It seems that my husband would rather visit porn sites than have sex with me...
Q. Is this normal? I have been with my Husband for 14 years and recent I found out that my husband visits porn websites instead of making love with me. He does this 2/3 times per week. This has really upset me as I thought we had a honest and op...
A. 12 April 2005: why don't you try sticking a porno in the VCR and making love while its on. It could be fun, you can watch it and act out all the different positions!... (read in full...)
What's going on with my foreskin?
Q. I am 17 years old, when I get an erection the head of my penis will not come out of my foreskin Is this normal?...
A. 12 April 2005: About 50% of men have this problem. A good idea would be to go see your doctor as it can be sorted out. Some people who never have the problem assessed can have trouble when they have sex. for example, a friend of mine who was in his twenties had a ... (read in full...)
It's been a year and I still cry myself to sleep. How do I forget him?
Q. I'm 13 years old and I'm in love. I'm a gay boy and I know that for a fact I'm not just going through puberty. Anyway I'm in love and I'm curious on how to get over him because I've been crying myself to sleep for nearly a year now and it shows no...
A. 12 April 2005: You're gonna hate me for saying this, but why don't you try talking to your mom. A mom can be a girls best friend and trust me she will know how you're feeling. She's been there herself you know. ... (read in full...)
Looking for suggestions to drive my b/f wild...
Q. I want to keep my boyfriend excited in bed. What are some things that drive guys wild?...
A. 12 April 2005: FIVE WORDS FOR YOU STICK IT ANYWHERE YOU LIKE It'll drive him mad with passion Also, does he have a car?? Hhandcuff him to the head rest and tell him to try to think of anything other than what you are doing to him. Give him an amazing b... (read in full...)
Our sudden break-up has left me wondering what to do next...
Q. Me and my gf have been together for just under 2 years now, she is 17 and I am 20. I can honestly say I truly love her and she loves me. I was her 1st sexual partner and 1st major boyfriend. We've been very happy together but in the past month we...
A. 12 April 2005: A girl can change a hell of a lot between the ages of 15 and 17. she is still young and probably doesn't know what she really wants. I think you should give her a bit of time and then talk to her to try to establish exactly what she's feeling. ... (read in full...)
Maybe he'll want me back if I change, but in the meantime I'm "not what he wants"...
Q. One month ago I was dumped. He told me I wasn't what he wanted anymore. We were best friends, done most things together and I know we both loved each other inside out. A couple of months ago things changed. He wanted to go out every Saturday...
A. 12 April 2005: Sometime people just grow apart; it's nothing anyone says or does. People just grow as they get older (and, no, I don't mean in height). Sometimes something that seemed amazing to start with can change as people discover who they really are. There ... (read in full...)
He's afraid of committment, so he decided to break it off after 2 years. What's going on in his head?
Q. I have been in a loving relationship for 2 years now. Last September I came to London to study for 9 months. My boyfriend said that when we get back we will start making plans to get married. We are both 30yrs old and have had our hearts broken ...
A. 12 April 2005: I totally agree with joonie, the guy has probably done something that he shouldn't. Besides if you want something that he doesn't then it won't work anyway. Besides I know that 30 can feel really old sometimes but trust me you are still young and ... (read in full...)
Mom says he'll deceive me again, but I want to give him a second chance...
Q. Me and this guy was going out, and I broke up with him cause I knew he was keeping something from me. So after we broke it off we didn't talk for the longest time, then we saw each other in a store and we kinda locked eyes (it was really weird) s...
A. 12 April 2005: No matter what this guy ius saying it's pretty obvious that he was being a total idiot the first time around. What's to say he wouldn't do it again? What sort of person goes out with someone just because they want a boyfriend? Just tell him that ... (read in full...)
The girl I want doesn't seem bothered that she already has a boyfriend. Should I be?
Q. I had always liked this girl. I chatted her up and we went out one night and we snogged for ages (about 20 - 30 minutes). However, she is 4 years older than me and apparently already got a boyfriend. I really like her and I am unsure about he...
A. 12 April 2005: To be honest with you, if she has a boyfriend then you should leave it well alone. If she happens to split with her fella then that would be a different story. It would become very difficult if she was still with her guy and you were falling for ... (read in full...)
Until he gets "closure" with his ex, he won't give me a chance!
Q. My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a couple of days ago, as he is still in love with his ex and wants time to get over her. They were together for 7 years and were engaged, but she slept with someone else and he fininshed things with her about 7 ...
A. 6 April 2005: Okay, number one, I think it is highly unlikely that he is actually over his ex, number two, he is probably right that he shouldn't be with you if he can't sort out how he feels abput their breakup and nomber three, Do you really want someone that ... (read in full...)
My husband is ALWAYS home, and it's driving me crazy...
Q. Five years ago, my husband announced that he was going to be working from home. He would keep his current job but since he works with computers he could do his work just as well at home. He also said that he would have to travel more, up to 2 ...
A. 6 April 2005: Have you thought that maybe you actually need to spend more time together. I know that sounds crazy seeing as you want him to go out more but maybe it would be worth while getting a baby sitter sometimes. At least then you would be spending some ... (read in full...)
Bad dating choices in the past have left me full of doubt...
Q. Hi, I have always seemed to go for non-suitable boyfriends and the last one I had I was with for 5 years and he was physically and mentally abusive. It took me a lot to leave him. I had a break from the whole dating scene for about 6 months. Then I...
A. 6 April 2005: Wow it sounds to me as if you really don't know what you want. Have you thought that perhaps this guy thinks that you don't want him? Ifyou said to him that you need some space he might have taken that as you not wanting to be with him. I think that ... (read in full...)
I don't know about him, but I'm scared because I don't know how to kiss!
Q. Hey. I'm 13 years old. I have been out with my boyfriend twice and we have decided to give it another go. We didn't kiss or do anything. We both have never kissed or pulled before. I don't know about him, but I am nervous. I don't know how to pull ...
A. 6 April 2005: You will learn as you get older that its not to do with 'pulling' a guy, its more to do with what you have in common with him. I know when you are a 13 year old girl your boyfriend can seem to be the most inportant thing in the world, but trust me, ... (read in full...)
Do other gay women have straight male friends..?
Q. Is it common or rare/very rare for gay women to have just a friendship with a Straight male?...
A. 6 April 2005: It depends on what the guy wants. Are you sure that he wants a purely plutonic relationship. If he does then I don't see why it should be a problem A lot of straight girls have homosexual female friends and that doesn't cause any friction. I don't ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl who's in love with my best friend's girlfriend! She loves me too, but she won't break it off with him...
Q. Hi I have a big problem. My best friend is a guy and I'm a girl, but I've fallen in love with his new girlfriend. She said she has loved me for ages but won't end it with my best friend. I love her so much and it kills me seeing them together and ...
A. 6 April 2005: Well now, this could be a big problem. You seem to be in a pretty big dilema. I think what you need to do is actually suss out whether or not you are actually in love with each other or whether or not it is lust. You would feel so bad if you broke ... (read in full...)
My new guy says he likes that I give him space... but I want to see more of him!
Q. I met this great guy a few months ago. He comes into the shop where I work, although it took ages for us to speak to each other, as we are both quite shy. I asked my work mate to give him my phone number one night when I wasn't at work. He phoned m...
A. 5 April 2005: Either he has multiple personality disorder or he just needs to grow up a little. If he's not making an effort with you then why should you bother. He can't be that special if he doesn't even turn up! After all, if you have any feelings for someone ... (read in full...)
Can't help myself being a bitch with great new guy...
Q. Please can someone tell me whats wrong with me?!? 8 months ago I was dumped over the telephone by my b/f of 18 months. At the time I was devastated, believing he was 'the one'(obviously I realise now he wasn't!), but over time have realised it...
A. 5 April 2005: HEY HOLD YOUR HORSES! The guy said he loves you after only a few weeks. Regardless of what feelings you may or may not have towards your ex its still too soon for someone to be telling you that and its certanly too soon to be talking kids! Love... (read in full...)
Need tips for new and exciting sex!
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my partner have been having sex for about 6 months now and it's no long exciting or fun...what could I do to make it more interesting and fun for him..? He likes freaky things, so what could I do that is freaky yet comfortabl...
A. 5 April 2005: Let him wrap you in cling film and you do the same for him then cover yourselves in baby oil and have slippery sex. (Might not work too well but you'll have fun trying)!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
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