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*mycoffeegirl
writes:My bf has a key to my apartment. When he works nights, he likes to sleep in my apartment during the day because my apartment is quiet, and his apartment is often noisy during the day and he has trouble sleeping in his place.Recently, I got off of work early and went home early. I walked into by bedroom and saw my bf laying on my bed naked, he was masturbating, and a pair of my sexier panties was next to him. He had ear buds in his ears listening to music so he didn’t hear me come in, and since my bed faces away from the door, he didn’t see me come in either.I froze for a few seconds, and then quietly walked out of the room leaving my bf by himself undisturbed. I picked up my things and left the apartment to run an errand. When I returned at my normal time, my bf was in already gone for work. We have been having some problems in our relationship, could this be a sign that he is loosing interest in me?Is this something normal for a man to do in his girl friend’s bed? Should I have let him know that I was there when I walked into the room? Should I talk to him about it and find out why he is doing that in my apartment?Thanks for your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, Amycoffeegirl +, writes (20 January 2016):
Amycoffeegirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTottochan,
Thank you, sounds like a great idea. Any suggestions as to how to make the topic seductive to make him less embarrassed?
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reader, Tottochan  +, writes (16 January 2016):
Hey there,
I think you could bring it up in a naughty or seductive manner. That way he wouldn't be embarrassed.
Or if you two are open enough, you could just have an open, casual talk. It's only a big deal if you make it out to be one. Treat it like the non-issue it is and everything will pan out smoothly.
All the best!
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reader, Amycoffeegirl +, writes (14 January 2016):
Amycoffeegirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone for your advice.
I am still not sure if I should talk with him. I don't want to embarrass him in any way, but I am still concerned that he is handling my clean undies, and when he is done, he puts it back with my clean lingerie.
Any advice on how to let him know that this bothers me?
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reader, takepart  +, writes (10 January 2016):
not sure sort of problems youv been having together .but if he is masturbating and not having sex with you at all then that could be an issue ..but as men usual more high sex than a woman he may just not wsnt to disturb you for sex when you got home..i would sujest you get sexy see if he wants to go bed with u..if he dont .maybe he not for you ..but then he may just suprise you anf be the best lover ever ..i would not say just cos you saw im .that he not interested ..good luck
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (7 January 2016):
Masturbation isn't sex - it's maintenance. It's healthy for both men and women regardless of whether they're in a relationship.
There is absolutely no need to worry and no need to mention it to him as it would probably just embarrass him.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (7 January 2016):
 I don't think you need to talk to him about it, its pretty normal, he is young and he was obviously aroused. Nothing to worry about.
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reader, Tottochan +, writes (7 January 2016):
Not a big issue.
He probably woke up from sleep - usually when guys get up they experience arousal, and he probably was thinking of you while pleasuring himself - thus your panties were next to him.
Relax, it's not a big deal. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2016): He had your kickers beside him so he must of been thinking of you. Maybe you need to try new things or increase the amount of times you have sex. Try it different times of the day as he is clearly horny. Plan to be off work early one day and call and surprise him. Make sure you are wearing really sexy undies.
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