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I am on the pill, but my periods come at the wrong time. Who do I see for help ?

Q.   Hello, I’m beginning my second year of university and have just moved into a house with five other girls. I’m on the pill so should only get my period during the 7 day break but have started bleeding whilst talking the pills. I am starting to worry, ...

A.   25 October 2008: you need to go back to your GP who gave you the pills to start with, they will give you different pills to suit you and your periods x... (read in full...)

Am I ready for sex with an older boy?

Q.   i m 16 years nd 7month girl frm india i m getting sexual feelings am i ready for having sex with my partner whose 18 years and his a sexpert?...

A.   25 October 2008: i STRONGLY agree with Bugs. STI's and HIV are a huge thing lately, so if you do please take the correct procoursions. ... (read in full...)

What are the ladies preference?

Q.   A question 4 the ladys... I want 2 know what do you ladys more enjoy whilst having sex? Also when it comes to the guy's penis, do you like it thick or short, slim or long... x ...

A.   25 October 2008: thickish and longish! and i dont wish to discuss my sex life! ... (read in full...)

I feel my boyfriend doesn't like to spend so much of his time with me, what is wrong with him?

Q.   I want my boyfriend to want to spend most of his time with me. I feel like sometimes he really blows me off.. We aren't fond of eachother friends so it makes it slightly difficult, but even when i try to hang out with him and his friends i feel like ...

A.   25 October 2008: all men like there own space, just like a women wants time to herself once in a while. try not to spend all your time with him, and maybe he'll come running to you. thats what i would do :)... (read in full...)

My guy-friend got me pregnant but I had a miscarriage, why is he mad at me now for everything I couldn't control?

Q.   Please help me! My best guy-friend said he loved me, so I had sex with him and I got pregnant. I'm only thirteen, so I was scared, and then I had a miscarriage, he got mad at me for getting pregnant, then he got mad at me because the baby died. He ...

A.   25 October 2008: for one you should not be having sex at your age! please dont! but this isnt either of your faults, at least you used a condom. condoms arnt always 100% effective just like this incident. i just suggest you talk to him about the situation. it is n... (read in full...)

I must admit I enjoy sex with men, but also love my wife. should I come out?

Q.   I am 37 yrs. old and married with two children. I had my first gay encounter when i was 13, and thru age 23 had about 12 more. after being married about 5 yrs., i had a want to have sex again with a man ( encounters consist of oral and masturbation ...

A.   25 October 2008: this is difficult, because you will love your wife but do you look at other women and find them attractive? you might find your wife attractive because she's your wife! if you find you like other women too then obviously your bisexual. and the shou... (read in full...)

I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. We have both cheated, and now we are living apart. Where did we go wrong ?

Q.   I have been married 20 years but it was never a very happy marriage. The issues releted to bad very infrequent sex. Discussed this with my wife many times but she did not change. She just did not care for me and was always more engrossed in her ...

A.   25 October 2008: You both are living apart for a reason, maybe you should sit down together and talk about your future, or lack of future. i think that cheating, even if you are forgiven/forgiven somebody else, there is always something in your mind, and you will... (read in full...)

Does my boyfriend still love me now that I had sex with him????

Q.   my boyfriend had never had sex until me and know he wants it all the time but i do not know wether he is actually still in love with me ? ? my boyfriend is 17 and i am 16 we were all okay until i had sex with him and then he started to take ...

A.   25 October 2008: he's young and he's probably just excited because he's had sex. he's probably just still getting that buzz. hopefully, he will grow out of it after a bit. if he doesnt settle down then you probably will need to talk to him, serious talk. let him ... (read in full...)

How can I help my best friend to feel good about herself?

Q.   Ok, I seriosuly need help! My best friend has been depressed for a while now, but when her boyfriend dumped her a few week ago she just fell apart. Then, she started saying she wanted to kill herself. I'm so worried about her and I don't know wha...

A.   25 October 2008: why dont you do something really girly just like a girls night in, do each others hair and make up and things, or go bowling, or to the cinama, something that they didnt use to do together to keep her mind off things. tell her that your always h... (read in full...)

Boyfriend hates oral: I can't cum without it!

Q.   my boyfriend hates giving me oral sex and thats the only way i'm able to orgasm, i have vibrators and other various things. has anyone got any suggestions ...

A.   22 October 2008: we've been together for 4 years and he's only gave me oral ONCE! im always waxed and clean. i have asked him why he dont want to give me it but he always is like "i will do one day". he's gone off sex aswell though, i try to initiate it but he ... (read in full...)

How much longer do I have to live like this?

Q.   hello , i'm a 38 year old guy living in nashville ,tn and i've been divorced ever sence i was 30 , i have had some brick walls to climb over to get where i am today i went to two boarding schools when i was younger and got pstd i ...

A.   22 October 2008: sweetheart, i really feel for you. this is such a hard situation, i want to answer to your even though i cant give much advice.. i'm not in the same situation as you are and i cant begin to understand how your feeling. the only thing i could su... (read in full...)

Can I get pregnant by doing this?

Q.   ok, so my boyfriend and i still havent had sex, and we have been together for a year and six months. well, we now have made some moves. like dry humping. i keep my pants on (which are sweats) and he pulls out his dick, so he can feel it b...

A.   22 October 2008: you will not get pregnant but i think your should deffinately have sex, you are basically there anyway. by doing what you are doing it shows that you both want it ... (read in full...)

Have a given him too many chances?

Q.   Well this might be a pretty long story but please take sum tim to read it and please give me sum advice... Well the thing is, my ex split up with me just over a month ago and now hes asking for me bk but i dno cos let me tell u wat happend wen we w...

A.   22 October 2008: really, i think that is a bit silly. i think you both should go your seperate ways to be honest. this seems just like a playground tittletattle... (read in full...)

How can I make the sex more satisfying?

Q.   I'm in a relationship with a female, I being a female myself and I just need some help or adivice. Well we recently started having sex and I was wondering how could I make it more satisfying for me? I don't know why but for some reason it isn't as ...

A.   22 October 2008: i agree with the male reader, i think you need to invest in some toys, any girl should have at least one i think. ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life.

Q.   I'm 15 and have felt pressured to have sex most of my high school life. I have a girlfriend and I want to have sex with her but I'm not confident enough. It's not that I have a small penis, it's that I have tight forskin and cannot ejaculate yet. ...

A.   22 October 2008: you need to speak to a parent then you need to go to the doctors. having it removed i think is the only option. this isnt a bad thing though i promise! my other half has had his removed and it is so much cleaner and you will become more sensitive ... (read in full...)

My bf isn't working and just lives off me! What should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend is nearly 23 years old, we have a house which we rent in a village near our parents houses. We've been together for nearly 4 years now and while ive been with him he hasnt had a job. I find myself having to pay for everything for him. ...

A.   22 October 2008: Thank you for your advice, he is with an agency but even the work he gets there he either says he dont want to do that job or he goes once and dont go again. I would love to just tell him to move out, but i cant afford the rent on my own! its a no ... (read in full...)

Strange vagina!

Q.   Hi, I am a teen and I have had my fair share of boys, I have messed around like kissing etc and I'll do anything to him but as soon as he goes to touch me I hesitate and tell him to stop. There is a reason for this, I believe I have a weird vagina. ...

A.   21 October 2008: I have them, there nothing to worry about, you just need to come to terms with them before going any further with anybody else. If your not confident about yourself then you won't go any further. Maybe you should discuss this with your partner, you ... (read in full...)

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