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Archived questions from: April, 2019 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I know I can't trust him again but I also want to tell him let's work on it and can figure it out. What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2026 days ago

25 April 2019 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 2.5 months who is going through a separation. He has treated me better than anyone I've been with before and I was really starting to imagine a life with him. The gestures he made, how he made me feel, our ...

I don't think he's over his ex yet. What should I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

23 April 2019 (F) - To cut a long story short...A guy I’ve dated previously (but never been in a relationship with) and someone who remained a friend for about 5 years suddenly exited his toxic relationship of six months. I hadn’t seen this friend in a year or so but ...

Despite all the nonsense I still wanted him but the "Facebook relationship" woman he's never met in real life reaps all the benefits

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2029 days ago

22 April 2019 (F) - He is a typical Mr Unavailable. We were close once and we’d text all the time. I was coming out of a destructive relationship and soon our involvement became romantic. Despite his advances and “promises”, he was just unable to commit to a ...

He broke up with me and now I'm pregnant

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2030 days ago

17 April 2019 (F) - Hello all! I’m in a tough situation.. So last week my boyfriend broke up with me because of pressure from his family. Here’s the gist of it: We started dating a year and half ago. I’m bi-racial, half black and half Hispanic. He’s Indian. When we ...

We broke up and now I regret it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2035 days ago

17 April 2019 (F) - So I had been dating this boy for three weeks, and we were in a happy relationship together. He's currently in his last year of school so has to prepare for his exams, so he couldn't talk to me all the time but we agreed that he would keep me posted ...

Supplemental: My ex is now posting horrible things about me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2036 days ago

17 April 2019 (M) - Hi everyone, I did post my question earlier this week and i did get good feedback so thank you to those who did help, but I do feel as if I left out a lot of information and it is quite a confusing situation I find myself in so I’d like to give this ...

I don't know whether to ask my father for financial help or go overseas for further studies

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - Dear Cupids, I have a life dilemma. I am 31 and still living with my parents. I am an intuitive person and I understand its time for me to move on to my own apartment. Unfortunately though the salary i make per month cannot sustain me into ...

There is something wrong with me, as soon as we have sex I dump them!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2039 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - I daydream about sex most if the time.I read about it, and I watch it. I also find dates, the person usually starts to like me and we hit it off, then we have sex, and then I immediatley cut them off, even if i've enjoyed it I just need to find ...

I think I am being manipulated into being Plan B

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2026 days ago

14 April 2019 (F) - My ex who dated me for almost 5 years suddenly blocked me on whatsapp and 3 weeks later sent me a break up letter. I did not react but I cried and still cry. I went online 2 days ago and saw that his ex wife has new pictures in his new house wh...

I suspect my ex set up my (now also an ex), boyfriend to cheat on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2038 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now. I go to his house every weekend for Friday and Saturday night, and he comes to my house usually to stay the night on Wednesdays. He's been a complete sweetheart to me and we had good plans for the ...

Will he take me back even though I have acted like a nutter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2037 days ago

13 April 2019 (F) - I posted once before - see http://www.dearcupid.org/question/everything-was-perfect-until-he-lost-his-nan.html Since then it’s all been pretty messy.. I went a little psycho for a while, kept trying to contact him etc to which he completely ignor...

Looking back forces me to ask myself if every relationship is different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2041 days ago

12 April 2019 (F) - I was going through old files and found a video of me singing with my ex... Yeah I know I can already see the "bad idea! Bad idea!!" red flags going up haha I'm long since over it. Today it's like a painful lesson that has taught me more empathy ...

I am willing but don't want to move too fast.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2044 days ago

7 April 2019 (F) - Dear Cupid I am single and have been for the last 20 yrs. Only thingvI do is work and come home to an empty house my children are grown and on their own. I really want to get back out in the dating world but I am afraid of getting hurt again my pass ...

Does he care or not care ... he keeps contacting me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

3 April 2019 (F) - I have an ex who reached out to me six months after ghosting me, and tries to pretend nothing came between us. I don’t respond, and he later replies in a passive aggressive manner as if to say “don’t worry I don’t care anyway”. A bit of history, ...

My boyfriend defends his ex when I get upset she visits when I am not there

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2050 days ago

1 April 2019 (F) - im asian and my bf is european, we been 5 month know each other and we already meet also with his parents, my case is i really dont like and never accept when my boy still welcome her ex, i know they was together 5 year before. this girl dont even ...