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*lexia846
writes:My boyfriend and I dated for five years; to make the long story short after long bickering and fights on i want space i want to hang out with my friends blah blah.. he ends the relationship.. he tells me that he is sorry that he caused so much drama, that it has nothing to do with me but that he wants to have fun before he gets married and doesnt want to be in a relationship it doesnt matter what i could have done.. Mind you he has been sending me messages saying he misses talking to me (once) and when he saw me the last time he said he missed me... So i decided to call him and tell him to stop contacting me and that i was very hurt..his response"oh come on ur making a big deal out of this ppl break up every day, ur making a big deal out of this.. and i insisted that he dont talk to me and he said okay and has not for a weekam i overreacting?i am soo lost it was five years?:( help Reply to this Question
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reader, alexia846 +, writes (12 June 2010):
alexia846 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionomg m situation is the same!!!!! exactly how u said it!!!! omgggg it does hurt sooo bad and its so confusing.i have opted not to talk to him i told him not to talk to me because i am way too hurt its been a week and a half and we he has followed my advice and not called :( i wonder if he ever really loved me...
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reader, smile05 +, writes (11 June 2010):
Aww girl the same exact thing is happening to me.. I was with him for 3 years.. It hurts so much.. He tells me he misses me and that he loves me but that he wants to enjoy life and b single.. He tells me that we could still b friends.. I told him no bcuz it jst hurts me more if I see him and talk to him.. :( I'm jst trying to stay strong and not talk to him and ignore him too.. I tried working things out with me but he said no he needed time and space.. Guys r weird.. U should jst ignore him and he might realize he really needs u and come bak and if not then to bad everything happens for a reason and u deserve someone that treats u better :) stay strong girl I'm feeling exactly what u are .. It hurts alot :(
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reader, alexia846 +, writes (11 June 2010):
alexia846 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionam i overreacting??? cause he says he doesnt want a relationship anymore but then he says he misses me and misses talking to me.. i dont get it, and we are not sleeping together so its not about that.. i'm so lost hurt..
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 I think you should keep telling him to get lost. It sounds like he doesn't care about you much. Then again, not many people do care about anyone. Most of us just look after ourselves...This is nothing new.
Just tell him to get out of your life and stay out of it for good.
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