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Twins at 15 ... to all young girls

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5 August 2009: I am 15 years old i was 14 when gave birth and was 13 when became pregnant i was scared when i found out and when u told my mum i may as well have stamped all over her shes the best person i have though all my mates faded away even though they swo...

My story of being a teen mum

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22 April 2009: This is my incredible story on how i had my head on gear and at 13 year old gave birth to twins one girl one boy my little girl is called 'sky marie archer' and my little boy is called 'mason alex james archer' i got pregnant and had twins at only ...

What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?

Q.   Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...

A.   21 September 2009: it is not his desion and he obviously cheated on his new girlfriend with you so maybe he does not want her to find out i wasnt ready i was 13 and was pregnant with twins and you dont need his help i did it with just family and friends helping me and ... (read in full...)

Pregnant used vibrating toy and now I'm bleeding

Q.   i am so scared i am 3 months prego and lastnight i had sex with my partner and we used toys "vibrating dick ring" but its not the first time.. i feel asleep and woke up and i went to pee and wiped my self and i saw blood nothing huge but something ...

A.   21 September 2009: you are 3 month pregnant when i was pregnant at about 11 weeks i had this thing that is called spotting where slite blood is on your nickers or tissue when you wipe but not enough to think you are on your period search it on the internet or to make ... (read in full...)

Pregnant, cheated on b/f and now not sure who is the father

Q.   Hi , im a pregnant teen and like most teen moms out there , i have many problems with my boyfriend. The main problem is , we dont know for sure if he's the father. I admit i cheated on him and i own up to what i did , but we both find it hard to ...

A.   14 September 2009: q1605 this girl came on here for help and at the end of the day she cannot turn back the time. i have been there, i am a teen mum of twins and i am 15. i think that the first thing you need to do is tell your mam. dont bother saying oh i will ... (read in full...)

I've been missing periods, and I'm not sexually active, so what's the problem?

Q.   Hi I started my period in January 2007 and to start with they were really irregular, like in June of that year I had two 7 weeks apart But recently i have been kind of getting into a 3-5 week cycle. But now I haven't had a period since 11th July ...

A.   6 September 2009: your only young your body is changing... (read in full...)

I woke up to find I had wet the bed! I'm 18! Is something wrong with me?

Q.   okay so this is REALLY awkward for me, but I woke up this morning and saw I wet the bed! I haven't wet the bed since I was TEN!! What's wrong with me? I'm 18 years old and wetting the bed again? are you SERIOUS right now! I would've been soo ...

A.   6 September 2009: are u worried about something where you drinking the night before did u go to the toilet last thing at night ... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant, if we had unprotected sex?

Q.   Ok so if been on birth control pills for about a year now. Like two weeks ago I stop taking them because of risks and stuff. Four days later after I stoped taking the pills me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and he ejaculated inside of me. ...

A.   2 September 2009: home pregnancy test ?... (read in full...)

I want to get her something that will show her I love her

Q.   I want to get my girlfriend something that says I love you and I'll do anything to prove it. There is no special ocasion I just want to get her something. She's 14 so nothing sexual. I buy her flowers every now and then so I can't get her that. My ...

A.   2 September 2009: you cannot buy love prove it to her i am 15 and mum of twins and i love it when my boyfriend gets a film from the dvd rental shops and then orders a takeaway and then we lie on the coach and he tells me he loves me thats what makes me feel spec... (read in full...)

Do guys prefer small, petite girls?

Q.   Do guys prefer small, petite girls? I'm 4'11. Most of my guy friends love short girls, but I have met some who prefer 5'6 and over. What do you think?...

A.   2 September 2009: guys are like magazines there are loads of differant sides to the storys for eg. some lads like tall girls/some like small, some guys like skinny girls/some curvey some lads like girls with loads of make up some with none theres not one lad the ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is selfish in bed, should I break up with him?

Q.   I care about my boyfriend, but in bed there is no satisfaction. He won't do things for me and I'm beginning to think that he is very selfish. Although he asks me what I want him to do, I don't feel like he will listen so I don't bother. I'm s...

A.   2 September 2009: why dont you tell him what you want and see ... (read in full...)

The reality of being a teen mum

Q.   I see a lot of young girls on here who want to become mothers so I thought I'd share a few thoughts on the reality of becoming a teenage mum. I was 16 when I fell pregnant, my boyfriend 18. I'd just finished my GCSE's and planned to go back to schoo...

A.   24 August 2009: hey i am also a teen mam and thought i would share my story i was only 13 when i fell pregnant and 14 when i gave birth ( i am now 15) when i was pregnant all my friends where like 'oh a cannot wait' or 'they are going to be lovley' (they beca... (read in full...)

Have I lost my virginity or not?

Q.   Hi. I am a 19 year old female. I have been with a guy now for a little over 8 months and We both know that we will be together for life. We play around sexually like 3 or 4 times a week. I was a virgin when I met him. At first it started off just ...

A.   24 August 2009: hey really if he has put his penis even in a little you are not a virgen and i am glad that you are not going to regret it as you remember your first time for the rest of your life it sticks into your head, also i think you are really sensible to t... (read in full...)

Is being fingered considered as losing your virginity?

Q.   is being fingered considered losing virgin? please answr me,i really need the answer...

A.   24 August 2009: darling you cannot loose your 'V' without a penis going up you so you are still a virgen if you are worried about things like this you are not ready to be doing stuff like this x... (read in full...)

How can I get her to be my GF

Q.   how could i impress a girl to b my girlfriend/?...

A.   19 August 2009: Hey Its not about impressing her its about love and when you like a person you havent got to act just be yourself i personaly hate it when lads show off infrount of differant lasses when they are really canny in real life what happens if this gir... (read in full...)

We never do anything together but she just says that I complain too much!

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for around a year now, And we are currently on an 8 week holiday from college, And I've only seen her once in 6-7 weeks. And that was only after I spoke to her and told her that we never do anything together...

A.   19 August 2009: you sound like a really nice guy and i wish more men would take a leaf out of your book, well your girl friend really is not treating you right andsounds like she is trying to make you jelous by saying she is going somewhere then not asking you tell ... (read in full...)

Twins at 15 ... to all young girls

Q.   I am 15 years old i was 14 when gave birth and was 13 when became pregnant i was scared when i found out and when u told my mum i may as well have stamped all over her shes the best person i have though all my mates faded away even though they swo...

A.   6 August 2009: hi hun thankyou for surport and i wish you good luck in the future and i know you will be a great mum one day :) it is hard it takes me two hours every morning to get them up/teeth/wash/nappies/food/ready everymorning but do you no what thats my... (read in full...)

I'm pregnant and unsure which path to take

Q.   I'm 15 years old and I recently just found out I was pregnant. I had all the period symptoms but it just never came so I took a home pregnancy test and it came out positive. It was devastating, I remained calm and tried not to panic. I told my...

A.   5 August 2009: i was 13 when i feel pregnant i am now 15 with one and a half year old twins its the best thing in my life, it has been a realy strugle but i would not have it any other way do not abort but just think it might be your only chance to have a baby... (read in full...)

How can I get a pregnancy test kit without my mum finding out?

Q.   hello im 14 and i need a pregancy test how can i get one without my mum finding out? i want to make sure i am before i tell my mum as she will go mental if she found out...

A.   5 August 2009: superdrug - £3 pound i have had twins at 13 i am now 15 you think your mams gonna blow your head of shes not she will be upset because your her little girl and if you are that worried about telling your mam dont have sex as acidents do happe... (read in full...)

Irregular periods but I have pregnancy symptoms! Help!!

Q.   Hii, Im 16 in a few months with a problem.. I have a VERY irregular period (3 months between them normally),but I think im pregnant! I took a pregnancy test which came out negative but I think I took it too early (I month after unprotected sex) i...

A.   4 August 2009: hun anoo how your feeling i went there i am a teen mum who is 15 now to twins i understand you cannot always go to the doctor like i couldnt ... so what i did was somthing that may sound stupid but please trust me speak with your mam i did i will... (read in full...)

Goth or Diva?

Q.   i need help.im going in to middle school and i wanna become a goth or a diva.my friend says if i become a snotty diva she won't be my friend no longer.but my dad says that if i should become a snotty diva to show dont mes with me who should i listen ...

A.   31 May 2009: i used to be popular and a bit of a bitch it didnot work fights started and everything just went down hill i no a friend who got stabbed for been a goth she is sill alive but not the point now i am just my self and the happiest i have ever bee... (read in full...)

Pregnancy test came back negative but I still havent got my period!

Q.   My period is almost three weeks late and i have been experiencing several pregnancy symptoms. Increased fatigue, increase in vaginal discharge, and today i felt some sharp stabbing-like pain in my upper left abdomen. I have taken a clear blue colour ...

A.   7 May 2009: go and buy another one and take it can i also ask how old you are if you are only a teen it is commen to be late on your period but still take it, and if you realy want to put your mind at rest go and see a doctor/GP or someone from your local ... (read in full...)

A request to all the young teens out there

Q.   well i have realised that in the past few weeks there are so many young girls coming up with just one problem thats PREGNANCY.. why are the young teens underage(11-17) so unaware of the consequences it is soo sad that at the age of 13 or 14 instead...

A.   27 April 2009: hey to jorjax1x i hope you are okay i have had twin i am 15 years old and from my point of veiw i am happy and want to share my experiance with people that why i have a question set up i bet she is doing a great job as i know i am it is a realy ... (read in full...)

My story of being a teen mum

Q.   This is my incredible story on how i had my head on gear and at 13 year old gave birth to twins one girl one boy my little girl is called 'sky marie archer' and my little boy is called 'mason alex james archer' i got pregnant and had twins at only ...

A.   27 April 2009: yeaa i do thankyou i just want to share my story and give other people advice some one please writee x... (read in full...)

Confessions of an Agony Uncle

Q.   On the 4th of November 2008 I signed up for a name and posted my first answer on this site. It was some quiet advice on career choices. Last night I posted my 100th. Just a bit of general advice on sex. In between I've gotten my ire up about ...

A.   22 April 2009: well i do agree i have asked questions and i keep in touch and enjoy doing that...it gives me a break from my twins as i am only 13 it bring you back to realaty but yea i would respect it if people wrote back ... (read in full...)

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