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Archived questions from: 7 November, 2017 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My confidence issues are stopping me asking for a date.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2557 days ago

7 November 2017 (M)

age 30-35 - Started messaging a girl I knew from school a few years younger than me around 3 months ago but she'd just gone travelling. It was fun and kept it up throughout her trip and her interactions with me on social media increased so thought she might be interested. I wasn’t really ... (709 words)

There is no intimacy in our marriage .... is my wife having an affair?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years. Beginning of marriage the sex life was great. Then all of sudden I had to wear a condom didn't want me to orgasm inside her. The kissing stopped was only just a peck on the cheek or lips. Once a month she has dinner and drinks with her ... (130 words)

I feel keeping me a secret makes me disposable.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I am seeing (dating?) a guy, though problem is, he is my ex's friend. I knew the guy first, and my ex knows we spend time together because we've been friends for years, but my ex is somewhat of a ring leader and if he doesn't like something or someone - his little minions will ... (280 words)

I'm in a mess I cant walk away from

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2567 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - Urgh, what a mess. An old colleague messaged me to ask how I was getting on. We never really interacted at work. The messages very quickly became flirty. We are both married. But we met for coffee and there was definitely sexual chemistry. We discussed it and d... (332 words)

I'm (21M) receiving ridiculously mixed signals from my best friend (18F)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (M)

age 26-29 - I met this girl during the summer when she was single and 2 months fresh after her breakup with her 3-year relationship and after two months of just getting to know her, I confessed how I felt but at the time she rejected me because she wasn't ready. We continued to be ... (966 words)

My older boyfriend makes more money than I do. I'm worried that I'm not contributing enough

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm dating a man much older than me. He earns a lot more than I do and is very generous so is always the one spending when we are together. Apart from the spending he tends to plan our dates (which I like because he has so many great ideas and he thinks and finds them much ... (162 words)

My friend refuses to leave her abusive fiance. I want to help her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 41-50 - My gf is in trouble and she won't do anything about it as she's scared of her fiance. My gf has been with her fiance for approx 2 years now and ever since their relationship began, my gf has openly admitted to me that he's been abusing her verbally in private, he's de... (248 words)

Why did my daughter chose the abusive guy over my grandson?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2570 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid my grandson son was taken by CPS and adopted by a family I don't know.The child was being physically abused by the dad and was removed from the home.My daughter requested that my grandson has no contact with me or my family because from day one this guy was no ... (134 words)

Girlfriend is suffering my depression, my needs are not being met. Do I hope she will get better or end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2568 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm struggling with what to do. My girlfriend has withdrawn from me pretty significantly, and it's making me feel terrible. She struggles off and on with depression, and I'm not sure if this is just a long bout of depression or if she's just lost interest in me. I can't tell ... (603 words)

Does he like me? He has a girlfriend but what's with his behaviour towards me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2546 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - There's a guy who I work with, we work at a recreational centre for youths. I've noticed he's been acting different around me when we work together. I'll list a few examples: whenever we talk, he'll make eye contact and then he looks at my lips, he teases me a lot, I've cau... (152 words)

My husband really wants a dog and I couldn’t think of anything worse!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2566 days ago

7 November 2017 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married for 1 year and dating for 2 years before that. He really wants a dog and I really don't want one. (Both of us don't want kids). 3 years ago, when we met and began dating, he had just moved from another state and given his husky and German... (489 words)