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Archived questions from: 6 July, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Fathers in the delivery room: who should have the final say?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4556 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - I had an interesting conversation with my boyfriend earlier about fathers in the delivery room. I'd like to find out what others make of the issue! My boyfriend said he'd rather not be in present, but if the mother wanted him there he'd compl...

I've fallen for my lecturer, but I'm in a relationship. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4555 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a terrible problem. I am a 28 year old in a relationship we are planning to get married. I was very happy with my life until I went back to college as a mature student..now BOOM! I think I have fallen for my lecturer..or at least I am ...

How broke is too broke in a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4553 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - I have asked twice before. I still didn't break up with my long distance boyfriend in spite of aunts and uncles telling me so. Some aunts told me his insecurity would cause problems. One uncle said this is a fantasy relationship. My mom told me t...

We have a connection, but run out of topics to discuss. How do we learn to communicate with soul searching conversations?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (M) - So I've got my girlfriend, whom I'll have been dating 5 months on the 10th. I really really want to have a real relationship with substance and communication and love. She desires the same. From an objective standpoint, we're really good togethe...

I said no to going further. But am I still a virgin, based on what happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Okay so there's this military guy i met with. I just wanted someone to date.. we went out to dinner. i dropped him off to on base i get out the car we made out he was groping me and hugging me tight. Then we meet up again the next day ( i am a vir...

Is this a good idea to surprise my BF in this way, in another room, while the housewarming is in progress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - My new housemate and I are having a housewarming this weekend and obviously the guy I am seeing will be there. My guy loves receiving oral sex and I love giving it but I have never done it without him first asking. I want to surprise him...

I give, he takes. My business is in debt, he refuses to get a job. Does he love me? Should I tell him to move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Hi My financee works for a company I set up 3 years ago. The business is going poorly.I started with my own money, and it is in my name, as he has no money of his own. It has a overdraft of a few thousands of dollars now and no income coming in....

I work with her, she has a GF and she's not my type. So how can I get over my Crushing for this girl?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - Ok so, I'm tired of analyzing this situation myself so I am reaching out for advice. I started a new position about 6 months ago and there is this girl at work who I knew was a lesbian but seemed disinterested in getting to know me, so I never b...

She hurt me a lot and after all the stress she brought me, I think I forgot to appreciate the good times. Should I try to be friends again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4557 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - I'm having some inner conflicts with my mind. Ever since about 5th or 6th grade, I had a close friend. We got closer as we progressed through high school, and suddenly I realized I had a best friend. We would talk for hours on the phone, have fun...

How can I finish this relationship with my employer? I want to, but don't know how to get the courage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - i got a job as a househelp i wanted to accumulate cash so i could continue with my studies,but things didnt turn the way i expected my boss started approaching me,because his wife has mental problems. Within a month i gave in it has been five mon...

How can a gay guy feel comfortable around straight guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (M) - I'm a gay male that acts masculine. Not everyone knows I'm gay but I'm afraid to be around other guys. I feel much better being around women. When I get around guys I feel like I don't fit in. I fill like a alien. I don't act feminine at all but ...

How can I learn to be myself around others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (M) - I don't know how to be myself when I'm around other people. I always get scared that I may be talked about and wouldn't fit in. I tell myself to be myself but when I get around people I get nervous and chicken out because I'll think I'm being talked ...

I'm not sure I love my husband, or if he loves me. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

6 July 2012 (F) - I am a 33 years old woman - successful career with 2 beautiful kids. my problem is that i don;t think i love my husband or he loves me. My husband loves to spend time with my kids but not with me, i know he is not having an affair and whenever i ...