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... Send *ayn a private message | | | *ayn's profile:i'm a musician with a background in psychology and philosophy. i identify as a bisexual man (capable of intimate love relations with women, but more comfortable with men). most people would describe me as smart and quirky and kind. i think. who knows what most people really think! lol
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What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 14 December 2008: i like a girl's hair down. soft romantic clothes. good grooming and a sweet smile. gets my attention!... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 14 December 2008: hmmmmm, no universal answer possible. but plenty of psychological tests would indicate preferences. cultural? for me, i guess arms and neck. hands feet legs. the sex areas are an obvious turn-on.... (read in full...)
My imaginary guy!
Q. Hello, Am I completely insane/ loosing it/ marbles gone missing... to get over the guy that I love I made an imaginary guy up in my head to replace him. It's actually helping me not to think of the guy I love, but I get worried... am I gettin...
A. 14 December 2008: wow, unique. not a bad idea: to have a boyfriend in the head. just don't get too far gone with the fantasy. but ya know, i might try the same technique. thanks!... (read in full...)
I'm gay and in love with one of my best friends - I keep thinking the feeling may be mutual, so should I tell him?
Q. I am a guy and am gay but not out. I have known one of my best friends for about four years now, we are extremely close and just lately I have really been attracted to him but I think he is straight. But I do not know this for sure. He has not had ...
A. 14 December 2008: since he doesn't have a girlfriend. and he must sense that you love and desire him. i think he's interested.... (read in full...)
Is he..straight, bisexual or gay?
Q. My best friend and I live together. We love each other very much, to the point that we function as each other's significant other. Many of our friends (and enemies) think of us as a couple. This has only been going on for 6 months. We are also in a ...
A. 8 October 2008: thanks for answering. well, i did discuss it with him and he got pissed about how sick fags were. i'm sure he has issues. but i can't fix his head. we've backed off the physical stuff. i want our friendship to survive. thanks again.... (read in full...)
I'm thinking my husband may be gay or bisexual; what should I do?
Q. I really need help figuring out if my husband is gay or bisexual. I have a gay brother and we have been going out with him pretty regular to the local gay club. I have no problem hanging out there just to be around my brother. This past weekend we ...
A. 4 October 2008: i'm bisexual. i have friends who are bisexual. maybe this term is thrown around these days to be cool. but it's also a reality for some people.
your husband may want to have sex with men. but he also enjoys sex with women or he would not be with ... (read in full...)
Does this confession about his past mean my boyfriend is GAY?!?
Q. Ive been going out with my boyfriend for a while and recently he just confessed something to me that hes never told anybody. When he was younger he had a gay friend (he didnt know he was gay). One night when he stayed the night at his friends house ...
A. 4 October 2008: if you really love this guy, then try and discuss, in a rational way, how you feel. if he has had several experiences with men then he most likely enjoyed it. which means he is bisexual to a degree. being bisexual--like me and some of my male ... (read in full...)
I dared him to put my penis in his mouth. He did. How do I pretend it didn't happen?
Q. I hope this really is annonomous. I can't believe that I'm even writing this. I have a really close friend, OK, my best friend named Tony. I've been married a little over 5 years, and been best friends with Tony for about 3 years. We are very close ...
A. 4 October 2008: give yourself a break dude. according to some serious studies by psychologists, as many as 35% of all men have had some same sex experience. you two were drunk. even if you had let him suck you off, it would not be the end of the world. talk to him, ... (read in full...)
Is my friend bisexual like me?
Q. Hello everyone, ok this is pretty long but those of you that help thanks you. Ok so im pretty sure i am bi, and i have this boy that i have liked and came love. we have talked for a year and have hungout alot and go pretty close bu...
A. 4 October 2008: i think your friend has sexual and/or romantic feelings for you. but at 20 you are much more mature when it comes to knowing your own mind and heart than he is. take it slow and don't rush him. are there legal issues about you having sex with an ... (read in full...)
I am bi-sexual, and my mom has told me, if she finds out that I am bi-sexual, she will disown me, it will kill me if I can't tell her the truth, what do I do?
Q. im bi and i dont know how to tell my parent my mom already told me that if she ever found out that im bi that she wil say im not her daoughter and it kill me that i cant im afriad what do i do...
A. 4 October 2008: even though you are a young adult, you have the right to feel as you do. be careful not to make your mother too mad right now. in a few years you can be more in control of your legal adult actions. being bisexual is natural for many women and men. i ... (read in full...)
I want to 'come out' but how do I tell my best friend without losing him?
Q. Im 18 years old, and i have known i was gay for a while now. I have yet to tell anyone about my sexuality and im worried that alot of my friends and family may not be ok with it. Particulary, the person i consider my best friend, i already think he ...
A. 4 October 2008: hey brother,
i've been where you are. when i was 18 i was in love with my best friend. he suspected i was gay and in a way he got off on the idea i think. but i was not dating girls any more and he had a girlfriend. so we got into an arguemen... (read in full...)
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