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Confessions of an Agony Uncle

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Article - (13 April 2009) 4 Comments - (Newest, 12 June 2022)
A male United States age 51-59, Fatherly Advice writes:

On the 4th of November 2008 I signed up for a name and posted my first answer on this site. It was some quiet advice on career choices. Last night I posted my 100th. Just a bit of general advice on sex. In between I've gotten my ire up about pornography, Chastised teens for going to far, Told it like it is to repentant fools, Had a few laughs, Given driving advice, Even answered a question about cats.

I've been involved in the past with on line communities and I always strive to remember that these are real people with real concerns. I'm sure I have been duped by some fakers, but in the end the advice is still probably useful to some one. I have really come to enjoy the group here , but it is so fluid with some just popping in to ask one question then never waiting long enough to see the reply's. I suppose if I have one regret it is pouring out my soul to some questioner who never slips in a note to let us know he / she is reading.

I must admit that some nights I lay up worrying that things will work out for the girl who told her parents that her sister was smoking, or the guy who isn't sure if he should ask out his best friend, Or the wife who cant decide if it is time to leave.

I know that I have let my opinions get me in trouble at times, but they are not just my opinions they are me. The distillation of my experience and education, and they will never completely match any other persons. That is the value of this site to the question askers, that they can get many different viewpoints on their situations.

Thanks for being here and listening, I Suppose I'll be around for a long time to come.

FA

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (12 June 2022):

Fatherly Advice is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Fatherly Advice agony auntJust a test post to see how broken the site is.

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A female reader, Youngmummy United Kingdom +, writes (22 April 2009):

Youngmummy agony auntwell i do agree i have asked questions and i keep in touch and enjoy doing that...it gives me a break from my twins as i am only 13 it bring you back to realaty but yea i would respect it if people wrote back

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (20 April 2009):

Fatherly Advice is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Fatherly Advice agony auntI just realized that I am doing the same thing not writing back to thank those who posted. Also thanks to all who have sent me private mail. I have been pretty busy since I posted this. with private mail, which I haven't done so much before. The deference is that in private mail advice you can write very long replies.

Anyway, Thanks for helping me celebrate my 100th post.

FA

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A female reader, SophiaB United States +, writes (17 April 2009):

SophiaB agony auntThank you so much for posting this article! I'm all new to this, but i've found i'm just like you, in the respect that I lie awake wondering.....

I love to help people, so for me this isn't a job, it's a hobbie.

SB

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