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Archived questions from: October, 2015 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

What can I do? I just can't handle watching her love someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

31 October 2015 (F) - my ex-best friend / ex-lover and i had a very complicated 7 year bisexual relationship. I was her shameful secret and i always felt rejected, used and humiliated. she treated me bad and always flaunted different relationships she had with others ...

Should I go out on the date with second guy? I like them both!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - Hi I could use some help please, So basically I recently moved schools in the last 2 weeks and meet this guy and we've been talking he's totally in love with me and I dunno how I feel back I want to go on a date and meet up with him before I think ...

No matter what I do, the face of this other guy keeps on intruding into my thoughts. How can I stop this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3299 days ago

29 October 2015 (F) - I choose to figure out what went wrong with my marriage that had led me to have an emotional affair with this guy, other than the fact that my husband and I are incompatible. I'd like to believe that I had actually loved him and that I still ca...

Why does my married lover remain with his wife if they've stopped sexual relations with each other?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3301 days ago

28 October 2015 (F) - Been with my married lover for a few years now and the other night I asked him if he was sleeping with his wife? He didn't like me asking because I have kept mentioning it, anyway he said he didn't and if he was to cuddle his wife she would be ...

My boyfriend of two years has cheated on me with his estranged wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3305 days ago

25 October 2015 (F) - When I was barely 17, I fell into the trap of an older and more experienced man (Adam), thinking what we had was love. I was young and naive and was fooled by his compliments. No guy had ever taken interest in me before, so I was easily blinded by ...

Am I being played? I've me a wonderful girl, but she's unhappily married.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

21 October 2015 (M) - I met a wonderful girl at the end of june, and i have fallen so in love with her. and she said she feels the same way too. But she is married and unhappy. so now nearly 4 months in to this crazyness im feeling like im being played. we meet u...

Why he does not stop taking to this girl who is married?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

16 October 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years and we have a child together. He recently turn 30 and it was very hard for him. I am a year younger than him. He recently met this girl who was not married when he met her she was engaged and was ...

My ex is a nice guy. But I love another. How do I get my ex to honor my request to cut all ties?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

14 October 2015 (F) - Hi, I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years but things came crumbling down because he wanted to settle down and I loved him but I was not "in love" with him to marry him and I did not see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I ...

I've met a new girl but still have feelings for the other girl, and I don't want to be that guy. Advice on how to decide who to pursue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

13 October 2015 (M) - I was seeing this girl recently and we've slept together and kissed etc but the we sort of said lets just be friends cause we were arguing. so we did just that and then a girl started talking to me and we were getting along so we exchanged numbers ...

Five years together. Am I just staying with him because I'm scared to be alone? Or are my doubts due to the other guy's crush on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

11 October 2015 (F) - Hi, it's been a while. I have been with the same guy for going on five years now... In those five years we have split up (once) for a period of about three months. We have been back together since last October, so for about a year now... That b...

I had a crush on her now I get annoyed if she looks at me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

11 October 2015 (M) - Hello, First and foremost, thank you for the responses in advance. There is this girl at my gym that's been coming there for some time now. We caught each other's attention, sometimes we would just start looking at each other at the sam...

Why would he lead me on to think we would have a future together and yet now he's seeing one of my friends? I'm heartbroken

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3323 days ago

8 October 2015 (F) - Hey, can someone help me make sense of this? I'm heartbroken. I was meant to meet a guy out travelling really soon. He went out a few months back for a year and I was going to go meet him once I'd saved enough money. We have a lot of history ...

She cheated. At what point will I know I can get past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

7 October 2015 (M) - Hi guys. I could do with some help. My Girlfriend cheated on me 15 months ago, and i found out around 6 months ago. IT's a pretty unique situation so I'll try to explain, We've been together 8 years, and she's been best friends with this guy ...

Do I listen to my gut? I want a committed relationship. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3324 days ago

7 October 2015 (F) - I have been on and off with this guy for a few years, I went through his phone (I know I shouldn't be doing that!!) and found out he had a girl stay over at his place recently.. lets just say he lives in a studio. I confronted him and he told me ...

He doesn't want to hurt the feelings of his ex?? Is that a poor excuse to give to the new Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

6 October 2015 (F) - This is the scenario: Guy breaks up with his girlfriend of a few years. They remain friends. They start hanging out and talking on the phone as soon as a few weeks after break up. A few months later, he dates someone new. A new girl he appears ...

Question for men: is it really difficult to leave your wife if you've been having an affair? Or am I right - is he just offering me excuses?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

5 October 2015 (F) - I have done the unthinkable for the last 8 years of my life. Please don't hammer me. I have been dating married man. No kids. He's much older than me and at first I was just having fun but it turned into love. He's taken me on many trips an...

Friends and family tell me to date the younger guy who's actively pursuing me, but I can't stop thinking about someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3327 days ago

4 October 2015 (F) - Hello, I'm writing this because I need opinions of people that aren't my family/friends. Basically I was in a relationship for around 8 years, from the age of 14 to around 22. It ended because my life got busier and he'd moved away a few...

Why do men feel the need to be a swinger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

2 October 2015 (F) - The man I'm with moved here to care for his mother imet him on line date site we been together almost two years dated a year now live together but as we dated I found out him and his ex wife was swinger..she said what broken them up because he ...

I miss the way our friendship was. What do I say?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

2 October 2015 (F) - I recently started a position in a new office far from my home. Strangely enough, my boss' wife suggested that I meet one of the other coworkers. He had just gotten out of a relationship and after I told her I was single, she thought we would be a ...