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writes:I am 15 years old i was 14 when gave birth and was 13 when became pregnant i was scared when i found out and when u told my mum i may as well have stamped all over her shes the best person i have though all my mates faded away even though they swore they wouldent i got abuse in the streets and even spat at! people where awful but i still would not change being a mum even though i am young but nothing could preper me for the feeling i had when i found out it was twins i was scared my boyfriend left me i was alone i had to grow up i lost my child hood i missed going to partys but it is not all bad i loved the cravings they where the best and when i was 7 months pregnant i met a boy who i have been with ever since and its his name on the birth setificate the other dad never wanted to get involved i was happy and when my gawjuss twins came in to the world it was a new feeling i was over joyed but during the months that folowed i felt like somthing was not right like i was letting them down, i was not my self i went to the doctors and found out i was suffering from post-natel depression but a few months later after medication i was almoust back to my own self and i love them to bits i will sit there on a night and think i am so lucky i have got everything but it wasnt all that easy and if i could go back i would have been more careful but a do love them both loads you are tierd and the time and my hormoans are all over the place but i cannot and this is my life and for all those girls who go out and get pregnant on perpose it is stupid you dont want to throw your life away whenyou dont have to and if you are having sex use protection like condoms..pill..implant just dont make the same mastake belive me you are not ready i thought i would be even though i never got pregnant on perpose but i wasnt it does not just affect you it affects everyone around you my mum got spat at she lost friends she got pointed as being a bad perant when shes not i was her little princess and she does no look at me the same no more it hurts but i must have hurt her... i jugle work, school and being a mum of twins all at 15 does that sound ideal?they are my world though x
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reader, love-x-him +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Heeloooo :)
That is absolutly fantastic :) You have done an excellent job on looking after your babas and i wish u all the luck in the future :) U sound like an absolutly fab mum :) Well done hunniebunch ( Dont ever let anyone put you down for your situation ,,) You will have clearly done a better job than them.. x
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reader, Youngmummy +, writes (6 August 2009):
Youngmummy is verified as being by the original poster of the question hi hun thankyou for surport and i wish you good luck in the future and i know you will be a great mum one day :) it is hard it takes me two hours every morning to get them up/teeth/wash/nappies/food/ready everymorning but do you no what thats my fave part of the day and the thing thats good is that my daughter sleeps well she sleeps till eight and my boy sleeps till 6 so i get one of them ready then the other when i am a school my mum and gran have them they swap days but now its the school holidays i am living independently and my mum only does the odd bottle or bath i dont rely on my mum as we live in a fairly big house i have the third floor for my family it has mine/boyfriends room a bathroom a bedroom for the babys and a kitchen that we got made so i could try life as a family i make the meals such as sunday dinner which i have to blend for the babys and i go down stairs to see my mum or go out i have a job and try to pay as much as i can my boy friend has a job to xi couldnt wish for a better life
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reader, love-x-him +, writes (5 August 2009):
Hii hunnie x
I have just read everything,, in detail!
Wow youve got so much going on in your life!! First of all, i wanna say congratulations to your beautiful twins. You have done an amazing job, giving birth too, and bringing up twins.
It is absolutly nobodys business to judge you or your mum!! It's fantastic that you have got a new partner, and he is the baby's father for the future, as that child of a lad ( Who got you pregnant ,,) clearly was an idiot..
I have wanted children ever since i was a child myself ( Around 14 it got serious ,,) I have been with my partner for the past 3 and a half years, we now have a mortgaged hosue together and have both got steady well paid jobs. I myself am now 18 and my partner is 23. I am ready for a child, and when i was 17 ( A month before my 18th birthday ,,) I fell pregnant, however lost my baby at 12 weeks and 5 days. I know nowadays everyone seems to be pregnant and having children and the majority are in fact younger than 18. However its not easy especially with twins, and i think your story has shown this well.
:) x
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