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writes:I need some help please. I have been married over a year and been with my husband for six. Last year we had a very bad year and split for a short while, he was constantly chasing me trying to get back with me. We did get back together but when were split he made a new guy friend, this mate interfere's constantly calls him all the time and won't leave him alone even at christmas when we was with family he kept calling and my husnband actually went to meet him. I have tried explaning about how i feel and he can't see it, now we are split again and his new friend has told him to ignore my calls, I feel so lost, I cant believe he has picked someone he has known for less then a year over me, I don't expect him to pick but just when we spend time together for that to be our time uninterrupted. Can anyone suggest anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): your husband may have a dl situation. i am not being funny here, but maybe he is secretly gay or bi curious. i cant phathom why one man would let his life be ruled by another man. you deserve better- if he cant chose- you chose You. you need someone who isn'y going to throw away your love for some random party he's known too brief a time. you will need some support as you will probably be uspet and need to work through the pain. you cannot sit and wait for someone who has taken vows with you to decide whether he is serious about those vows or to allow someone to threaten your love.
if the tables were turned would he be as understanding about a girlfriend absorbing your time and giving out such poor advice as ignoring your husbands calls? he doesnt sound like a friend, but a miserable parasite who cant stand his friend happy or to bare the idea that he wont have his company if he actually respects you enough to savor your time together.
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