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anonymous
writes:I slept with this guy like more than 5 times. He asked for my underwear twice and on his third ask, I decided, why not? So I gave them to him. I just want to understand this phenomena... why do guys ask for underwear? I'm curious. I just hope I don't end up seing my underwear hanging on some wall as a souvenir.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2013): So_Very_Confused, Yeah, you haven't been asked but I'll bet you've had a few come up missing ;-)~ or couldn't figure out what you did with them when you'r ready to go home!! btw, kudos on the 100+... Outstanding...Anonymous, As for me, I have a little ornate box where I keep the panties I've collected over the years. They are absolutely TROPHIES!!!Not so much as "me man, me bang woman, me have trophy". But more as "aw, those are Barbara's, and those are Peg's". Of course, there's the occasional "Oh, I remember you. She went home without you the next morning". No, I don't talk to them!I won’t lie, the first day or two they're masturbatory aids. Because (and here's your answer, anonymous) we love the way you smell and taste. It is the absolute most sexy thing in this world. To have your scent and taste while we(I) masturbate; so completely heightens the experience that we (again, I) are willing to steal a pair of used underwear from time to time. I've had women gladly hand them over. Because you can tell a woman that understands vs a woman that going to be like "WHY"? I don't get it! OMG, it's YOU! - It’s your scent – It’s your taste – that's efffing why! Anyway, then they go into the box. To live out their life as a twisted little reminder of you and our time together!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 December 2013):
 I had another thought on this one. He likes to wear the underwear himself. Maybe he's too cheap to buy them for himself?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (11 December 2013):
 To masturbate to them.
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reader, dougbcoll +, writes (11 December 2013):
 it has to do with the scent of your woman, even while she is away you still have her scent close to you.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (11 December 2013):
Why not ask him? He's the one who knows what he's going to do with your undies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2013): I've never asked for underwear. This is the first time I am hearing about something like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2013): To remember you when you are away.Just like having a photo or a lock of your hair or a print of your kiss but much more personal and loving.You should not be upset about it.
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (11 December 2013):
It's all to do with your pheromones dear.It turns men on sexually.It's the norm throughout the animal kingdom.
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reader, happy140 +, writes (11 December 2013):
 Masturbatory purposes. We don’t like to ask, women think it’s weird, but we always hope that the will accidently leave them for us to enjoy while they are gone.
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (11 December 2013):
I think it is odd. It really weirds me out! I have never heard of that. Whenever I hear of a guy wanting/with panties, I think of a pedator.....but in saying that, you must feel comfortable with it and that is all that matters.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 December 2013):
 I can't speak for ALL guys... but I like to have a pair of my girl's undies so that I can put them in my pillowcase and smell them (her) all night when she isn't here....
P.S. When I CAN convince her to stay the night.. it's less important that I have her undies in my pillowcase... since I can cuddle up to her and get that enrapturing fragrance all night, no matter....
P.S. I mean, of course, that she stays in my guest room, and I go in there to get that aroma!!!!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 December 2013):
 Oh yeah, trophy or fetish, one of the two.
I'd give them to him ONLY if he didn't have a collection of other women's panties. I'd feel weird if my used panties were number 45 in the collection.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 December 2013):
 I wore my husband's tidy whities during the later part of all my pregnancies. Not sure that has any bearing on the subject but there you are.
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reader, methuselah +, writes (10 December 2013):
Hi,
It could simply be a trophy to masturbate with. Or, just a trophy.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (10 December 2013):
 Yeah I've never had that, it's definitely not common! Some guys just have a fetish for used underwear, I hear there is a market for used underwear and stockings. Also probably a trophy.
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reader, like I see it +, writes (10 December 2013):
 Either he has a fetish for women's panties and is too chicken to buy them himself in stores, or he's keeping them for exactly that - some sort of souvenir collection.
Given the ease and anonymity of online shopping nowadays, I'm sorry to say that it's probably the latter.
On the bright side it's not nearly as potentially damaging as if he had, say, pictures of you or video of you together. They're women's underwear; they could belong to at least half the planet (and a few cross-dressers). Highly unlikely that this will come back to bite you in any measurable way.
Best wishes!
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reader, Pr3tty_in_pink86 +, writes (10 December 2013):
Masturbatory purpose, trophy. That's a bit weird.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 December 2013):
 you'll see it on a wall online.....
ewww... I'm 53 years old over 100 partners and I have NEVER had a guy ask me for my underwear...
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 December 2013):
 TROPHY.
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