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writes:ive been married for 1 year and my wife is expecting our first child. i receantly started talking to my ex girlfriend over the internet and i started to get all my old feelings back. i told my wife i was going to my brothers to spend the weekend. i drove 2 hour's to see my ex girlfriend witch i hadnt seen in almost 2 years, I spent the night with her and we kissed, but their was no sex. we talked all night and i felt happy with her. The next day my wife found out that i didnt go with my brother, and i told her the truth. She left the house and she wants a divorce, now i feel i made a mistake and want my wife back, our baby is due in 1 month and i want to be with my child for the rest of my life. would she ever forgive me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): I am happy for you, but please promise that you will treat this woman with the love and respect that she deserves, you need make her feel loved and wanted not unwanted and second best, she is carrying your unborn child, please take care of her heart, if you are a man you will, you have made a mistake but you need to understand that its up to you and only you to make her see that you will never do that again, that you want her and no one else, hold her close to your heart, coz angel once you mess this love up completely you will never ever get it back again, it will hurt her yourself and your baby please think before you act next time.I wish you all the best, for the future and may that beautiful gift God has given you bring lost of love and joy into your life,
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you every one for your comments, i just wanted to let you know that iam back with my wife. She has forgiving me, which I am very happy about out. I know i made a mistake but we are all human's and we all make mistakes, the only thing I can do is learn from them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): well, what the hell do you expect..you betrayed her and your unborn child...she'd be better off with a man who will be entirely faithful and not lie to her....especially when she is so vulnerable and pregnant....at least let her go so she has the chance to meet such a man
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Wow, your poor wife. She's probably feeling fat, uncomfortable and pretty much useless. And now you've added unloved and unwanted. Her hormones were already going crazy and will still be for the next year. I hope she's got tons of love and support from the people around her that aren't going to SCREW HER OVER!
That said... If there's ANY chance that she'll take you back it's gonna take A LOT of groveling. But don't hold your breath. All you can do is explain how you feel and make your case, whatever that is. But don't guilt her into taking you back for the child. Then it will be a very unhappy marriage and I'm pretty sure you love your wife enough to want her to be happy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): I'll give my two cents.
You are cruel. You're wife is pregnant with your child and you trick her into thinking you are going to go see your brother and instead stay over at your ex's? Damn. That's harsh.
I really hope that she does not take you back. You made a terrible mistake and should not be forgiven.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): No sense adding my two cents...they've already said everything I'm feeling!
What The Hell Were You Thinking??????????
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reader, elwoodbluelou +, writes (12 January 2009):
 i dont blame her, honestly.i would have done the same thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): honestly i dont think you deserve her, what makes you think any women would want to take a man who does something like that back, you've messed up big time, if she takes you back shes an idiot
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