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anonymous
writes: I don't know how to be myself when I'm around other people. I always get scared that I may be talked about and wouldn't fit in. I tell myself to be myself but when I get around people I get nervous and chicken out because I'll think I'm being talked about and then I'll get to feeling weird and get into my quiet shell and stop trying. How can I learn to be myself around others and feel great about it. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2012): Almost everyone is thinking the same as you believe it or not! easier said than done but really most people are worried about how they are coming across to others. Be yourself, honestly I bet your much nicer and interesting than you think.
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reader, sweetiebabes +, writes (6 July 2012):
You need to stop having negative emotions and thoughts and start working out on how you can start believing in yourself.Whenever you are with people just be yourself and be confident and be aware always of your negative thoughts and feelings. Whenever your negative emotions are building up instantly interrupt them with positive emotions from feeling fear to courage or being confident. Think of something that would give you the power to break off your negative emotions. Believe in yourself. You are also a human being like the rest, like us. Care more about yourself than what other people think about you. If you care about yourself people will also start noticing you and you will gain friends. Start today on how can develop your confidence, develop something that would give you pleasure to do things you like to do and be passionate about it. HAVE POSITIVE DIRECTIONS IN YOUR LIFE!
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