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writes:I got married at 18 because i was pregnant. We had been together for about 3 years. I cheated on my husband about two years later. We split up. I tried to reconcile with him to make our marriage work. He didnt want to hear it. Soon after, I became pregnant by the other man(child #2). We moved in together. The truth came out about this guy, and the whole time we were involved, he was still seeing his girlfriend. We would split up and get back together. He would say that he is going to stop and never do. He takes off from work for occasions such as her birthday to spend time with her(I later found out). He even went as far as talking to her behind my back while i was in the hospital having the baby. I had a rough pregnancy. I almost bled to death. Every time he says he is going to straigten up, I fall for the same lies. Its a new year, and its time for me to grow up and take control of my life. My husband is gone. I have two beautiful kids to care for. I am just scared of being in this all alone. The crazy thing about this all is, when I need advice, the only person that I can talk to is my husband. He is always there for me. I love him dearly, but I blew the chance of us ever being together again. Where do I go from here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for answering my question. I needed to hear just that. My life seems to be getting better and easier as the days go by. I will always cherish the fact that I cant change the past, the only thing that i can do is to learn from my mistakes and to move on.
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