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I'm caught in the middle here!

Q.   I'm caught in the middle here! I've had an amazing boyfriend for over 4 years now... he's been talking about moving in together and eventually getting married for a while now. I love him dearly and I'd never cheated on him. Met this other guy, 10 ...

A.   18 February 2011: Its sounds like you got played he was honest and upfront with you and I think that appealed to you as it does most woman!! Forget about him he is a waste of time and maybe think abbout ur current situation is ur current bf really what u want maybe ... (read in full...)

Ashamed at being a 20 year old virgin...

Q.   I am 20 years old and a virgin. I have never had a long term relationship and the people i have been with have cheated and treated me very badly. Im not the type to have a one night stand and the fact i was still a virgin never use to bother me as i ...

A.   18 February 2011: No you shouldn't feel embarrased you are awesome the younger people are having sex because they think its "COOL" you stick to your guns you will meet the person that is right for you in time!@!My Girlfriend was 24 when she lost her virginity and she ... (read in full...)

I just want to be 100% happy, not 75% and have to find the other 25% elsewhere.

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months.  We have known each other for 8 years on and off.  I had a crush on him when I was 12.  We never went out or did anything until I was 19 with the exception of a drunk mini makeout session when I was ...

A.   13 February 2011: I think you need to get rid of the current BF but dont dive into a new relationship take some time for yourself take a break from relationships and realise what u would like in a man It may make ur current BF appreciate u more, it seems as u are ... (read in full...)

No matter what position, I cannot achieve orgasm through penetrative sex

Q.   ok this is a little embarassing... I am 25 years old and should know all about this but.... I dont. I have never had an orgasm while having intercourse. I have been intimate with several men and tried every position possible and still no big "O"...

A.   13 February 2011: I think mentally u are putting to much pressure on yourself and when u are about to have sex and really getting into it you start thinking will it happen this time and thats pressure!! I've been with my partner 10 years and we have the best sex... (read in full...)

The ex wants to have sex with me but nothing serious! Do I do it or what???

Q.   As with my previous posts, my sons mum said she will never take me back. yet. 2 weeks ago i was in the gym, fully prepared to try and move on, ive been doing much better of late, well im there and this really attractive woman sits nearby, i ...

A.   9 February 2011: Hey I agree with the first post and the last you guys need to set some ground rules and try remember what made u guys so good in the first place take it back to talking spending quality time together as a family and as a couple maybe try going ou... (read in full...)

So confused. Married but have a huge crush.

Q.   Hello, This is my first post so please be gentle with me! My husband and I got married 6 months ago after 6 years of being together. I didn't have any doubts at all before the wedding. However, only 2 weeks after we got back from o...

A.   9 February 2011: I went through the same thing a few years back I think its alright to lust over someone but not to act because the fact of the matter is you fell in love with ur husband for some extremely good reasons so this is what you should remind yourself of ... (read in full...)

Help! Why doesn't he cum??

Q.   Hi I have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he...

A.   11 January 2011: He hasn't watched porn for a whole day and the sex was ok but he does seem to last longer which is good but I wonder if it cause I'm doing something wrong or he is just finding it hard to cum????... (read in full...)

Help! Why doesn't he cum??

Q.   Hi I have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he...

A.   10 January 2011: he is 27 and i'm 32... (read in full...)

Help! Why doesn't he cum??

Q.   Hi I have been with my partner for almost 10 years we have 4 children. Our sex life has been great we have sex heaps like everyday and sometimes 3 or 4 times a day but I have never been able to give him a blow job where he cums!! And recently he...

A.   10 January 2011: Thanks for ur kind words i will try and talk to him about seeing the doctor... (read in full...)

Jealousy and trust issues without any reason for them?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year.. i do have trust issues he hasn't cheated on me or anything just stuff that has happened with me make me have this. how do i get rid of this? should i go talk to someone? im just so scared he will do ...

A.   9 January 2011: I'm the same as u I have been cheated on and hurt badly. I have a partner now that I have been with for almost 9 years I'm such a jealous person but he knows this we have talked about it and thats my advice to you just ask him not to perv at girls ... (read in full...)

The one time I look through his found I find these pictures of slutty girls!

Q.   Hi I'm so confused and really need some help. My bf of a year just went out the shop and I stupidly looked through his phone. I've had plenty of opportunities before but never took them because in all Honestly, I trusted him. The same still goes, It...

A.   9 January 2011: I would say if it was porn I could understand that too but even then it suxs but men are only human But because its from other chicks and they have sent them to his phone them maybe u should call it quits cause thats not cool!! I found pic's of ... (read in full...)

He touches himself and then denies it!

Q.   my boyfriend knows about my 1st relationship and how screwed up it made me especially being so young and finding my bf/baby daddy watching porn and jacking off instead of getting it from me.there were other sexual traumas but this alone affected me ...

A.   9 January 2011: I think u should just talk it over my partner seems very similar he is more than likely embarrassed that u caught him I have caught my partner and he has similar responds but we have talked about things and I enjoy watching porn as well its kinda of ... (read in full...)

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