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How do I get the confidence to be on top during sex?

Q.   I hope my question goes up I really need help on this one. My boyfriend and I have started having sex and he is my FIRST! He's had a lot more experience and he's very pateint. The thing is I,m afraid to be on top because of my weight and also ...

A.   9 December 2011: I totally understand how you feel when it comes to being top during sex. It took me a while to get comfortable on top mainly bcuz it hurt more but overtime I've learned to just go with it and the easiest way for me is to squat when im on top. Knees ... (read in full...)

I'm married, met someone online and thinking of going further. Will I regret it?

Q.   Well I have been threw many ups and downs in my relationship . It was very long and ans stressful experience for,but my husband actually made a 360 degree improvement .So I should be happy right ? The truth is I don't really care .He did not care ...

A.   7 December 2011: I just want to say that I caught my boyfriend talking to another girl online. I had no idea but here were these hundreds of emails back and forth between them two and I want you to know how hurtful that was to find out. It happened months ago and im ... (read in full...)

He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?

Q.   I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...

A.   7 December 2011: Thx To the guy posting I appreciate it and HoneyPie it's been almost 6 years not months but thx. ... (read in full...)

After 5 Years Why Hasn't He Proposed

Q.   This is real simple. I've been with my boyfriend for over 5 years. I moved out of state to be with him and its been me and him since 2006. I have never given him a reason to not trust me. I've never lied to him. I've never cheated on him. I go to ...

A.   7 December 2011: Thanks so much y'all for taking the tome to write me. Im crazy for wanting to marry him, but in all reality I don't think I want to anymore. I just wanted some feedback as to why its been almost 6 years and he hasn't proposed. I definitely got the ... (read in full...)

He called it "SPAM" I think he is cheating. Should I leave him?

Q.   I need some help big time with my relationship! My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years!! Recently I have suspected him of cheating on me and its driving me insane! A few months ago I noticed that he wouldn't let his phone out of his s...

A.   7 December 2011: I appreciate all the answers so very much! I feel a little more relieved that y'all are on the same page with my leaving him because no body knows about this. My family is 1000 miles away so its a little hard to pick up and leave. Need $ and I've ... (read in full...)

Telling my bf I am not in love with him anymore will devastate him...how do I break the news?

Q.   i am realli confused! i have been dating the same man for four and a half years now. i love him to bits and do not like hurting him i feel that i am not in love with him anymore, because there is a difference between loving someone and bein...

A.   31 January 2010: First off if your gonna be so cold hearted and shallow to cheat on him ((I'm seing someone behind his back)) then u need to brake it off asap! That's messed up that u could do that, I understand that some people can't help their feelings and who ... (read in full...)

He said he would do oral on a guy if I wanted him to. Does this make hm bi?

Q.   Ok need some advice on a few things. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. He has always said that he loves having sex with me but wishes I would get more involved. I had major issues getting involved because of some ...

A.   29 January 2010: Its weird when there is girl-on-girl action because us girls are never considered gay or bi.....its just hot n sexi to guys but when it comes to guy-on-guy then most think of them as gay or bi. Weird how it plays out. But I personally throw up at ... (read in full...)

We say some rally nasty things to each other.

Q.   Hi all, just thought id come on here to vent a few of my frustrations and get some feed back as i dont really have anyone to turn to for this sort of thing. My girlfriend and i are in a pretty intense relationship, weve been together almost ...

A.   27 January 2010: My boyfreind and I would have some crazy fights our first 2 years together. We call eachother every name in the book and actually have physical fights because we too were stubborn and always fought to get the last word in. But eventually we relized ... (read in full...)

I want to marry another woman

Q.   i am 38 years old business man. i married 9 years back and i have one child. these last few months back i fall in love with another girl and her age is 25 years. for my business that girl is very important, i love her and she also love me so ...

A.   27 January 2010: Well my opinion when it comes to marriage is its for life. I don't believe in divorce, I feel that once you marry then your married till death do you part. But in your case, it seemd that you spend a lot of time with this younger woman at work and ... (read in full...)

I just wanna have some fun but he's past it!

Q.   I just turned 21 and my boyfriend is almost 29. I'm ready to party and get wild and just have fun! But he always says he had his time to party when he was "young and dumb" and all he cares about now is working working working! I wanna go out to the ...

A.   27 January 2010: Let me clarify that BIG time......I love my boyfriend will every beat of my heart and I don't know what id do without him. Its just the simple fact that I would like to enjoy being 21 by goin out with friends and doin my own thing on occasions. ... (read in full...)

How come sex ends so quickly?

Q.   My boyfreind and I have sex very often but I honestly wouldn't even call it that. Anytime we do have sex there is never any foreplay involved unless its me going down on him and as soon as he gets his "guy" in.....he "Cums" really quick. Within a ...

A.   27 January 2010: Well I have sat him down and talked about this. Numerous of times. Calmly telling him that he needs to pleasure me as much as I pleasure him but he still hasent changed. He says he can't help it when he comes so quick, that its my fault he cums so ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend buys porno mags and hides them but I don't understand!

Q.   I was 17 when I fell for my brothers best friend. He was 25. He lived in Alabama and I lived in Michigan but he had come up to visit and that's when we got together. I moved to Alabama on my 18th birthday and I am now 21 years old and he is 28 ...

A.   27 January 2010: When I found the first stack of mags, yes I did go through the house and I ended filling a garbage bag full of porn, I did not throw them away, I just wanted to show him that was crazy how much mags he had. And for the internet thing, he looks porn ... (read in full...)

How do I know if he is "The One"?

Q.   my boyfriend and I have ben together for almost 4 years and we def. Have our ups and downs just like every other relationship and I was wondering when the wedding bells should riing? I love him and anytime I bring up Marriage and Babies he gets ...

A.   27 January 2010: Well, you see, "caringGuy" my boyfriend was engaged before me. He proposed to his ex gf and she ended up cheating on him and ruined it so they broke up. They were only togther for about a year or so and We have now been together for almost 4 years! ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend buys porno mags and hides them but I don't understand!

Q.   I was 17 when I fell for my brothers best friend. He was 25. He lived in Alabama and I lived in Michigan but he had come up to visit and that's when we got together. I moved to Alabama on my 18th birthday and I am now 21 years old and he is 28 ...

A.   27 January 2010: I tried talking to him about buying and hiding his mags but he didn't have anything to say so it was pointless! I really try to be cool about it but its very hard esp.when he has the nerve to tell me what I can and can't buy. Understandable that ... (read in full...)

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