in the past.
best of luck easing your mind.... (read in full...)
Kissing - then suddenly I needed to chill out. Any comments would be appreciated.
Q. Hello im 21 and I met this guy a few weeks ago on a night out, exchanged numbers and arranged to meet up again. Yesterday he invited me round to his house to watch a film. I went and really enjoyed myself. I got out of a serious 3 year ...
A. 26 June 2008: good woman, you made the right decision if you were not ready yet. If he likes and respects you then he will wait.
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Should I tell my ex I'm pregnant?
Q. Hi. I have a 2 and a half yr old son. Went through a very rough time as single mother and swore to myself i'd never hav a baby unless i was secure and happy with a man. had a bf for a yr and i do love him, but split us as he got aggressive infront ...
A. 26 June 2008: Do what is best for your children, you already know you can raise a child without a man in your life, you did it before this guy came on the scene. You made a good decision to end the relationship because of his temper so he knows you are capable ... (read in full...)
The perfect man for me - except in the bedroom department. Can anyone give me any words of wisdom/
Q. I am a 35yr old female going out with a 36yr old male, we plan to move in together in the next 6months. My problem is we have only had sex 6 times in the last 12 months. Not my choice, his. I have tried to talk to him about this many times and he ...
A. 26 June 2008: thanks, im gonna try and rais the subject again this weekend. Im hoping him ringing a sex line was just curiosity, if it happened again i'd be devestated. thanks again, your response is much appreciated. andy.b.... (read in full...)
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