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writes:Ive been in a relationship with a man for going on three years. He has been in a relationship with a woman for thirty yrs. He treats me very well...Ok heres the deaL.. He purchased the Whispers concert tickets... He also invited and old time friend of his .. They were in the service together yrs ago let me just put out that my friend is 65 lm 43..along with his friend from the service whom is in a relationship with his woman for twenty yrs was also invited... when my friend told me about these tickets l was under the impression thatit would b just me and him until he mentioned that they were going....which i feel kind of uncomfortable about,,, because of the fact they know of my friend old lady.... should I go because of this uncertain feeling or not?I know there will b alot of comments on this topic and im ready to answer Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2013): I think you should go and have a good time. If anyone should feel awkward it's HIM, and he obviously doesn't. You will waste the whole night kicking yourself and wishing you had gone if you don't go. It will be fine!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the response..
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (3 October 2013):
 Your boyfriend must "trust" his friend and his lady to bring you to the event infront of them.
If you still feel uncertain dont go.
You shouldnt feel pressured into anything by your boyfriend.
Go with how you feel as you will be better off. Goodluck!
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reader, like I see it +, writes (2 October 2013):
 Your boyfriend apparently doesn't expect it to be awkward or he'd be playing it safe and taking the woman he's been dating for 20 years.
If you think the strange feeling you have over his friends finding out about the two of you is going to overshadow your enjoyment of the concert, politely decline the invite.
Best wishes.
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