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Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   14 December 2010: its true jonas your right :( this is just a horrible chapter in my life..... i just dont even want to face it... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   14 December 2010: guys thank you again! is it true that people do not change? like that his personality will not change, i mean if he comes back and says he is a changed man and acts all sweet and everything.. and makes me feel guilty.. but i wonder if ppl change.... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   13 December 2010: jonas i cant thank you enough, its been really difficult, and you are right, he does get angry and i would try always put up with it. I shouldnt have enough is enough, he gets mad sometimes over the smallest things, it unbelievable, its a hard thing ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   13 December 2010: thank you lugerhaus you are right, I am hoping one day this will all be a distant memory i feel sick to my stomach, i just dont even want to roll out of bed... (read in full...)

Why am I feeling a bit cheated? Did I make a mistake marrying a person with such a heavy past? ?

Q.   I married a woman 10 years older than me who had been married for 20 years before me. We have a good loving marriage, but our sex life is very basic. She has a very heavy sexual history with lots of porn, sex toys etc that she claims was her ex ...

A.   12 December 2010: have you talked to her and raised your concerns? it sounds like there is no communication... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   12 December 2010: thank you guys so much what i mean by he leaves me is that there have been a couple of times where we would argue in the beggining and he would be like get outa the car, or get outa the house, and I would have to walk home or call someone to pick... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   11 December 2010: jonas i cannot THANK YOU enough, lately I dont see myself deep down inside growing old with him, because he doesnt even share the same passions as me, i love literature and poetry and he doesnt even like that. he is the one that ended it and now ... (read in full...)

Why is it so hard to let our first loves go...?

Q.   Hello im going thru some crazy times, but im sure a lot of other people are too. I just wanna know why is it soo hard to let our first loves go? He says he will go if thats wat I want and i cant give him a straight answer. I know we cant work ...

A.   11 December 2010: i am on the same boat, with him for five years, but i know deep down it cant work, im not happy.. CHECK YOUR VALUES. WHAT ARE YOUR VALUES. SUCCESSFULL COUPLES SHARE THE SAME VALUES.. its tough i am going through it right now but sometimes ppl dont ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   11 December 2010: jonas thank you that brought me to tears, I cant thank you enough i need to wake up, its so easy to run into the arms of someone else to ease the pain but i know that wont be the soluion. My soul feels battered, i deperately want to FEEL really feel ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   10 December 2010: thank you jonas! i hope that one day i can find someone that loves me for me, i feel very bruised and shatered and I hope it will heal one day. I am so self concious its sad but i hope someone can make me feel good... (read in full...)

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

Q.   Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

A.   10 December 2010: Thank you everyone, I have such a low confidence to this man, and I was always and still am afraid that no one will love me. I don’t know how to love myself. People say I am a beautiful girll but after five years of this it has been so hard. I have ... (read in full...)

He's sooooooooo mean!!!

Q.   My boyfriend and I dated for five years; to make the long story short after long bickering and fights on i want space i want to hang out with my friends blah blah.. he ends the relationship.. he tells me that he is sorry that he caused so much ...

A.   12 June 2010: omg m situation is the same!!!!! exactly how u said it!!!! omgggg it does hurt sooo bad and its so confusing.i have opted not to talk to him i told him not to talk to me because i am way too hurt its been a week and a half and we he has followed my ... (read in full...)

He's sooooooooo mean!!!

Q.   My boyfriend and I dated for five years; to make the long story short after long bickering and fights on i want space i want to hang out with my friends blah blah.. he ends the relationship.. he tells me that he is sorry that he caused so much ...

A.   11 June 2010: am i overreacting??? cause he says he doesnt want a relationship anymore but then he says he misses me and misses talking to me.. i dont get it, and we are not sleeping together so its not about that.. i'm so lost hurt..... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   4 June 2010: thank you Cindy.. it is getting easier i will not contact him and leave this to god.. i pray that he heals me..... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   3 June 2010: its easier said than done... it was five years and he has been the one contacting me.. so in a way u are right but it is harder done than said,..i have stopped all communication though... (read in full...)

She is the only woman I have not been scared to love...

Q.   Hi. I'm in need of some serious advice because I just don’t know what to do. My ex broke up with me last January after 4 years together and 2 years engaged, the last 6 months were very turbulent, this was because I was working 24/7 trying to get ...

A.   1 June 2010: keep in mind if she doesnt come back then this is just a phase and that she is not meant for you.. i mean how can you give up after so many years? everything has its ups and downs.. if she doesnt come back than that is her losss, and your gain.. ... (read in full...)

She is the only woman I have not been scared to love...

Q.   Hi. I'm in need of some serious advice because I just don’t know what to do. My ex broke up with me last January after 4 years together and 2 years engaged, the last 6 months were very turbulent, this was because I was working 24/7 trying to get ...

A.   1 June 2010: MAKE IT CLEARRR i am in the same situation right noww my ex boyfriend wants to stay friends quit playing with each others emotions, either its bouyfriend or gf or nothing. come one that stuff will only lead to more hurt.. tell her your are willing ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   1 June 2010: i will thank you guys so much i will tell him that i cant talk to him because i need to move on with my life, and i will tell him i will drop all contact this is the next time he texts me or email me because he is the one contacting me.. i will tell ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   31 May 2010: guys i have an update so its been two weeks since we talked and all of a sudden i get a text from him saying i really miss talking to you.. i do not respond and then the next day he calls me ..i pick up and he said he owes me an apology and would ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   27 May 2010: i guess i have to face the music i just cant understand how one ends feelings so quickly :(... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   24 May 2010: How am i supposed to believe in love again.. i cant stop thinking of hime, while he is comftable sleeping at night...omg i am soo lonely :(... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   23 May 2010: So in my heart since we never ended it face to face HE DID NOT WANT TO END IT FACE TO FACE HE WAS AFRAID I GUESS. i wrote him and email saying how basically he is the lowest scum on the earth and he deserves nothing but the worst, and i finally ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   23 May 2010: well i blocked him on my phone because he calls every week in the end (sunday) to say basically oh well now i'm happy that i dont have headaches from you, but ur still a speacial person? so we go back and forth with textxs its a waste of time godd. ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   19 May 2010: thank you sappy girl, the truth hurts so much, i grew up hearing my parents argue and fight all the time and their marriage was a wreck, and i always dreamt to have a man that would love me, that was and is my biggest insecuritiy. i feel just ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   19 May 2010: ITS like i get it! i really get it that this is not the way to be treated but we always fought and forgot what each other said ..maybe he does need some time to come to his sensses and realize what he is gonna lose out on since i'm not running back ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   19 May 2010: Every time i try to do that he calls and texts like once a week maybe he wants to come back? i mean he always ends it as you'll always be special to me, and he says he is happy we're not together..it confuses me :( then y is he still contacting me.. ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   18 May 2010: i am slowly trying to, he is in denial or maybe doesnt want to take the blame saying oh things ended a while ago you shoud have known.. and hes like how have i heard you blah blah and after denying it he ends the convo well ur still special to me ad ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   17 May 2010: Just recently he tried to contact me again saying oh how have i desrespected you and how have i hurt you, he doesnt want to keep the blame, and i told him yu have hurt me way too muh and i never want someone like you. to make the long story short he ... (read in full...)

Help!!! Why did he leave??????

Q.   okay so i dated someone 28 years old for four years. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter ...

A.   15 May 2010: Cindy god thank you soo much! i did have self esteem ssues a lot and even though ppl tell me i am beautiful i self destruct, thhank you from the buttom of my heart for the suggestions i will look at all the books and the website i hope that this ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   15 May 2010: thank you so much guys for all your responses. i am trying to go to theraphy because this man has completetely sucked my confidence out of me. I have beecome so drained and depressed that i feel like my world is ending. but i am trying to hang in ... (read in full...)

Help!!! Why did he leave??????

Q.   okay so i dated someone 28 years old for four years. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter ...

A.   15 May 2010: i'm soo insecure, i was never like this i dont even love myself anymore.. i cant believe that he would say i am the best and that i am wife material but then after five years just throw me away. I dont know how i can love myself again, i dont know ... (read in full...)

He says he doesn't love me anymore that he cares for me as a friend.

Q.   I'm really upset, my boyfriend of almost 9 months just randomly broke up with me. It started with 2 days of no talking after a stupid argument in which he pretty much assumes I told him he couldn't go to the movies with his friends when I never said ...

A.   13 May 2010: honestly i was with a guys that played with my emotions like that for five years and he ended the relationship, if you wanna suffer like i am then stay ...but just leave before you get too deeper :(... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   12 May 2010: kay so i dated someone 28 yrs for four yrs. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter arguments and ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   12 May 2010: do you think he will come back?? will he come back only if e sees that someone else is not better.. ia m soo honest with him go i put everything into thisss. my pure heart my sould. everything..... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   12 May 2010: do you think he will come back?? will he come back only if e sees that someone else is not better.. ia m soo honest with him go i put everything into thisss. my pure heart my sould. everything..... (read in full...)

Why is my ex giving me such mixed signals?

Q.   okay so i dated someone 28 yrs for four yrs. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter arguments and ...

A.   12 May 2010: some please give me some advice!!! please... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   12 May 2010: thank you sappy girl its been a week but he has not called me eve since i told him not to contact me.. but i have a feeling he will tr to come back....... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   12 May 2010: and no he does not look like david beckham he is average looking, but my self esteem is so low now i am falling into a major depression. GOD help me because i dont know who is going to love, i dont kno how i can fall for another man. I truly wanted ... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   12 May 2010: This is the last text from him before i said i didnt want to keep contact... i am soo hurt I cant understand how you can be with someone for four and half yrs and then just get over everything so easy "Okay well i'm here for you if you wanna gr... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   11 May 2010: thank you everyone, then y does he want to be so badly friends? is it to check up on me to see if i am changing losing weight or seeing someone, cause he did ask me oh have you lost weight just to weeks ago... (read in full...)

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

Q.   Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

A.   11 May 2010: When we started dating he was nice and we've had great times together, i just dont get it. for example we both are from eastern europe and he said that he started going out with me because i wasnt like the girls from our culture(most girls are ... (read in full...)

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