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Archived questions from: January, 2018 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

Cheater?? Just your first instinct, not full evaluation!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1990 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Ok... Just be straight... Being paranoid, or boyfriend totally cheating on me?? He has a friend contact, saved on his phone as "Wifey S" when questioned, said nothing to worry about, just a female friend.... what are your first thought... backgrou...

How can I help my sister who has spiralled into depression?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2468 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - My sister had faced reality and spiraled into depression. I urged her to seek therapy (not just because of this last episode), but in the meantime she needs support. How can I help her more? Some time ago she had a month long fling with a guy...

Partner has been cheating with my best friend for the past five years.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2491 days ago

29 January 2018 (M) - Me and my girlfriend been together for over 9 years, only couple of days ago she dropped a bomb shell on me saying she’s been cheating on me with my best friend, my heart sunk, I was heart broken to be hearing this. We met in 2009 till now we still ...

Why do men keep long term affairs?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2486 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Why do men keep long term affairs? Those that last a year or more? In the end they end up going back to their wives. So I don’t get it. Do they develop feelings for the OP? Do they not love the wives? ...

Seven Year Relationship - Ended Over Phone Call

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

29 January 2018 (F) - Hi friends... It's been ages since I posted here, however I'm stuck in yet another dilemma. I live with my boyfriend ('fiance') of 18 years. I never got to date, or try others, since I was 13/14 when we started dating. The first few years were g...

Her confession, while turning me on, makes me angry and I feel betrayed.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

27 January 2018 (M) - Where do I start? My wife and I have been married for close to 17 years and have 2 young daughters aged 10 and 8. We are a happy couple are most probably enjoying the best period of our married life. My wife is hot and still looks amazing......

I want to know if I am crazy for wanting him back!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2500 days ago

26 January 2018 (F) - I had been with my ex boyfriend for 10 years, we were both leaving in the same city. We met in University . He is 32 and I am 27. After finishing his degree he had been looking for a stable job for a while, he was lucky enough to get two job offers ...

I'm addicted to cheating

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

12 January 2018 (F) - Well my life is the biggest mess ever im in two relationships one long distance and one local. Yet i keep dating other guys and girls i just cant seem to stop cheating. What is wrong with me ? I have been abused alot by men i dont know if that has ...

My boyfriend is travelling with another woman and told me not to call him

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

11 January 2018 (F) - My bf told me to stop texting him for 2 weeks. I am on my 8 days of no contact it's really hard specially I am seeing him online all the time. We've been together for 7 years. But recently for the past 2 years we do not see each other in person due ...

His email to his brother hurts more than his affair

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2522 days ago

10 January 2018 (F) - My partner and I have been together for 3 years in January, he cheated on me with someone I knew in October. In our bed When I was away for 2 days. When I came back he acted like nothing had happened but I knew in my heart and then my friends told ...

Events of 30 years ago still hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2536 days ago

9 January 2018 (F) - my husband had an emotional affair with my mom, and this went on for four years, as she died in an auto accident. He claims sure was fun to be with and that all they did was kiss, no sex. #1 how could it last for this long with non sex, # how can ...

He ended it after 15 years and I can't move on

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - hi my name is carol and upto 3 years ago i was havein an afair it lasted 15years but one day he said he couldet see me any more but never realy said why i was deversteted and still am thort after all them years i desevred better i still miss him and ...

I think he's cheating and we had unprotected sex!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2535 days ago

7 January 2018 (F) - I posted a question few weeks ago about this guy that I’m seeing, a 46 years old physician divorced with no kids. From the beginning I made my dating rules clear and told him that I don’t want to have any physical contact or intimacy if he is seeing ...

Did my husband realise that he was wrong or was the grass not really greener on the other side?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2537 days ago

6 January 2018 (F) - I've been married for 8 years and a month or so ago my husband started hiding his phone and staying out all night until the morning. On top of that he was treating me very poorly. I knew there was another girl in the picture. I saw text messages but ...

How do I handle her cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2538 days ago

5 January 2018 (M) - after marriage my wife got pregnant third time. she aborted because she did not want three children. but i wanted. i have doubts about this abortion at that time and i was doubting some one in our family. 2. one day my wife had two red marks on...

Behavior towards my ex girlfriend who cheated and lied, did I act good?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2542 days ago

4 January 2018 (M) - So I'm 19 year old guy and I was in a relationship with a cute girl, she's 17. After a month she dumps me over text. She was even planning for us to go to the gym together. 2 weeks later I found out out that she has cheated on me and got in a rel...