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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did she really forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1198 days ago

30 July 2021 (M) - Hello. I'm a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend is 22. So, it's a 3 years gap and we are both okay with it. We dated for 3 months now hitting 4. And to be honest, I had a great time spending my time with her and her the same and we felt like we have ...

Insecure about my girlfriend and other men am I overthinking and being unnecessarily insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1200 days ago

29 July 2021 (M) - Thanks in advance to anybody who reads this all the way through, it will probably turn out to be lengthy, and I appreciate any meaningful advice or insight on this. BACKGROUND: I have been in a relationship for about 10 years with a woman my age. ...

Messed up relationships have made me afraid to date

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1204 days ago

27 July 2021 (F) - I know no one owes me anything in this life. I guess I made the mistake of expecting some level of loyalty? I was with this man for three years. I chose to help him during his health issues. Making a long story short, I had been struggling with my ...

Does anyone else have adult siblings that are just awkward and unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1205 days ago

23 July 2021 (F) - Does anyone else have adult siblings that are just awkward and unreasonable? Is it just me or do I have the worst, most inconsiderate family going?! My parents are both pensioners and could do with a bit of peace and quiet in their old age. Yet all ...

We got together with another couple for lunch and all they do is talk. They don't let my husband or I speak. How do we handle this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1206 days ago

21 July 2021 (F) - Hi. My husband has an old friend back from his university days. Recently with the Covid restrictions lifting, we have gone to breakfast with him. The first time, he was on his own and the second he brought his wife. I have found to not have much...

My husband's lack of affection towards our 12 year old son concerns me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1208 days ago

21 July 2021 (F) - Hi guys, rights now I am just hurting for my eldest son. He just turned 12 and he has great resentment towards his father. My husband's father was never in his life until he was an adult. I believe it was when he turned 42 years old is when they ...

Childhood friend has turned into a bully

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1206 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - I’ve had a childhood friend ask me for so many favors like borrow money but then can’t pay it back or takes months. Then he will take me out to eat only to charge it for me later by saying he owes me less. He also told two people I was molested ...

We broke up because partner wanted me to foot the bill for his sister's wedding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1209 days ago

20 July 2021 (F) - I’m struggling with something and I know it’s for the best. I’m not sure how to feel about it. Three years ago I almost filed for bankruptcy. I was very depressed but about two years ago, I met someone that was a good listener and all that. Aside ...

How can I be a stepmom if I can't be a wife first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1209 days ago

19 July 2021 (F) - I'm being thorough so that I can really just get to the bottom of resolving my stress with good advice. I've been with my current partner for 2 years, married for almost 1 year. His baby mom has caused a lot of drama since day one, though I've onl...

Am I being paranoid by working towards permanently moving out as soon as possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1190 days ago

19 July 2021 (F) - I’m back home over summer due to COVID and that has triggered a bunch of memories i hadnt realized i’d forgotten and feel unsafe because of this. The majority of these are from when I was under the age of 10, my mother calls me crazy for still ...

Former co-worker wants a recommendation to work at my work place. I don't want to give it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1216 days ago

11 July 2021 (F) - 2 years ago I worked with this woman who unfortunately was very lazy. She’d come in late and leave early. Constantly taking sick days when she was fine and was very argumentative. She has lots of verbal warnings too and had the company ...

Advice for saving my mom. Is he a priest or a cult leader?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1218 days ago

10 July 2021 (F) - Please exit out of this questions if you’re easily offended by religious topics, I’m going to be questioning some actions that revolve around that theme. How can I help my mom break free from the manipulation of people who only want her money? ...

Troubled relationship with my sister. Am I wrong for feeling the way I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1222 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - My bf and I were friends online through social media for 6 months before meeting. I'm 34 and my sister is 39 and she said I don't know him and disapproved of us meeting then promptly stopped talking to me. The other day I deactivated my Instagram ...

Unemployed boyfriend expects me to take care of him and pay his bills

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1215 days ago

8 July 2021 (F) - Thanks for listening! So, my fiancee and I have been together about 2 years. He is currently unemployed no fault of his own and looking for employment. However, he acts like I should be paying for everything. I don't mind helping out some...

Girlfriend gets defensive when we have discussions even when I am supporting her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1222 days ago

8 July 2021 (M) - Sometimes, when I am talking with my girlfriend, she will bring up things that have been on her mind about future plans or some idea she has. I love having these conversations. It feels good to talk about the future with her. But, when she brings ...

My boyfriend was raised to believe men are superior. It causes problem in our relationship

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1224 days ago

4 July 2021 (F) - Hello A bit of history. My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years. We have different cultures, different religions, and were interracial. At times it is challenging. I respect his culture but sometimes I do get a bit frustrated with ...

My boyfriend dotes on me so why am I so paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1225 days ago

2 July 2021 (F) - I’m so paranoid about my boyfriend leaving me that I’ve been waiting on him hand and foot and being overly sexual with him. Before you all start calling him a pig who treats me like shit, he’s not. He’s the sweetest, kindest, most caring man ...