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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, ok this is pretty long but those of you that help thanks you. Ok so im pretty sure i am bi, and i have this boy that i have liked and came love. we have talked for a year and have hungout alot and go pretty close but nothing physical. problem is that i dont know that he is and is 15 and i am 20. i think he is bi by my experiences and things i have noticed. some of my friends have notice them kind of and agree and others dont. people accuse him of being gay or bi alot and he gets mad bout it when anyone asks like he gets real mad.. that kinda makes me wonder if he is? cuz some of my friends if they get asked cuz they are friends with me they simply say no. Somtimes he defends me n him as friends and stuff but not all the time. well out of know where he starts talkin to me and at the time he had a girlfreind. he still would txt me n i would kind of flirt and n stuff n he went along with it. well then i cant remeber how but we stopped talkin but i would still txt him here n there.. then just before i went to school we started talkin again n started to hangout and would go to lunch just him and i sometimes. so we got pretty close.. he broke up with his girlfreind because she cheat on him.. it had nothing to do with me cuz we werent talking then...so you could say we were just friends but here is what i ran into with my questioningwe have freinds.. like i have my freinds and he has his freinds.. if we were just friends wouldnt we all be freinds like as a group? well we arent.. we all never hangout at the same time.. next .. he talks to his best freind about me all the time,, when its just the two of them.. its not like anything exciting but he just talkd bout hanging out with me and that he worries if ill get mad if he goes and does something with out me and he tries hang with me when he is with his friends but they all just say no.this is the big one.. we had a couple fights n always get back to being ok.. last year we were at a party and he past out and i passed out next to him.. well i got a little frisky and started to rub his but then his stomach n then he woke up looked at me n walked away and then left with other ppl at the party.. there were people around but no one could see what was happening.. well he flipped on me n then after bout a week we were ok like the same as we were before... does that not make u wonder?dont tell me what i want to hear but answer me honestly there is alot more but its hard to explain it all... basically for as much shit he gets for being called gay he still talks to me n stuff and never really hangs out with girls really or ever talks bout girls with me.. he does know i am bi and knows that i like him but i deny it but he doesnt believe me n i cant ask him cuz he is soo young.thanks for the help!We first started talkin just by like knowing eachother.
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reader, zayn +, writes (4 October 2008):
 i think your friend has sexual and/or romantic feelings for you. but at 20 you are much more mature when it comes to knowing your own mind and heart than he is. take it slow and don't rush him. are there legal issues about you having sex with an underage man? be careful and be moral.
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reader, localboy831 +, writes (25 September 2008):
Hey wasup man. Alright honestly this guy has feelings for you thatz why he still keeping you around. The reason why hez probably not given in and showing affection back is because like how you said"he get mad when people call him gay or ask him". He doesn't want to accept the fact that he is. And man yooh have to look at the other side of the picture, he's 15, so right there is a big time gap. The boyz young and he may still be trying to figure out what he really wants. Boys or girls. Honestly man at this point if you really want things to work, you need to take things real slow with him. The last thing you wanna do is rush thingz and scare him off. Just keep him close but add some space. If you understand what that meant. Wish yooh luck man.
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