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What's the best way to contact an ex?

Q.   i want to contact my ex after 6 months of no contact. whats the best way to do it?...

A.   2 April 2010: Work out a way to meet him "accidentally on purpose". That advice comes from Wilma Proops. If you want to contact him with a view to rekindling your relationship, you know what you should do. If you want to contact him to show him you're d... (read in full...)

Sister staying in bad marriage for the kids--should she do this?

Q.   It pains me to no end that my sister married a pathological liar. He lied about everything before they got married. He lied about his childhood, he lied about being in the army, he lied about what his family's line of work, he lied about being an ...

A.   2 April 2010: There are times when parents should stay together for the kids but this does not sound like one of those. Your sister has you and a wider supportive family - she can do without him. It is not as if he earns big money and the comforts that brings - ... (read in full...)

6 months later ex deletes our myspace, what does this mean?

Q.   Hi, My ex boyfriend and I broke up a around Nov of 09' which was about 6 months ago. A couple weeks after we broke up he had this friend who he vented to about us and they soon after were dating, im guessing it is a rebound after everything i've ...

A.   2 April 2010: See the deletion as a little tidying up. Your ex seems to be content with his current girlfriend. Rebounds actually do work sometimes and very well. Why are you so bothered? Why are you checking up on him on MySpace? You should look to your ... (read in full...)

Does my bf want me to change?

Q.   I need some help with my boyfriend. All the time i am around him he talks about other girls and how hot they are and i am starting to think that he wants me to be a diffrent person. If you think that he wants me to be someone ealsed i mean sometimes ...

A.   2 April 2010: I think you should take the hint and dump him. Perhaps if he shows that he doesn't want you to do this he'll see that his comments are upsetting you. It is not you who needs to change it is him.... (read in full...)

My boyfriend shows off by getting into fights

Q.   My boyfriend allwase gets in fights around me i dont know why but i think that he is defending me what if he is just showing off to me? Well i dont know because i didnt ask him and i dont have the guts to ask him....

A.   2 April 2010: If you act as if you are impressed with his stupid, violent and dangerous behaviour he might be showing off. Do you really think you need protecting? Are you living in a war zone? What sort of relationship are you in? You can't ask him why ... (read in full...)

I feel my fiance should pull his weight financially

Q.   My finance has been living with me and my 2 children for about a year and a half. We make the same amount of money but he only pays for food. He says he won't help with the house payment and utilities because I would be paying for them if he wasn't ...

A.   2 April 2010: I asked Wilma Proops what she would do. She said she'd get rid of him as he has shown himself to be a selfish user. He is playing you for a fool and taking what your children should be having. Don't you think you owe them more and you are setting ... (read in full...)

I'm 17 and in love with a 31 year old man. How can I tell if he feels the same way?

Q.   okay this will simple question! I feel like I am n lovee but there is a 14 year age diff I am 17 and he iS 31.. I am loud and very out spoken i know everyone iN school and he is almost the complete oppositee.. He iS smart, extremely shy, very ...

A.   2 April 2010: The age gap will ensure you have little in common. A relationship with a man of his age will rob you of the opportunities which you probably will come to resent in years to come. To be bluntly honest you need to put your mind to getting an ... (read in full...)

I lost my job and nearly lost my boyfriend and the place where we live and our pets. I'm ready to burst, please advise.

Q.   This is going to be long... I'm sorry about that! Basically my life completely went down the drain. I lost my job nearly a year ago (fired as I was late often and not showing up couple times despite fact contacting them because they promised me...

A.   2 April 2010: The first thing you need to attend to is the welfare of your pets. If you can't look after them you must find new homes for them. Like children you should not have pets until you have security. In looking after your pets and doing the right th... (read in full...)

Should I tell him how I feel despite living so far away from each other?

Q.   Ive been speaking to this lad for about a year, but hes from america and im from the uk. ive never met him but we've texted and we speak on msn all the time. and recently ive been getting feelings for him. its like i really REALLY like him but i ...

A.   2 April 2010: It would be nice to answer that "love will find a way" but that would be (as Wilma Proops says) "pie in the sky". The best course of action would be to stay in touch but not to do this enough to exclude you from having a life and the possibil... (read in full...)

How can I convince him to take the next step?

Q.   i in iove with a married man and he feels the same but he is afraid to leave his wife. we get on together and share a lot. how can i convince him to take the next step? We are same age, we trust each other too....

A.   31 March 2010: "If he were serious about you he would not need any convincing", that's what I heard Wilma Proops tell someone in the same situation. ... (read in full...)

Why is my son's father refusing to introduce me to his new girlfriend?

Q.   my son father and I are not together we haven't been even before my son was born. We have been having "relations" off and but when I found out he have a girlfriend it stop but he still asks . Just recently he has a girlfriend all of a sudden and ...

A.   31 March 2010: Wilma Proops - a comedy Agony Aunt who says "many a true word spoken in jest" once answered a question like this. She was blunt so I'll be blunt too. Your son's father hasn't introduced you to his new girlfriend for one of several reasons ... (read in full...)

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