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writes:Dear Cupid, I need some advice. The last couple of months my husband has been treating me different. Some background on us.. We have been together since high school. We were both 15, now we have been living together for 8 years and married for 5 years and have 3 children. We moved last Dec just a couple of miles from where we were but we are now in town. That is really when things started to change. His friends are always here, his family are always here, and none of them respect me. I do all the house work as well as all of the yard work, I pick up the beer cans from the night before (not his but his friends, he does not drink) I pick up stuff they leave out while they are "working" on their boats or cars in my yard. I love football and he knows it but every time a good game comes on he lets all these guys come and i have no where to sit and watch in my own living room. I go in my kids bedroom and watch cartoons with them. Man i even mow the grass, and take out the trash. When it comes to sex, we do do it but he has been acting like after he goes it hurts and he cant go anymore for me to go. I am just really confused, i really have no evidence that he is cheating, so i think that he has just fallen out of love with me and doesnt want me to get child support from him. What can i do or say to make him tell me the truth about what he is feeling? Any advice on my situation is wanted!! Thank you!! Reply to this Question
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reader, shaz064eva  +, writes (19 December 2009):
Just because your husband was a good man doesn't mean he can treat you like a slave.If you want him to tell you how he is feeling you have sit down and tell himwhat you are feeling,it is the easiest and quickest way.If he loves you then he will realise that what is happening is hurting you and that thing should change.
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reader, dtullier411 +, writes (2 December 2009):
dtullier411 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe really is a good man. Really before I met him my life was heading in the total wrong direction. He is a good father and his children adore him. I also forgot to mention that he works a lot and his checks prove it. I am a stay at home mom so i guess somethings are easier for me to get done then him. I think the friend thing is what pisses me off the most. It feels like he puts them in front of me, but I guess I should feel lucky cause most of the time he is still home. Not in a bar or strip club. Him and I had a really long discussion last night, he knows that I am tired of his crap, and I hope that this stuff will change. He swears that I am the only one for him. I guess we will see.. thank you for you answer.
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reader, KANDIWRPR +, writes (2 December 2009):
 wow i cant belive that you would actually live like that
why are you doing everything and still dont get to do some of your own stuff...
is he even a good man? he sounds really lazy
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