Sexless Marriage
Q. My husband and I are in our early 30's. We've only been married one year (exactly). We've only had sex 3 times in our year of marriage. All three times we were drunk. We have no romance in our marriage, we barely touch or hang out, and it seems like ...
A. 19 October 2008: Dont listen to "milfhunter" thats totally stupid advice, how can you advise a married women to have an affair? Try anything you can to bring the spark back into your marriage, have romantic nights in, do things together so you can start enjoying ... (read in full...)
How can I call him without his partner answering?
Q. Should I just ring him? I am totally besotted with a man who got on great with me but had a partner! Nevertheless - I gave him my number and we were going to meet up but circumstances meant we missed each other on the day! - However, he never ...
A. 16 October 2008: How about you put yourself in his wife's shoes... how would you feel if your husband was doing that to you... you wouldnt like it would you, unless he seperates from his wife you have no right to ruin a marriage even though it takes two to tango, ... (read in full...)
She had an abortion the first time but now she's pregnant again!
Q. Me and my girlfriend had sex not too long ago and we've realised she is pregnant, the first time this happened she got an abortion. I'm not ready to have a kid right now and she is and I don't want to break her heart again - what do I do?...
A. 16 October 2008: You cannot keep resulting to having abortions everytime you decide to have unprotected sex, she aborted one baby that should of taught you both a lesson but obviously didnt, you did wrong ( not that i think pregnancy is wrong) so live with it this ... (read in full...)
Pleeeeease say he isn't gay!!!
Q. dear people, I need help - me and by boyfriend have been going out for 5 years, I never used to wonder if he was gay until recently, I mean he has a friend who acts so strange and seeing them both together makes me wonder what kind of relationship ...
A. 15 October 2008: When he is with yu does he act weird? does he like spending time with u? does he like doing the things couples do with u? or u should try using reverse psychology like for example PRETEND that u didnt like gay people and see what his reactions are, ... (read in full...)
What does a guy mean when he says he is "chicken" in getting together with me?
Q. dear cupid, We are both married and I asked him if he wants to get together? He said, we would have to be discreet. I was like good he likes me.. but when the time came, he told me he is "chicken" and didn't want to get caught! What does he mea...
A. 15 October 2008: Chicken means he dont have guts to do it or courage...... (read in full...)
I've found his profile on facebook, would it seem wrong to ask him to be my 'friend' or 'poke' him?
Q. Theres this guy, (a rep from a company) that came into my workplace who I thought was good looking we had a bit of a chat and a laugh he then left. He returned a few days later to speak to my male boss, who at last minute wanted me in on the ...
A. 14 October 2008: Personally i wouldnt... i would wait for him to make the first move, its always best to play hard to get!... (read in full...)
My wife seems to be avoiding me at all costs, she's even sleeping in my daughter's room now! What's up?
Q. My wife and I have been married for 11 years. We have four wonderful children. For the last 2 1/2 months she and our oldest daughter have been on gaia, talking too people. But it seems that my wife is on the computer talking more than the daughter ...
A. 14 October 2008: If i was you i would address this problem NOW before the problem turns to cheating!... (read in full...)
I'm in a 5 year relationship, phone this girl and she says "I didn't know he had a girlfriend!!!"
Q. ok, i been dating my bf for 5 years and 4 months ago he and some friends went to a club and i dont have a problem with that but i noticed he was often hiding his phone when i was around and one day i asked to see it, he said hold on and was deleting ...
A. 14 October 2008: You're right not to believe him, if i was you i wouldnt of let him go clubbing on his own, im not saying keep him locked up but come on clubbing its the number one place to meet people. If that was my boyfriend it would of so been over! he ... (read in full...)
I feel neglected by my married boyfriend. I cheated and now he won't call. Help!
Q. Hello everyone it has been more than a couple months since since i use that site and now here im, back again seeking for help. My boyfriend and I have been togethere for 11 months now, but i keep on asking myself if we are still boyfrien...
A. 13 October 2008: Dont get in touch with him...why are you doing all the running? if he wanted you HE would CALL YOU! forget about him and move on with someone who deserves your time and affection... (read in full...)
I have trouble committing. What do I do?
Q. Hi I met this girl during "vacation" and we had a one month "affair" (she was in an LD). She got in some minor fight with her bf and I could tell that she was waiting for me to ask for some kind of commitment. But every time the opportunity aros...
A. 13 October 2008: If you're finding it hard to commint i think it shows something about your relationship and your feelings for her, i dont think you love her enough to commit to her, if you did love her enough you wouldnt have a problem in commiting... (read in full...)
She flirts with both of us... who does she actually like?
Q. ok so i work with this girl who is always flirting with me, we've gone out partying like every weekend and are close, i really like her. but she also flirts with this guy who i really hate, i don't know what shes thinking, she says that shes only ...
A. 13 October 2008: She may like you and is trying to make you jelouse by flirting with this other guy because she knows you hate him, tell her how you feel... x... (read in full...)
I just started a relationship with a girl who's really happy about it but now that girl that I'm in love with wants me back? What do I do?
Q. I was in a relationship with this girl since January. We fell for each other and i love her so much. We recentl broke up though in August because of a bump in the road that i thought we could work through it. But I guess she didn't think we could. ...
A. 13 October 2008: To tell you the truth i wouldnt get back with the other girl...does she think she can drop you and pick you up whenever she feels like it...i would give it ago with the girl your with now, but if you do want to be with the one you're in love with ... (read in full...)
I can be my siblings' tutor (husband disagrees) or give them into foster care. Should I go against hubby's wishes?
Q. My sister (who's 5) and brother (who's 7) was being abuse by our parents who are now in jail. To a long story short the cops call me asking if wanted to be they'll guardian or they'll be in foster care. I don't want them to live with brunch of ...
A. 12 October 2008: i would look after my siblings no matter what my husband says, they are your flesh and blood noway would i let them go into care... (read in full...)
My father is molesting me and my mother has cancer. What can I do?
Q. It was a few days ago when my mom took me my dads house for the first time after they were divorced. She had to work late that night so i had to stay there until the next day and my dad came in to my room n started talking because he wanted to catch ...
A. 11 October 2008: o my god i got goosebumps reading that, tell someone teacher police anyone there is nothing your father can do once he is arrested, im so sorry you've gone through this, i hope you gain the courage to seek help xxx... (read in full...)
My husband and I have a two week old baby. But I found out he's been hitting on my cousin... What should I do?
Q. I dated my husband for three years we've only been married for a month and have a two week old baby. but he tried to hit on my cousin who is practically my sister. he denies it but i know its true. so what do i do now? do i file for divorce? or stay ...
A. 11 October 2008: Divorce! im sorry i wouldn't stay with him...when he tries it on your cousin imagine what he may be doing with other women, im sorry i dont want to get ideas into your head but i would leave him. x... (read in full...)
I can't get my girlfriend's casual past out of my head!
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together since 3 months now.I am 26 and she is 24.She's beautiful,sexy,honest and fun. My problem is i cant get over her casual past.It keeps haunting me. She has numerous casual sexual encounters and has tried almost...
A. 11 October 2008: Well i think her past has alot to do with, nobody can ever imagine what she must have gone through BUT im sure you knew about her past when you started dating, her past is her past and it should be left there. She says she loves you and you love her ... (read in full...)
I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me.
Q. Hi everyone, I am having suspicions that my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have been having these suspicions for quite a while now, and recently took action to see if anything was going on. The other night as we were asleep in bed I secretly placed ...
A. 10 October 2008: I dont know how on earth you got that idea...i think you should text her of a friends phone so she dont know its you texting her, saying something like "hi sexy, when am i going to see you next" or something along those lines and then wait for a ... (read in full...)
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