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I feel neglected by my married boyfriend. I cheated and now he won't call. Help!

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Question - (13 October 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hello everyone it has been more than a couple months since since i use that site and now here im, back again seeking for help.

My boyfriend and I have been togethere for 11 months now, but i keep on asking myself if we are still boyfriends, everything is not the same anymore, i dont dont remember the last time he said he loves, the last time he sent me a nice message saying that e miss me. I miss all that. My boyfriend he is a maried guy and he the first guy that i have sext with and alson my first boyfriend. I never know that he would of be so danm hard. To make long story short, Last i spoke to him was last tursday nite. This is what happen, i lost my job and my cell phone got disconnected, i can only receive but for a certain time. He is the one who told me now you gona see who is my real friends are well i guess i found out.

Anyway On thursday morning the girl that i love came over my house and we made love. So i told him and he got mad and i said look you are the one who is married and sleeping behind your wife every nite, im not happy about it but what can i do, i have to deal with it. plus we havent make love for almost 2 months now, so dont Start. then he called me thursday night, the first he always say when never he call me is : what am"i doing so i said you always ask me the same question over and over agin then he said ok bye.

well that is the last time i heard from him. I spent friday, saturday and sunday not receive any call from him and remember my phone have been disconnected and i cant call, i can only receive call and he knows that. SO WHAT SHOULD I DO ?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008):

What are you doing sleeping with a married man. You have absolutely no business calling him your "boyfriend", he is someone else's husband. You wouldn't want to be wearing her shoes, believe me...

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A female reader, xelax United Kingdom +, writes (13 October 2008):

Dont get in touch with him...why are you doing all the running? if he wanted you HE would CALL YOU! forget about him and move on with someone who deserves your time and affection

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008):

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i thank you for your answer but since he hasnt call me for 4 days now, should i try to get in touch with him or give him more tme.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2008):

My advice.. move on, you are goin to get even more hurt. One he is married, and obviously never goin to leave.. two you can find yourself a wonderful single person, who will have the time, love and energy to put into your relationship.

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