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Archived questions from: November, 2019 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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I'm in a messy relationship with no romance.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1807 days ago

30 November 2019 (F - I've been with my bf for 4 years. We have one child together and he is 5. Around the time I got pregnant, we were having issues and broke up. Shortly after, he got a new gf and they were together for about about a year and a half, all thru my pregn...

My ex sent me a fb friend request, I do think about her a lot, and how I could have treated her better.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1810 days ago

25 November 2019 (M - 1 year ago my girlfriend of 7 years broke up with me 3 months after she moved far away for school. The main reasons she broke up with me, I think, were A) she decided she wanted to stay permanently and didn't want to take me away from my family, B) ...

Older guy us making a move on me but wants to keep it quiet.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1814 days ago

25 November 2019 (F - I have a friend (he's 20 years older). A couple of years ago, we had a talk about our feelings. He told me that he was interested in me but couldn't be with me because he had a girlfriend. We stayed in touch (close friends but nothing more) until ...

How do I get over this co-worker?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1816 days ago

23 November 2019 (F - I’m married (unhappily) and to cut a long story short I slept with someone I work in a team with. We had sex 4 times over the space of a year, last year. He is now my manager!! Before we had sex, we were very friendly. Now we barely speak. There are ...

I've left my dishonourable husband but my parents don't trust the new man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1812 days ago

22 November 2019 (F - Hello.. i have asked questions before this and this is my life update. Im currently still legally married with my husband but i went back to my parents home last month. I keep ranting about my husband before and everybody here told me just divorc...

My wife doesn't want to reconcile so why does she care if I'm drinking or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1816 days ago

22 November 2019 (M - My wife has moved out of our home because I drink alcohol. Since she moved, she had several times if I am drinking. She, does not want to reconcile. So, why does she keep asking if I am drinking when we talk by phone? Thank you for your answers....

The guy I am interested in lives with a homeless woman who does drugs and they used to have sex.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1814 days ago

20 November 2019 (F - I recently made contact with a guy from my high school from years ago. We talked for about a week, mostly through text, and made plans to meet up over the holidays, when he dropped a bombshell, and I need help sorting through it. Basically, he told ...

If I got back with an ex I don't want his friend around

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1818 days ago

18 November 2019 (F - I have just found out some shocking news about an exs friend. Me and my ex grew apart but he recently got back in touch i said we could chat and see if theres anything still there, he suddenly went quiet and now i have found out why . his friend has ...

Why does my boyfriend seem obsessed with a woman he hasn't seen for a few years?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1658 days ago

18 November 2019 (F - Hello, so I have been working with my boyfriend on and off helping him out in some of his work projects and he pays me, so he gave me his work laptop, not personal and I was working from there, so I remember I needed to search for a word meaning on ...

What can we do when his ex is lying so much but gets away with it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1821 days ago

14 November 2019 (F - Hello. We are in a tricky situation at the moment and could do with some advice. Me and my husband have been together 9 years. I have 2 Step children. He broke up with ex 2 years before me. His ex is a true narcissist. She doesn’t have ...

I think I need more information about how his last relationship ended before he makes plans to visit me! Thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1826 days ago

11 November 2019 (F - I am in a new “situation” with a man for 5 months, 3.5 months of which has been long distance. He has been visiting the country that he lived in for 10 years that he left a year ago. I recieved a message this evening saying that he wants to come and ...

My ex is a jealous, negative-minded selfish idiot in the relationship area, should I take him back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1828 days ago

9 November 2019 (F - I have a tricky situation that will probably receive mixed reactions based on whether you're a dog-lover or not. Basically - I broke up with my partner a few months back. We fought at first but eventually learnt to be civil. We don't have any k...

I don't think I'm ever going to get over my ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1828 days ago

7 November 2019 (F - Is there any way to really get over an ex? My ex fiancé and I were together for 7 years and have been split up 5 years and I’m still not over him and don’t think I ever will be. I’ve only seen him once during that time and haven’t really spoken to ...

I want closure from my ex. Is it wrong or silly to want to talk to him about our ending?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1833 days ago

4 November 2019 (F - Hi all! I have a question about a past relationship. Quick info: I am 27 and live in Nashville, I have been dating my current SO for 5 months. He is 28. It is my first healthy relationship, and I am very happy with it. The question I have ...

He wants us to have a relationship after he buys his furniture

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1833 days ago

2 November 2019 (F - Ive met this guy through his cousin, as he was coming from other province and being single, we met on the 27 November 2018. Everything was great.at that time he was staying with his lady cousin, but was forever complaining that she doesn't cook even ...

How can we keep living like this? We're broken up but still living together

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1837 days ago

1 November 2019 (F - For the past 8years I've lived with my then boyfirend away from home however we split up 3months ago but neither of us can afford to move out. I'm tied into a job contract and ha to work 3months notice and my family live a 4hour drive away so for me ...

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