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writes:i m 16 years nd 7month girl frm india i m getting sexual feelings am i ready for having sex with my partner whose 18 years and his a sexpert?
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reader, amybaby  +, writes (25 October 2008):
 i STRONGLY agree with Bugs. STI's and HIV are a huge thing lately, so if you do please take the correct procoursions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2008): Hi Dear ,if at 18 he is a sexpert it means he's played around hasn't he?I strongly believe your first time should be with some one who loves and cherishes you.Its more fun that way.If its just sex from your side ,you will not feel bad later.I know you are young.But we women have this sixth instinct which is uncanny especially when it comes to guys.If you love him read his eyes.Do you just see a conquest in his eyes.Do you want to be another notch on his bedpost?Is he the sort of guy who is going to discuss about this with his friends saying "Pata Liya Yaar".If you don't know Hindi thats translated as "I have had her friends".Even in the most forward of countries a girl's sexual past and a guy's sexual past are judged differently.The girl is termed a slut where as a guy is termed a stud.Are you okay with other people saying things about you.Its India dear.There are bound to be gossips.Lets say the affair doesn't work out.Later on if you decide that it would be better for you to go for an arranged marriage.How would you explain your husband.Yes we are slowly progressing but we have a long long way to go.I am adding one more thread before you take a decision.Please read it.After reading this if you still want to go ahead safe sex is a must!!.Condoms are absolutely necessary.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-pretend-to-be-a-virgin.html
Take care!!Let me add there is something special on being a virgin for your husband.Its awesome!!
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