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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Ive been speaking to this lad for about a year, but hes from america and im from the uk. ive never met him but we've texted and we speak on msn all the time. and recently ive been getting feelings for him. its like i really REALLY like him but i dont want to ruin out friendship and he lives so far away. i dont know what to do, should i tell him? or just forget about him. We've spoken on the phone and on webcam. and we speak everyday. i just dont know what to do.
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reader, Agony Auntie Smiles +, writes (2 April 2010):
 It would be nice to answer that "love will find a way" but that would be (as Wilma Proops says) "pie in the sky".
The best course of action would be to stay in touch but not to do this enough to exclude you from having a life and the possibilities of meeting someone you can have a contact-relationship with. In years to come you might go to the US or he might come to the UK. In the meantime you should admit to yourself that moping and being depressed because you can't have the unattainable will not provide you with a good standard of life.
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