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reader, Stepmama  +, writes (15 January 2018):
Read a book by Patrick Karen’s, sex addicTion is like all addictions and the fact that you are aware and reaching out sounds like you have a great prospect of kicking it with help
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 January 2018):
 I agree with the therapy because your line of thought is seriously messed up.
The fact that others in your past hurt you doesn't mean you now should have a free pass to hurt others.
Go find a counselor and STAY single. That way you can date around and have your casual trysts without hurting people who actually CARE for you.
You need to work on yourself and doing therapy or counseling might give you the tools to figure this out for yourself.
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reader, N91  +, writes (12 January 2018):
 What you went through is no excuse to hurt other people.
Break off all your relationships, seek help for what you went through and don't get into any more relationships until you don't have the urge to cheat.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (12 January 2018):
 Being abused isn't an excuse to cheat.
Being bisexual isn't an excuse to cheat.
I'm so sorry you were abused, but you're messing with people and that's not fair.
It's great that you've come here and know you need to stop. You need therapy, though.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 January 2018):
 End the relationships you are in at the moment. Being abused is not an excuse to go on and hurt other innocent people. The best thing you can do for yourself at the moment is end both relationships and seek therapy. You obviously have demons that you need to face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2018): I mean treated badly by men verbal and physically abused and sexually mistreated. Also had a strict upbringing where i wasnt allowed out the house to socialise. I am also bisexual and never told my familybecause dont think.they approve
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 January 2018):
 What do you mean by "abused"? If you could give more info, it would be helpful.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (12 January 2018):
Then you need to do what addicted people do to get better - therapy.
End all of your relationships and be single until you can be in a relationship without cheating.
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