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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for around a year now, And we are currently on an 8 week holiday from college, And I've only seen her once in 6-7 weeks.And that was only after I spoke to her and told her that we never do anything together, Seeing as I proposed to do something a couple of times before but never got a reply. I haven't spoken to her in nearly two weeks now, She's never on MSN, And she never seems to have any credit on her phone. So we end up not talking. Though, Three weeks ago there was a festival on, And I spoke to her the same night, She never told me she was going and never invited me ! She has done this countless times. I bring up the matter/s, And she keeps telling me I'm wrong, I always complain, And that she loves me.I don't know what to do, Help please ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Thank you very much guys & girl, And yes, Youngmummy, That's what I mean, Surely she can just pick up her land line and phone me with that ?
I will add another reply when I speak to her which I don't know when ..
Thank you again for your lovely reply's.
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reader, Claire73  +, writes (19 August 2009):
I think you know what's going on here and hope that if you keep the rose tinted glasses on it will go away. Well it wont, she is not interested anymore and doesnt want to be hurtful to you, she is trying to let you down gently. It is over and it's time for you to accept that.
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reader, Youngmummy +, writes (19 August 2009):
 you sound like a really nice guy and i wish more men would take a leaf out of your book, well your girl friend really is not treating you right andsounds like she is trying to make you jelous by saying she is going somewhere then not asking you tell her if you loved me that much you would find a way to get credit on your phone you would make places to meet up with you she would make an effort why dont you suggest use go away for the weekend and if she backs down from that get rid and get a girl that treats you nice enough let me know how you get on x
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (19 August 2009):
Quite naturally you want to enjoy having a social life, and you want to enjoy it with the girl you are dating.If you never get to see each other, spend time together, or even communicate then you have to ask yourself why you are bothering to continue the relationship?I suggest you need to ask her what the problem is, and explain that you are unhappy to continue with things the way they are.And, if that doesn't work, then perhaps the time will have come to find someone else that does want to spend time with instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 August 2009): Sorry dude sounds like shes not into you.Dump her ass, before you get back from college. Whislt ye were in college it was nice and convenient when shes at home she cant be othered making an effort. Sorry but you deserve to be treated better.Id text her and say you want to meet her to discuss something. If she doesnt reply Id phone her and say that you think its not working out and you want to move on.
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