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Does my bf want me to change?

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Question - (1 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 April 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *uffygirl88 writes:

I need some help with my boyfriend. All the time i am around him he talks about other girls and how hot they are and i am starting to think that he wants me to be a diffrent person. If you think that he wants me to be someone ealsed i mean sometimes i want to say what they *@??are you talking about. Please tel me what you think.

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A female reader, huffygirl88 United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

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My boyfriend is so weird sometimes but i think i will break up eith him when he gets back from his trip to greece.

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A female reader, Agony Auntie Smiles United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2010):

Agony Auntie Smiles agony auntI think you should take the hint and dump him. Perhaps if he shows that he doesn't want you to do this he'll see that his comments are upsetting you. It is not you who needs to change it is him.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

raiders agony auntI'm sorry I just saw your age bracket forget the part I said about beast instinct**** word of advise since your so young never let anyone try to change you, you are your own person and if they can't respect have them hit the road.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (2 April 2010):

raiders agony auntThan tell him don't hold back---- You should express your feelings, tell him that your are not comfortable with his wondering eyes and flirting comments. You are who you are and he saw something in you he liked so he should put all his beastly instinct aside and respect you and give you the place you deserve. **I hope this helps**

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2010):

I think you can do better than a guy who goes on about other girls in front of you. I think you can do better than a guy who doesn't respect you. I think you can do better than a guy who makes you feel this bad. In short, you can do better. If he wants you to change, then he doesn't like you. He likes a dream he can't have. Don't change yourself, change the guy you're seeing. There will be on out there who likes you as you are.

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