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Archived questions from: 1 December, 2009 (see latest in Marriage problems category)

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Marriage problems: Help and advice

He committed to me but I just found out he is still married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I was dating a man 15 years ago and had a child with him. He wanted more than I was willing to give at the time and so we both went our separate ways. I still loved him I just felt as if I wasn't ready to get married and move away from my family. ...

I would rather be single than be cheated on...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I have been married for 10 years and we have 4 kids and one on the way. My husband for the most part is a wonderful man and a wonderful father. My problem is that he has a great fascination with online porn and I keep finding he's putting his ...

How can I tell my husband I want to do this myself???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - I have been married 18 years to a great man...he's my knight in shinning armor. He's been a great father to my two boys from a previous marriage and our own two boys (yes, 4 boys) but I'm having some issues with him wanting to have access to my ...

Has my husband fallen out of love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need some advice. The last couple of months my husband has been treating me different. Some background on us.. We have been together since high school. We were both 15, now we have been living together for 8 years and married for ...

Should I end things with my wife in order to be with her sister?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - i am overwhelmingly in love with my wife's sister, and have been for almost 4 years since her divorce. she has 2 boys. i am not in love with my wife and we haven't been intimate in years (at least 10). i want to divorce my wife, and begin a ...

Is it silly to be upset that my husband of 27 years puts his brother as next of kin on his passport?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Recently my hubby got his renewed passport and when I went with him to get his travellers cheques I picked up his passport [while we were waiting for his stuff] and noticed that on the page that asks for next of kin that he had filled in his ...

I want to spice up my love life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5497 days ago

1 December 2009 (M) - ok we have been married for 12 yrs. while sex with my wife is great, i want to take it a bit further. i no stuff like couple swaps and 3 somes would be fantastic in my eyes, i also no that they can do more damage than good. so i spose i am looki...

Can lack of affection and sex contribute to or even cause depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

1 December 2009 (F) - Can lack of affection and sex contribute to or even cause depression? I have been in a 25-year marriage and being rejected or deprived of affection and sex is making me nearly ill to the point that I am questioning my desirability. and wonderin...