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Archived questions from: 12 January, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

My husband seems to be choosing his friend over me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5822 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I need some help please. I have been married over a year and been with my husband for six. Last year we had a very bad year and split for a short while, he was constantly chasing me trying to get back with me. We did get back together but when were ...

I love him dearly, but I blew the chance of us ever being together again. Where do I go from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5816 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I got married at 18 because i was pregnant. We had been together for about 3 years. I cheated on my husband about two years later. We split up. I tried to reconcile with him to make our marriage work. He didnt want to hear it. Soon after, I became ...

I have lost all respect for my husband over the 20 years we've been married and would love to leave...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5822 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - I have been married for 20 years. I knew before we married I was doing the wrong thing but still went ahead as I hoped my feelings for him would grow. My husband had been married before and his ex wife was divorcing him when we met. He has a 22...

My wife won't admit she is cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - Happy New Year to everyone!!! 2008 was not a particularly good year for me, I found out my wife cheated and continues on ... some background for all of you: - We have been married for 8 years (my second, her first) - I am 10 years older than she, ...

What can I do to show her 11 years is too much to throw away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5822 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - My wife has told me she is no longer in love with me even though I love her to bits. She says it will not work, we have two kids aged 3 and 6 and I am devastated... she said there is nobody else. What can I do to show her 11 years is too much to ...

We're both married to others, but can he really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - can a married man ever love another woman. i am a married woman who still lives with her husband and kids but have told my husband ive been seeing someone else. i met this other man through a work conference. hes married for 16 yrs me 9yrs. at ...

He left me to go back to his wife and kids! Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - i am a married woman involved with a married/seperated man for 8 months. he moved out of his wife/kids house after 2 months of us being involved. things moved very quickly and before i knew it he was telling me he loved me and wanted me to move in ...

I drove 2 hours to see ex, pregnant wife found out and left me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

12 January 2009 (M) - ive been married for 1 year and my wife is expecting our first child. i receantly started talking to my ex girlfriend over the internet and i started to get all my old feelings back. i told my wife i was going to my brothers to spend the weekend. ...

Married young, no kids, divorce dilemma!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

12 January 2009 (F) - Hi I'm in a love triangle and I need your help and advice.... I'm 19 years old and I'm married so I guess that would make this not just cheating but have an affair... I've been married a little over a year now and we dated 2 years before we got ...